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Posted: 8 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@ashi if you remember a scene where Ayan tries to hug Maya or simply pat her, then Arjun comes in between or Ayan gives the flying kiss to Maya Arjun catches it. Why we are in 21st century. Why did Arjun feel bad about those quite innocent gestures of adoration from his brother for bhabi. Ayan didnt mean anything wrong. From the time the relation is known Ayan is calling Maya Bhabi respectfully. Even yesterday epi he tells Your son, but Maya he addresses as bhabi only after all this fiasco. So in the 21st century Arjun having problem with Ayan gestures which are crossing limits is acceptable. Is it because he is a man or simply because he is a human and any husband will feel a bit insecure with someone else even if it is his own brother behaving that way with his wife. If you ask any man he will say he will fee a bit insecure

Coming to Maya due to her past it goes beyond normal insecurity. Problem here is Saanjh is not just a friend, she has claimed she loves Arjun. A wife will feel insecure in close promixy where emotions more than platonic is involved. Which we all know exists in Saanjh. Even yesterday when Arjun tells I love you, her face showed the blush. I am not telling Saanjh is having any bad intend. But it is time for her to keep a limit for her sake and for everyone's sake. To ensure she doesnt allow Arjun to rule over her where he drank alchohol like anything which his wife had not allowed him to take or his wife had prohibited him to take which Saanjh knows. When Arjun tells I love you to Saanjh a woman who claims to love him, what should a wife feel.

Post marriage however close you are dont hide it from your wife. If you are female friend have a courtesy to inform your male friend's spouse I would prefer to talk to him on the issue of him and his mother as friend. Hope you dont mind. Maya would have been fine if Saanjh had told her this much. You are a woman. How will you feel if another woman behaves with your husband the way you behave with her husband.

As I said earlier also I dont hate Saanjh. But then though her intend is right, her actions are incorrect which will lead to many problems.

I am telling Saayan will happen not because I want to ship any jodi, but I feel from the story point that pairing is needed. Because else the past will play out once again in Arjun and Maya's life. if the past has to change, its direction has to change for a better outcome Saayan has to happen as I see the story at this point.

Thanks a ton for explaining in a such a calm and sensible manner Shruthi di🤗 And thanks for not judging me as a Saanjh fan or Maya hater.
The point of my post was not to condemn Maya for being insecure.Maya's insecurity was natural.
Neither was it meant to glorify Saanjh.

But what bothered me is that some of the accusations with Saanjh faces are not reasonable.

As you said,her actions maybe inappropriate but her intentions are not.She has never stated or thought that Arjun should leave Maya and return to her.She is a genuine well wisher for ArYa.
And again someone stated that Saanjh needs to die or Saanjh is trying to become Arjun's mistress.That was grossing.
It's equal to saying that Maya is a full fledged psychopath.

In this matter Arjun is more to be blamed than Saanjh.He was more at fault.Yet he never gets the flak like she does.Arjun is playing with the emotions of both the girls.Though the difference here is that Saanjh allows him to do so while Maya keeps him in check.

I am not against SaaYan.As long as it fits in the story,I am fine with it.
But it should sync with the story.I don't Saanjh and Ayan to get together just because Saanjh has to get out of ArYa's life.




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Posted: 8 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: TheUnique

I don't understand why Arjun lies to Maya about meeting Saanjh.! They are just friends so why lie? 😆

Such posts only makes me feel more repulsive towards this character Saanjh!
Why is Saanjh targeted? I think we had a zillion posts on this!
But the views can't be changed, so why don't you make posts on how great and divine Saanjh is and shower your praises there instead of making such lame posts!
If some people don't like her character learn to accept that ...everyone can't love Saanjh and every person can't have similar views!
You guys are there to love her and this forum has more Saanjh lovers than Maya!
So what if a small group of delusional ArYa fans (delusional acc to you) is saying is bothering you so much that you are dedicating posts on them! 😆
Does the people with no sense, no logic... the delusionals ..the immature and insecure ones opinions and views matter so much to you that you are making posts like these! 😆
This is really amusing to see that our opinions are taken so seriously when you have such notions about the people supporting Maya and ArYa! 😆



