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Posted: 8 years ago
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What amuses me in this forum is that if you say something positive about a character you are his or her fan. Like seriously ? I love Maya but I don't think Saanjh or Vandana are wrong. Saanjh was a little chipko and Vandana is overdramatic but they are not wrong. So when I say that, people immediately tell me that I am Maya hater. That's extremely funny because I watch the show only for Maya. šŸ˜† It means love Maya and dislike whoever is coming in between ArYa. šŸ˜† If you don't then you are not a Maya fan. šŸ˜†
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Posted: 8 years ago
#92

Originally posted by: sammy17


You clearly don't know much about human psychology to have completely misconstrued what she said. Considering we know nothing of ashwin's past or childhood, she was guessing on the basis of human psychology that maybe ashwin must have come from maybe a dysfunctional family or had a violent childhood or even a very poor relationship with one or both of his parents to have become the abuser he was. Plus your actually putting words into her mouth by first not understanding what she says and then tying a completely wrong interpretation of her comment. Did she say that the abuser and the victim stand in the same line according to her? Nope! Putting words into people's mouth when you haven't understood the context of what they have said is actually a very bad habit and a pet peeve for many


THANK YOU! šŸ¤— Thank you so very much for explaining this better than I could have done. I appreciate your gesture for having spoken for me even though you didn't have to. 😃

Originally posted by: sammy17


Sanjh never wanted maya to die. This is the same girl you are talking about who reasoned with her father when he said he doesn't care whether maya dies or not, and despite going through heartbreak she prayed for maya to get better and supported arjun. Now you really are trying to make saanjh seem evil when she hasn't really done anything so evil.

Plus your whole insecurity point you made is quite hypocritical when the same goes for people like yourself who constantly attack saanjh's character even when she does nothing wrong and then justify or even applaud maya's every actions out of insecurity that possibly maya and arjun aren't endgame.

And again, instead of thinking saanjh is responsible because she is supposedly going after her married friend, what about arjun who is married yet constantly forgets his limits and doesn't understand that even he is married now? It's easier to target the girls and say they are meant to be sensible as if men are incompetent adults who can't take responsibility for their actions so girls are required to make up for it for taking the blame or being responsible in return.

This whole forum is flooded with negativity where people like you are unnecessarily bashing characters without seeing further logic and ignoring the actions of other characters, plus you said in your first comment on this topic that 'so-called neutral viewers of the show are coming on the forum saying that saanjh is being bashed and justify her' and things along that line; so now you are going to say people are lying about being neutral viewers just to rubbish their opinion and comments you don't agree with as being unreliable of some sort?

When i watched the holi video, i didn't see a stupid, irresponsible, immature and evil saanjh who is trying to break her friends marriage like you keep trying to claim she is, rather i saw her married best friend ignoring his wife, maya, and grabbing saanjh and pulling her to dance, and saanjh even sweetly hugged and gave a kiss to maya in the dance, whilst arjun was being stupid. Yet all you would see if a girl going after her married bestie. Not saanjh, but arjun needs to be kept in line and needs to be mature.


+10.

Completely agreed.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dusky wants to kiss married man and she still holy and innocent, what nonsence?šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†
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Posted: 8 years ago
#94
im biplor against saanjh
sometimes i like her and sometimes i don't

from maya, arjun and saanjh, i feel saanjh is the normal one but nooo she cant use her brain at times. she has been hanging out with arjun too long that even she can be a duffer

one minute she is happy with ArYa, next minute she breaks down in tears then next minute she is strong and then next minute she is insecure of ArYa and then next minute she is happy with ArYa and next minute she cries wishing Arjun was hers

just make your mind up saanjh. seriously after marriage of ArYa she was good and now all of this is happening the whole clingyness is happening again and im not liking it


