@Fawad I thought of replying in this thread and then saw it has turned to a warzone. Now saw some sensible replies. Hence putting my take.
For Saanjh Arjun is the perfect guy. She is living in a lala land where she had fixed Arjun as her prince. A man who needs her to do everything. A man who cannot take one step without her. Basically Saanjh's idea of an ideal man is not someone who can take care of himself but needs her to take care of him. Arjun is that child man. But then such men are not the husband material. You need certain level of maturity to handle that role. He has to have certain independent thinking mind and can take care of himself even in the absence of better half. He should not be tied to mother's apron or Biwi's pallu. But Saanjh is not thinking about such a man as husband. He prefers the child man as she love to take decisions for him. She wants to be the centre of his universe
Maya it is the perception. She believes Arjun can give her physical security from a traumatic past. This funda stems from when he protects her once from Ashwin. She goes behind that perception and has become delusional. Arjun cannot protect her. She too wants herself to be the centre of his universe. So she keeps all the gadgets. As she feels she has no existence if he is not there.
Truth is that Arjun should be pushed to centre. Instead of trying to become the centre of Arjun's life, if the women can push Arjun to centre and play the role of friend or wife, Arjun will be forced to own up actions.
The ladies trying to be the centre of man's universe is making a man not taking any accountability for his actions. Allow the man to be the centre.
It is like Sun and Earth. Sun is the centre, Earth rotates around it. Earth cannot be the centre. If Earth tries to move to centre solar system collapses because sun cannot move 😆 and when you are in centre, you can move only based on the other person's movement, not independent.
In a society dictated by men this is what is happening. A woman is put in the centre calling her Maa, Devi what not. But then she can only move with him. He wont move and wont allow the lady to move, holding the chains. Push him to centre and then come out. He will have to move with you according to time. 😆
Edited by shruthiravi - 8 years ago