Baby ! You mirror my thoughts every time... 😆😆😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
#73
@Ashi you told a point correctly. Arjun. Who will stop him. He is playing with both girls, enjoying the best of both worlds. Else he too would have told Maya he is going to meet Saanjh. No he didnt. Why are they afraid of what Maya will feel if they dont have anything to hide. Maya keeps him in check but as long as Saanjh is there he will not be in check. He will find the way to float all the vachans he gave to Maya. Because from day one I had known Arjun is a non comittal guy, kind of MCP not entirely, but he is a MCP the way he deals with VM as well as Saanjh. VM and Saanjh doesnt find any fault with him. He is the innocent lamb.
If you look the past Arjun's dad had 2 women in his life, Maya's dad also had 2 women in his life. At this point Arjun also have 2 women one Maya and another Saanjh. If someone tells me after enjoying the wealth and power of Maya she is proven full fledged psychopath if Arjun comes to Saanjh she should be waiting there with open arms. Like Kuch Kuch hota hai. Have the cake and eat it too. You can like your friend when she is tomboyish, the moment her saree fluttered in the wind and rain love happens😆😆. You go and stop her wedding because now your wife is not there, you have a kid well come dear friend as my wife. Arjun is as shallow as Rahul of Kuch Kuch Hota hai. He doesnt deserve a woman like Saanjh, who in every other possibility will go to him.

So far it was man between two women. To change things a woman has to be between two men, with one man having the power to stop a man like Arjun firmly, solidly. And you very well know that power can come only if the concerned man is the lady's husband.


Edited by shruthiravi - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: ajay227

if only ppl can see beyond pair & romance...it's quite clear from d starting that Beyhadh is a thriller...Saanjh is bashed even if she does good or let's say whatever she thinks is good from her POV...when Maya is free to do anything why not Saanjh?Why Maya is intelligent & Saanjh is home breaker???Accept it. whatever be it Maya did seperate Arjun from VM&Ayaan(Although it's not a matter to be given importance becoz VM gone mad)& probably from Saanjh too(I really want it to happen) Arjun doesn't deserve Saanjh/Maya...


I partly agree with you on this. I agree with you that beyhadh is not 100% romance and it is a thriller. It is more of Arjun's fault than Saanjh. He is cheating on both the women. If he didn't love Maya, why did he propose to her in the first place? He has been quite content as a bachelor all the while. About Maya separating Arjun from Vandana and Ayaan, I don't agree as Vandana is also responsible for it to a large extent. If she had given a chance to Maya while she was putting genuine efforts, the matter would not have gone to this extent.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#75

Originally posted by: _Darling_

Really? Why don't we see such defensive posts from the same people when Maya is bashed and called murderer and what not even if CVS Have not shown anything of that sort yet and others are instead called delusional for not accepting their delusional facts about Maya as a murderer and behind everything.


But as soon as a little bit Saanjh is bashed, all members calling themselves neutral members come and make posts defending and saying why Saanjh is bashed. Why don't the same members give lectures when Maya is bashed and called a murderer if they are really neutral? Oh, I forgot that many of the same so called neutral ones are the ones actually think Maya is a murderer for a fact and love their Saanjh.. 🥱

This is the first forum in my all tv forums' experience where fans are bashed for liking the show's lead pair just because some shippers want their darling Saanjh with a married man Instead. DISGUSTING. In their shipping, they instead bash the wife all the time and surprise at why others for liking the couple. We are instead called delusionals for liking the main couple and they call themselves sensible for preferring and wanting the married man ending up with their princess in the end. 🤢


Perfectly said!👏👏👏
Double standards in all its glory))))) It's all about Saanj fan in this forum😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Ashi you told a point correctly. Arjun. Who will stop him. He is playing with both girls, enjoying the best of both worlds. Else he too would have told Maya he is going to meet Saanjh. No he didnt. Why are they afraid of what Maya will feel if they dont have anything to hide. Maya keeps him in check but as long as Saanjh is there he will not be in check. He will find the way to float all the vachans he gave to Maya. Because from day one I had known Arjun is a non comittal guy, kind of MCP not entirely, but he is a MCP the way he deals with VM as well as Saanjh. VM and Saanjh doesnt find any fault with him. He is the innocent lamb.