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: xsumi

im biplor against saanjh

sometimes i like her and sometimes i don't

from maya, arjun and saanjh, i feel saanjh is the normal one but nooo she cant use her brain at times. she has been hanging out with arjun too long that even she can be a duffer

one minute she is happy with ArYa, next minute she breaks down in tears then next minute she is strong and then next minute she is insecure of ArYa and then next minute she is happy with ArYa and next minute she cries wishing Arjun was hers

just make your mind up saanjh. seriously after marriage of ArYa she was good and now all of this is happening the whole clingyness is happening again and im not liking it



Even I thought that Saanjh had moved on but I guess not
Duffer and dusky were the most intimate that they had ever been, but like seriously?
Arjun are you kidding me?!
Arjun is the most at fault yet I feel that Saanjh should also not be going offline again
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishakumar


Even I thought that Saanjh had moved on but I guess not
Duffer and dusky were the most intimate that they had ever been, but like seriously?
Arjun are you kidding me?!
Arjun is the most at fault yet I feel that Saanjh should also not be going offline again


exactly she has not moved on, its time suman teaches her a lesson. saanjh is ruining their family izaat. you know indian aunty jis, if they see things like that they will ofcourse talk and gossip like 'chee, this girl getting touchy with married man, did her parents not bring up her properly' bla bla you know aunty jis šŸ˜† seriously suman should talk to her

seriously arjun is pathetic and useless
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sammy17


Sorry but earlier on maya was bashed as a murderer when many things about her character were still unclear and confusing to the viewers, but no longer, and even then it wasn't even the majority of the forum bashing her like most of the forum is unnecessarily bashing saanjh. TM is right; saanjh is bashed when she does nothing or when she does something without actual selfish or evil intentions, yet maya is called intelligent and a smart lady when she does something with a clearly selfish and evil motive.


Oh really? It's no longer confusing that Maya is murderer? See that's what you guys problem is. You guys are NOT just predicting as you all claim to. You all are actually believin in your imaginations and seeing Maya's all scenes as her a murderer where every action of her is seen through as murderer. So obviously you all will find her evil if you all believe she's murderer. You alll are so blind in your hate towards her that you all have set your mind and perspective to see her as a murderer. How many actions Saanjh has yet to do for her to be actually selfish? So wanting Maya to die, being insensitive to illnesses, and all is so angelic deeds? Maya is called intelligent because she's. She's a grey character. She was never white to begin with that we all can hate. So we understand where shes coming from. But Saanjh fans claim Saanjh to be pure white, so obviously it's double standards here. Whenever she does wrong, it will look the biggest considering she herself acts so self-righteous.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sammy17


Sanjh never wanted maya to die. This is the same girl you are talking about who reasoned with her father when he said he doesn't care whether maya dies or not, and despite going through heartbreak she prayed for maya to get better and supported arjun. Now you really are trying to make saanjh seem evil when she hasn't really done anything so evil.

Plus your whole insecurity point you made is quite hypocritical when the same goes for people like yourself who constantly attack saanjh's character even when she does nothing wrong and then justify or even applaud maya's every actions out of insecurity that possibly maya and arjun aren't endgame.

And again, instead of thinking saanjh is responsible because she is supposedly going after her married friend, what about arjun who is married yet constantly forgets his limits and doesn't understand that even he is married now? It's easier to target the girls and say they are meant to be sensible as if men are incompetent adults who can't take responsibility for their actions so girls are required to make up for it for taking the blame or being responsible in return.

This whole forum is flooded with negativity where people like you are unnecessarily bashing characters without seeing further logic and ignoring the actions of other characters, plus you said in your first comment on this topic that 'so-called neutral viewers of the show are coming on the forum saying that saanjh is being bashed and justify her' and things along that line; so now you are going to say people are lying about being neutral viewers just to rubbish their opinion and comments you don't agree with as being unreliable of some sort?

When i watched the holi video, i didn't see a stupid, irresponsible, immature and evil saanjh who is trying to break her friends marriage like you keep trying to claim she is, rather i saw her married best friend ignoring his wife, maya, and grabbing saanjh and pulling her to dance, and saanjh even sweetly hugged and gave a kiss to maya in the dance, whilst arjun was being stupid. Yet all you would see if a girl going after her married bestie. Not saanjh, but arjun needs to be kept in line and needs to be mature.


