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@katrinasalman u missed the whole point of disscussion here , i replied to her post discussing about wether one should do the things hiding from your frn or not . Just coz arjun tried to cover up the fact that he took maya to terrace situation worsen. If has to inform saajh she would have become angry but not felt betrayed or hurt .

Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha

@katrinasalman u missed the whole point of disscussion here , i replied to her post discussing about wether one should do the things hiding from your frn or not . Just coz arjun tried to cover up the fact that he took maya to terrace situation worsen. If has to inform saajh she would have become angry but not felt betrayed or hurt .

Y to bring pairing n judge in advance who is best for arjun ? Unilateral love is not enough to start relationship be it saanjh or maya?

And this from my another post

Maya she is giving him space that makes her LOOK more sensible than saanjh , coz saanjh has shown desperate attempts to confront arjun n talk about maya in mixed emotions of fear, love , possessivenes . But still i am conscious about maya , she is giving him space yet she is assuming he Will accept her n there is no other way . She has given subtle hints of her obsession on hot air ballon wen she was even stepping back wen she felt arjun will say no , her convo with saanjh at dinner , her manipulation to get arjun's hug ( when she feels arjun not hugging her back out of fear to anu commitments than she plays frnship card) n than at office she manipulated situation so arjun comes to office than spends time with Saanjh.

The question is how long this maya will be stable n appear to be sensible ? Will she understands that marriage means not owning arjun , it means accepting him as well as his family , striking balance between both his n her lifestyle . It means she should know she will have to compromise , she will have to accept saanjh coz even as just frn she will be integral part of arjun's life . She should get over her past , and know to live her present coz ashwin will often create turbulence in her life . Will she react sensibly in such situations or take dark steps ?

N if maya is supposed to be normal n she will not do any beyhadgiri than this show shouldn't be named beyhad it should be normal love triangle.

Thats my ans /pov regarding space thing i am still doubtful n i can trust maya only after watching her progress in future track .

Regarding saanjh her possessiveness is understood able upto certain extent. She is not his wife but she does all the duties that wife would have done to care n protect arjun n ontop arjun allows it to do . But at one point of time i feel she should let go arjun make him realise his needs n mistakes byhimself and give importance to her self respect over self lessnes. N if arjun really loves maya dun worry she will back off.

Originally posted by: -Kritika-

sweet heart i think you don't understand maya's character here if arjun do something like this so she never over react front of arjun or ask him many question because she never get down her impression front of him she give him a sweet smile and said it's fine but she do something reckless with that person who was take her arjun away from her ... she is possessive for him but dangerous for others ... there is a difference

Yes I knew about maya character and have written about her in my earlier posts that she would be sweet infront of Arjun and doing all she wants peet peeche... now she can do this but how long can she hide all from Arjun and Arjun can't be dumber life long like he is now... a point will surely come where maya will burst out infront of Arjun if she knows that it's not in her hands... we saw how she handles jhanvi... same way she will be with Arjun...


Let's say Arjun maya are in relationship or best frz and Arjun character is same so he will be frz with other girls just like maya... if a third girl who is more powerful caring person than maya enters Arjun life and friends with him... definitely maya can't do much to her like how she used to do others... if she witness Arjun and the girl becoming more close to him and also Arjun enjoying her company and may lie(if Arjun doesn't want to tell maya) then at some point maya will confront him losing her patience ... Arjun will reply her like how She is doing with saanj now that he can be frz with anyone not only her..

At that time maya will know the pain of becoming third person and may actually feel saanj pain... unknowingly or knowingly she is the cause of saanj pain... Arjun and saanj were like fevicol buddies till maya entered... they didn't allow third person in between them( as frz only) but now third person came... Arjun used to spend lots of time with saanj then and now his priorities change bcz of his ambition.. once he achieves his ambition he craves for relations... now he is spending more time with maya and in future he may spend time with other girl whom he friends with than maya... at that time maya will get hurt though she may or may not say outside...

So basically Arjun character needs to be in such away that he acts smart not dumber and respect relationships...

Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha

@katrinasalman u missed the whole point of disscussion here , i replied to her post discussing about wether one should do the things hiding from your frn or not . Just coz arjun tried to cover up the fact that he took maya to terrace situation worsen. If has to inform saajh she would have become angry but not felt betrayed or hurt .

Y to bring pairing n judge in advance who is best for arjun ? Unilateral love is not enough to start relationship be it saanjh or maya?

