My views about this episode - Page 8

Originally posted by: Fragrance63

I too want a happy ArYa ending in life not death. CVs need to give this message about love, healing and redemption.

Originally posted by: kavsy

Yes, Maya stabbed Ashwin's leg as a 9-year-old girl but there is no black & white proof for that. Maya had told at the press conference about Ashwin's atrocities but she ended up believing Ashwin. She has conveniently forgotten what Ashwin did to her.

Anyway, instead of going round and round, I say it in one line that basically in this show Vandana and Saanjh eliminates the person and the consequences instead of eliminating the cause why the person is behaving like that.

If any of your family members, has mental illness would you treat the person or would you abandon that person as a first step? (I mean what a man or woman with prudence will do. Don't take it personally). I am looking at that angle that is the main reason why we differ.

Practically, any normal or good family would treat that person and try to heal them. According to me, the actual villain in this show is Ashwin who is dead. When he was alive, he wanted Maya's destruction. If that happens, it will give him victory. So if anyone wishes bad for Maya are indirectly giving a clean chit to Ashwin despite the atrocities he has done. There is no justification to torture a child. Maya needs a second chance, proper guidance and medical help if necessary.

Originally posted by: Intuitive

The theme of the show was to prove that "hadh se zyaada kuch bhi acha nahi hota hai, pyaar bhi nahi." That's where they are heading to. It was pretty clear in the start.

Originally posted by: kavsy

hadh se zyada kuch bhi acha nahi means anything that exceeds the limit is not good. So hadh se zyada kuch bhi acha nahi hain, dosti bhi nahin.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@tanvi that's what I said judgement on half information. That cannot be justified. That was their mistake and certain behaviour based on that incident emotional crime.

I am a person who has experienced betrayal in the worst form during my B-Tech. I will call it back stabbing of the worst nature. I also call it a period when I lost my innocence. My ability to trust. Yes one way was to distrust everyone and become a maniac like Maya. The other way was to observe and take a call whom to trust, whom not to trust. Never be the first one to distrust. Let the other prove with action whether they are worthy or trust or distrust. if not worthy of trust keep away from them. You dont need such people in your life or keep the minimum relation as your relation demands or profession demands

I chose the second option because I had people in my life on whom I could trust. They could put me back on the track.

But that experience also taught me one thing, if you dont have such a person the result is Maya's path. You can never come back. Because the battle is not external, it is purely internal.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Well I totally get ur point what ur trying to say. It's not wrong but practically how would it take place? Vandana s fears stem out of pundits and predictions. She doesn't want to ruin her son s life and she feels it's her priority to protect her son. But her behaviour been wrong to maya. There was no need to be extra rude because once maya entered in ur home there is no point showing hatred.

It is the attitude that matters. Vandana has conveniently forgotten what Maya said about Ashwin in the press conference. I don't think Vandana strictly follows what the pundit says. The pundit also said a lot of good things but she chose one negative thing and stressed on the negative thing. Whatever happens, it does not solely depend on one person. There are lots of people playing in that drama. If Saanjh was in that place, would she misbehave with her like that in the name of protecting her son? If you like a person, you would think how to bring the person to the track. As for Vandana's fear towards Maya, when she has the courage to humiliate her, can she not give that love to Maya that she needs, the guidance she needs as an elderly person. Maya was feeling complete after Arjun told her to say Vandana as maa.

Coming to saanjh, saanjh was the only person who supported and welcomed maya. She supported maya against vandana. Her behaviour with arjun affected maya so maya has to discuss with her only friend and saanjh would have taken care of it. What maya did? Eliminated her from their lives. What did saanjh receive? The person who supported against vandana who is very close to her. She trusted maya but got backstabbed.

Yes, Saanjh was sensible at that time. We liked this Saanjh but everything got screwed up after Arjun lied to Maya in the name of the surprise & went to have drinks in the restaurant. Though Maya was feeling uncomfortable with Saanjh & Arjun's friendship, she had tolerated that. She had clearly told Saanjh to limit her relationship wth Arjun only as a friend. Even Suman warned Maya against being the third wheel between Arjun & Maya. Would any sane/decent person call another person in the middle of the night? especially to her best friend who is already married. that is the first mistake she made. Arjun was drunk when he talked nonsense but Saanjh was not drunk. Why didn't she stop him when he got intimate with her. Thanks to the tattoo, otherwise she would have kissed him on his chest too.

Maya no where is in position to receive any help. How are saanjh, Vandana suppose to help maya?

I understand maya needs treatment but how is anyone suppose to guide her?

Tables have turned. Maya was oppressed by ashwin but now turned into oppressor. Now she is no more a victim. She is victimising others.

How can you cay that Maya is not in a position to receive help when Vandana did not even make an effort of even 2 cents? Maya cannot change overnight. A lot of patience is needed and only a mother can have that patience. Yes, if a victim does not get the treatment on time, that is what happens. A victim, in turn, will victimize others. I know that you may say that one rotten mango spoils all other good mangoes but it is in mango's case but Maya is not a fruit. She is a human being, normal or not but she is a human. Vandana as a mother or elderly person has made absolutely no effort to bring her to track.

Originally posted by: kavsy

I have answered in blue.

Originally posted by: Intuitive

Yes,it isn't. And wasn't that the reason Saanjh went away?

Anyways, wasn't the topic about Maya and Arjun? 😆