Really so just because later Saanjh didn't want Maya to die, we are told to forget what Saanjh had wanted earlier against Maya? Saanjh fans are as hypocritical like their darling. They bash Maya constantly and keep reminding the fact about how Maya treated Saanjh before the marriage. They never say that now let's forget what Maya had done earlier since now she's fine with Saanjh and want her to have good. But when it comes to Saanjh's actions, they make all kind of ridiculous excuses to justify and tell people to forget what Saanjh had done earlier. I wonder why you all don't make such excuses when it comes to Maya. For Saanjh, you all have thousands of stupid excuses. Yeah, let's forget what Sanjh wanted to happen to Maya because later she didn't want and became fine with Maya. and then go around and bash Maya for her past stuffs against Saanjh. Really no evil? So Saanjh wanting Maya to die wasn't evil? W*F YOU MEAN? I haven't seen such evilness in Maya yet. The only time I have found her wrong against Saanjh was when she didn't Hug Saanjh back, made her wait in her office, etc. I found those instances wrong but still not evil. But when it comes to Saanjh, how more evil this bitch can be to want Maya to die just because she liked the same guy she liked? And then wanting her to have heartbreak. Then looking down upon her illness. I could care less being Maya's fan. I hate people who look down upon patients like that especially ones with mental issues. They are one of the worst kinds for me.


Yes, we have heard how we bash Saanjh because we are insecure blah blah blah. Well, we too get why you all bash Maya as I have said earlier. You guys are too blind in your shipping Saajun and loving that Saanjh that you guys keep bashin Maya. I have seen many of you all finding clues and hints and then saying, "See, Saajun are the end game." Why does it bother if we call you insecure? Your comments about finding all kind of hints to see SaJun as end game shows that even when those so called hints are not there. You all call ArYa fans insecure. You all should stop being bothered now for getting called insecure if you all have been doing the same to others from day one. Don't call and assume about others if you can't take the same back. Oh, I forget you all can just assume about others and bash them personally. And when others do, then it's huge problem.


Why should I not target Saanjh? Just because I am blaming Saanjh doesn't mean I am not blaming Arjun. In fact, I have blamed Arjun way more in other posts till yesterday's episode. I didn't even find Saanjh as much at fault till yesterday's epi. But then when I think how Saanjh is so sensible, mature, white, and perfect as established day and night from Saanjh fans themselves, so the blame does go to her. Her fans themselves say how mature and sensible she is, then what kind of maturity and perfection is this? Funny how now the same Saanjh fans are saying not to bash Saanjh. Either you all claim Saanjh is not mature, isn't perfect and all white so people wouldn't have high expectations from Saanjh, or don't complain why people are more harsh on Saanjh if you all are too sensitive. It's the result of Saanjh fans who have put Saanjh on so high for her to come across as the most wronged one. Saanjh fans want to have cake and eat it too.
Why is the pure Saanjh was almost kissing a married man? Why bash arjun even though I agree he's at fault. But he was always dumb. But I thought Saanjh was the mature one here according to Saanjh fans. She was almost kissing a married one and you still are telling me why I am harsh on that almost home wrecker? The same tattoo, which Saanjh fans had Bashed Maya for putting on Arjun calling her obsessive and what not, had stopped Saanjh today and saved their darling Saanjh from missing a married man today. Else she would have kissed. Saanjh fans should be thankful to Maya for putting that tattoo.


Well, if Saanjh fans stop lying and calling themselves as so called neutral fans, no one wouldve problem. They call themselves neutral yet do all praises on Saanjh and blindly defend all her actions whole proclaiming Maya as a murderer and what not. There are few genuine neutral fans who are actually neutral unlike the fake ones who are pretending to be. Otherwise, they would never support others who have been keep calling ArYa fans as delusional and what not for liking ArYa and for liking a murderer Maya. They would actually not support such comments. I was quite until I kept seeing such mocking and bashing members just because they like a couple and a character whom they instead think is a murderer. They have made the whole forum negative, and then complain when we retaliate. How would you all feel if we say Saanjh is a murderer not even as prediction but actually believing in it and then spam the forum and mocking Saanjh fans for liking a murderer? That's what Saanjh fans have been doing and the so called neutral fans like their comments and support them. So much for being neutral. Stop mocking and bashing other fan groups, then come back and tell us to stop. We didn't start. You all did at first.

