Originally posted by: tanvismile
Vandana resorted to emotional blackmailing and saanjh resorted to provoking. But in both situations, they were transparent.
Vandana s situation If u notice she was freaked out seeing turn of events. She even got kidnapped by ashwin.
Saanjh when saw the gifts felt she wants to attract arjun showing the luxuries. All those items were same which were in arjun s wishlist. So she just said what she felt and provoking him to return.
Manipulation is something else. If saanjh knew maya is genuine yet she is provoking arjun against maya then that is manipulating.
Regarding arjun I skipped watching those episodes so can't say anything.
Yes, Maya stabbed Ashwin's leg as a 9-year-old girl but there is no black & white proof for that. Maya had told at the press conference about Ashwin's atrocities but she ended up believing Ashwin. She has conveniently forgotten what Ashwin did to her.
Anyway, instead of going round and round, I say it in one line that basically in this show Vandana and Saanjh eliminates the person and the consequences instead of eliminating the cause why the person is behaving like that.
If any of your family members, has mental illness would you treat the person or would you abandon that person as a first step? (I mean what a man or woman with prudence will do. Don't take it personally). I am looking at that angle that is the main reason why we differ.
Practically, any normal or good family would treat that person and try to heal them. According to me, the actual villain in this show is Ashwin who is dead. When he was alive, he wanted Maya's destruction. If that happens, it will give him victory. So if anyone wishes bad for Maya are indirectly giving a clean chit to Ashwin despite the atrocities he has done. There is no justification to torture a child. Maya needs a second chance, proper guidance and medical help if necessary.