Thanks a ton for explaining in a such a calm and sensible manner Shruthi di🤗 And thanks for not judging me as a Saanjh fan or Maya hater.Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@ashi if you remember a scene where Ayan tries to hug Maya or simply pat her, then Arjun comes in between or Ayan gives the flying kiss to Maya Arjun catches it. Why we are in 21st century. Why did Arjun feel bad about those quite innocent gestures of adoration from his brother for bhabi. Ayan didnt mean anything wrong. From the time the relation is known Ayan is calling Maya Bhabi respectfully. Even yesterday epi he tells Your son, but Maya he addresses as bhabi only after all this fiasco. So in the 21st century Arjun having problem with Ayan gestures which are crossing limits is acceptable. Is it because he is a man or simply because he is a human and any husband will feel a bit insecure with someone else even if it is his own brother behaving that way with his wife. If you ask any man he will say he will fee a bit insecure
Coming to Maya due to her past it goes beyond normal insecurity. Problem here is Saanjh is not just a friend, she has claimed she loves Arjun. A wife will feel insecure in close promixy where emotions more than platonic is involved. Which we all know exists in Saanjh. Even yesterday when Arjun tells I love you, her face showed the blush. I am not telling Saanjh is having any bad intend. But it is time for her to keep a limit for her sake and for everyone's sake. To ensure she doesnt allow Arjun to rule over her where he drank alchohol like anything which his wife had not allowed him to take or his wife had prohibited him to take which Saanjh knows. When Arjun tells I love you to Saanjh a woman who claims to love him, what should a wife feel.Post marriage however close you are dont hide it from your wife. If you are female friend have a courtesy to inform your male friend's spouse I would prefer to talk to him on the issue of him and his mother as friend. Hope you dont mind. Maya would have been fine if Saanjh had told her this much. You are a woman. How will you feel if another woman behaves with your husband the way you behave with her husband.As I said earlier also I dont hate Saanjh. But then though her intend is right, her actions are incorrect which will lead to many problems.I am telling Saayan will happen not because I want to ship any jodi, but I feel from the story point that pairing is needed. Because else the past will play out once again in Arjun and Maya's life. if the past has to change, its direction has to change for a better outcome Saayan has to happen as I see the story at this point.