About your last paragraph, I already said my answer. If you all are so hurt by Saanjh's bashing. Then stop claiming Saanjh as the mature and flawless one while Arjun as dumb and Maya as crazy one. You all yourself call Saanjh perfect, but now have problem on why people bash more Saanjh and not Arjun. Don't go around putting Saanjh so high then if you know she's not as mature and perfect, then people wouldn't have high expectations from her. For me, I bash Arjun more. But Saanjh bothers me because she is claimed to be the white character yet she has been on the dark side. I wouldn't have had problem with her character had it been truthful like Maya's character is. And today for the first time, I found Saanjh wrong in this track when she was ready to kiss Arjun. Disgusting. Till yesterday I didn't find her at fault until today. They both are home wreckers and cheaters. 🤢🤢
Edited by _Darling_ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Darling_


Really so just because later Saanjh didn't want Maya to die, we are told to forget what Saanjh had wanted earlier against Maya? Saanjh fans are as hypocritical like their darling. They bash Maya constantly and keep reminding the fact about how Maya treated Saanjh before the marriage. They never say that now let's forget what Maya had done earlier since now she's fine with Saanjh and want her to have good. But when it comes to Saanjh's actions, they make all kind of ridiculous excuses to justify and tell people to forget what Saanjh had done earlier. I wonder why you all don't make such excuses when it comes to Maya. For Saanjh, you all have thousands of stupid excuses. Yeah, let's forget what Sanjh wanted to happen to Maya because later she didn't want and became fine with Maya. and then go around and bash Maya for her past stuffs against Saanjh. Really no evil? So Saanjh wanting Maya to die wasn't evil? W*F YOU MEAN? I haven't seen such evilness in Maya yet. The only time I have found her wrong against Saanjh was when she didn't Hug Saanjh back, made her wait in her office, etc. I found those instances wrong but still not evil. But when it comes to Saanjh, how more evil this bitch can be to want Maya to die just because she liked the same guy she liked? And then wanting her to have heartbreak. Then looking down upon her illness. I could care less being Maya's fan. I hate people who look down upon patients like that especially ones with mental issues. They are one of the worst kinds for me.


Yes, we have heard how we bash Saanjh because we are insecure blah blah blah. Well, we too get why you all bash Maya as I have said earlier. You guys are too blind in your shipping Saajun and loving that Saanjh that you guys keep bashin Maya. I have seen many of you all finding clues and hints and then saying, "See, Saajun are the end game." Why does it bother if we call you insecure? Your comments about finding all kind of hints to see SaJun as end game shows that even when those so called hints are not there. You all call ArYa fans insecure. You all should stop being bothered now for getting called insecure if you all have been doing the same to others from day one. Don't call and assume about others if you can't take the same back. Oh, I forget you all can just assume about others and bash them personally. And when others do, then it's huge problem.


Why should I not target Saanjh? Just because I am blaming Saanjh doesn't mean I am not blaming Arjun. In fact, I have blamed Arjun way more in other posts till yesterday's episode. I didn't even find Saanjh as much at fault till yesterday's epi. But then when I think how Saanjh is so sensible, mature, white, and perfect as established day and night from Saanjh fans themselves, so the blame does go to her. Her fans themselves say how mature and sensible she is, then what kind of maturity and perfection is this? Funny how now the same Saanjh fans are saying not to bash Saanjh. Either you all claim Saanjh is not mature, isn't perfect and all white so people wouldn't have high expectations from Saanjh, or don't complain why people are more harsh on Saanjh if you all are too sensitive. It's the result of Saanjh fans who have put Saanjh on so high for her to come across as the most wronged one. Saanjh fans want to have cake and eat it too.
Why is the pure Saanjh was almost kissing a married man? Why bash arjun even though I agree he's at fault. But he was always dumb. But I thought Saanjh was the mature one here according to Saanjh fans. She was almost kissing a married one and you still are telling me why I am harsh on that almost home wrecker? The same tattoo, which Saanjh fans had Bashed Maya for putting on Arjun calling her obsessive and what not, had stopped Saanjh today and saved their darling Saanjh from missing a married man today. Else she would have kissed. Saanjh fans should be thankful to Maya for putting that tattoo.