If you look the past Arjun's dad had 2 women in his life, Maya's dad also had 2 women in his life. At this point Arjun also have 2 women one Maya and another Saanjh. If someone tells me after enjoying the wealth and power of Maya she is proven full fledged psychopath if Arjun comes to Saanjh she should be waiting there with open arms. Like Kuch Kuch hota hai. Have the cake and eat it too. You can like your friend when she is tomboyish, the moment her saree fluttered in the wind and rain love happens😆😆. You go and stop her wedding because now your wife is not there, you have a kid well come dear friend as my wife. Arjun is as shallow as Rahul of Kuch Kuch Hota hai. He doesnt deserve a woman like Saanjh, who in every other possibility will go to him.

So far it was man between two women. To change things a woman has to be between two men, with one man having the power to stop a man like Arjun firmly, solidly. And you very well know that power can come only if the concerned man is the lady's husband.




Haila...I felt d same when I watched KKHH...Rahul didn't appeal to me...It's becoz Kajol loved him dearly he got along...Who on earth will marry a man with a kid??
as u mentioned in last paragraph the person should be Saanjh hubby
.Ayaan indirectly if it happens..but.does Saanjh allow this??Will she allow any.other person in her life??
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Posted: 8 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@ashi if you remember a scene where Ayan tries to hug Maya or simply pat her, then Arjun comes in between or Ayan gives the flying kiss to Maya Arjun catches it. Why we are in 21st century. Why did Arjun feel bad about those quite innocent gestures of adoration from his brother for bhabi. Ayan didnt mean anything wrong. From the time the relation is known Ayan is calling Maya Bhabi respectfully. Even yesterday epi he tells Your son, but Maya he addresses as bhabi only after all this fiasco. So in the 21st century Arjun having problem with Ayan gestures which are crossing limits is acceptable. Is it because he is a man or simply because he is a human and any husband will feel a bit insecure with someone else even if it is his own brother behaving that way with his wife. If you ask any man he will say he will fee a bit insecure

Coming to Maya due to her past it goes beyond normal insecurity. Problem here is Saanjh is not just a friend, she has claimed she loves Arjun. A wife will feel insecure in close promixy where emotions more than platonic is involved. Which we all know exists in Saanjh. Even yesterday when Arjun tells I love you, her face showed the blush. I am not telling Saanjh is having any bad intend. But it is time for her to keep a limit for her sake and for everyone's sake. To ensure she doesnt allow Arjun to rule over her where he drank alchohol like anything which his wife had not allowed him to take or his wife had prohibited him to take which Saanjh knows. When Arjun tells I love you to Saanjh a woman who claims to love him, what should a wife feel.

Post marriage however close you are dont hide it from your wife. If you are female friend have a courtesy to inform your male friend's spouse I would prefer to talk to him on the issue of him and his mother as friend. Hope you dont mind. Maya would have been fine if Saanjh had told her this much. You are a woman. How will you feel if another woman behaves with your husband the way you behave with her husband.

As I said earlier also I dont hate Saanjh. But then though her intend is right, her actions are incorrect which will lead to many problems.

I am telling Saayan will happen not because I want to ship any jodi, but I feel from the story point that pairing is needed. Because else the past will play out once again in Arjun and Maya's life. if the past has to change, its direction has to change for a better outcome Saayan has to happen as I see the story at this point.


+100000000. I agree with all your points.

Ayaan or Jiten or any decent man would be fine for Saanjh but certainly not Arjun. Jiten is another option. Saanjh can get anyone as she is normal. But Maya got only Arjun & that too with great difficulty.
Edited by kavsy - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ajay is it necessary Saanjh has to allow 😉. There are better ways to deal with Sanskaari Saanjh and I know all Vandana Mata😆😆
Edited by shruthiravi - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Saanj is targeted as she is becoming really Chipku,It wasn't an emergency or urgency that she repeatedly messaged and called Arjun at Bar...I mean Bar????Anyways it's high time Suman controls Saanjh for her betterment
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kavsy


+100000000. I agree with all your points.

Ayaan or Jiten or any decent man would be fine for Saanjh but certainly not Arjun. Jiten is another option. Saanjh can get anyone as she is normal. But Maya got only Arjun & that too with great difficulty.

And I want Arjun for her😆 She must experience on her skin her own behavior

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