Well, if Saanjh fans stop lying and calling themselves as so called neutral fans, no one wouldve problem. They call themselves neutral yet do all praises on Saanjh and blindly defend all her actions whole proclaiming Maya as a murderer and what not. There are few genuine neutral fans who are actually neutral unlike the fake ones who are pretending to be. Otherwise, they would never support others who have been keep calling ArYa fans as delusional and what not for liking ArYa and for liking a murderer Maya. They would actually not support such comments. I was quite until I kept seeing such mocking and bashing members just because they like a couple and a character whom they instead think is a murderer. They have made the whole forum negative, and then complain when we retaliate. How would you all feel if we say Saanjh is a murderer not even as prediction but actually believing in it and then spam the forum and mocking Saanjh fans for liking a murderer? That's what Saanjh fans have been doing and the so called neutral fans like their comments and support them. So much for being neutral. Stop mocking and bashing other fan groups, then come back and tell us to stop. We didn't start. You all did at first.

About your last paragraph, I already said my answer. If you all are so hurt by Saanjh's bashing. Then stop claiming Saanjh as the mature and flawless one while Arjun as dumb and Maya as crazy one. You all yourself call Saanjh perfect, but now have problem on why people bash more Saanjh and not Arjun. Don't go around putting Saanjh so high then if you know she's not as mature and perfect, then people wouldn't have high expectations from her. For me, I bash Arjun more. But Saanjh bothers me because she is claimed to be the white character yet she has been on the dark side. I wouldn't have had problem with her character had it been truthful like Maya's character is. And today for the first time, I found Saanjh wrong in this track when she was ready to kiss Arjun. Disgusting. Till yesterday I didn't find her at fault until today. They both are home wreckers and cheaters. 🤢🤢


Well said darling, it also includes Vandana as she had begged before Saanjh to keep an eye on Arjun 24/7. The first homewrecker is Vandana. Both Arjun & Saanjh are at fault. Arjun is a duffer but Saanjh is supposed to be more sensible in the show. No decent woman would text a person in the late night. She is also as characterless as Arjun. Vandana & Saanjh are homewreckers. Arjun is a gold digger.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Okay so there are two reasons for people who dislike Saanjh.
1. She once said that she wanted Maya to die.

2. She is too close to a married man.

Regarding the first case,

Whatever she said was in the heat of the moment. She loved that idiot for like years. Fine let us say she is selfish. So, whose not? The difference between Saanjh and Maya is how they react to that emotion of selfishness.

Then what about all us saying she is selfless. Clearly, we said her love is selfless, not herself. She is selfless for Arjun and not all others. She left Arjun for Arjun's happiness, not Maya's. She is good towards Maya because of the ideals she has which she is ready to sacrifice for Arjun.

2. Above I said she is ready to sacrifice her ideals for Arjun, but she didn't. She pulls back herself at the right moment. But she is going to suffer for that ready to sacrifice.
Till yesterday's Epi Saanjh wasn't even thinking of giving into a married man. She fell weak, but pulled herself back.
It is your action that defines you and when in the edge of committing a grave mistake she pulled herself back.

It is still fine to dislike her, but why bash her?

Regarding bashing Maya, most of the "neutral viewers" admire her. Believe it or not.šŸ˜† We're like go Maya go. Because it is she who keeps the whole story gripping. And after her beyhadh dewwaangi phase, we would like to see her redemption phase. Only thing we call a spade a spade.

At the end of the day, each to their own. So, peace.
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