And this from my another post

Maya she is giving him space that makes her LOOK more sensible than saanjh , coz saanjh has shown desperate attempts to confront arjun n talk about maya in mixed emotions of fear, love , possessivenes . But still i am conscious about maya , she is giving him space yet she is assuming he Will accept her n there is no other way . She has given subtle hints of her obsession on hot air ballon wen she was even stepping back wen she felt arjun will say no , her convo with saanjh at dinner , her manipulation to get arjun's hug ( when she feels arjun not hugging her back out of fear to commitments than she plays frnship card) n than at office she manipulated situation so arjun comes to office rather than spending time with Saanjh.

The question is how long this maya will be stable n appear to be sensible ? Will she understands that marriage means not owning arjun , it means accepting him as well as his family , striking balance between both his n her lifestyle . It means she should know she will have to compromise , she will have to accept saanjh coz even as just frn she will be integral part of arjun's life . She should get over her past , and know to live her present coz ashwin will often create turbulence in her life . Will she react sensibly in such situations or take dark steps ?

N if maya is supposed to be normal n she will not do any beyhadgiri than this show shouldn't be named beyhad it should be normal love triangle.

Thats my ans /pov regarding space thing i am still doubtful n i can trust maya only after watching her progress in future track .

Regarding saanjh her possessiveness is understood able upto certain extent. She is not his wife but she does all the duties that wife would have done to care n protect arjun n ontop arjun allows it to do . But at one point of time i feel she should let go arjun make him realise his needs n mistakes byhimself and give importance to her self respect over self lessnes. N if arjun really loves maya dun worry she will back off.

Exactly my thoughts ⭐️

Originally posted by: Akdhaparijatluv

Yes I knew about maya character and have written about her in my earlier posts that she would be sweet infront of Arjun and doing all she wants peet peeche... now she can do this but how long can she hide all from Arjun and Arjun can't be dumber life long like he is now... a point will surely come where maya will burst out infront of Arjun if she knows that it's not in her hands... we saw how she handles jhanvi... same way she will be with Arjun...


Let's say Arjun maya are in relationship or best frz and Arjun character is same so he will be frz with other girls just like maya... if a third girl who is more powerful caring person than maya enters Arjun life and friends with him... definitely maya can't do much to her like how she used to do others... if she witness Arjun and the girl becoming more close to him and also Arjun enjoying her company and may lie(if Arjun doesn't want to tell maya) then at some point maya will confront him losing her patience ... Arjun will reply her like how She is doing with saanj now that he can be frz with anyone not only her..

At that time maya will know the pain of becoming third person and may actually feel saanj pain... unknowingly or knowingly she is the cause of saanj pain... Arjun and saanj were like fevicol buddies till maya entered... they didn't allow third person in between them( as frz only) but now third person came... Arjun used to spend lots of time with saanj then and now his priorities change bcz of his ambition.. once he achieves his ambition he craves for relations... now he is spending more time with maya and in future he may spend time with other girl whom he friends with than maya... at that time maya will get hurt though she may or may not say outside...

So basically Arjun character needs to be in such away that he acts smart not dumber and respect relationships...

Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha

@katrinasalman u missed the whole point of disscussion here , i replied to her post discussing about wether one should do the things hiding from your frn or not . Just coz arjun tried to cover up the fact that he took maya to terrace situation worsen. If has to inform saajh she would have become angry but not felt betrayed or hurt .

Y to bring pairing n judge in advance who is best for arjun ? Unilateral love is not enough to start relationship be it saanjh or maya?

And this from my another post

Maya she is giving him space that makes her LOOK more sensible than saanjh , coz saanjh has shown desperate attempts to confront arjun n talk about maya in mixed emotions of fear, love , possessivenes . But still i am conscious about maya , she is giving him space yet she is assuming he Will accept her n there is no other way . She has given subtle hints of her obsession on hot air ballon wen she was even stepping back wen she felt arjun will say no , her convo with saanjh at dinner , her manipulation to get arjun's hug ( when she feels arjun not hugging her back out of fear to commitments than she plays frnship card) n than at office she manipulated situation so arjun comes to office rather than spending time with Saanjh.

The question is how long this maya will be stable n appear to be sensible ? Will she understands that marriage means not owning arjun , it means accepting him as well as his family , striking balance between both his n her lifestyle . It means she should know she will have to compromise , she will have to accept saanjh coz even as just frn she will be integral part of arjun's life . She should get over her past , and know to live her present coz ashwin will often create turbulence in her life . Will she react sensibly in such situations or take dark steps ?

N if maya is supposed to be normal n she will not do any beyhadgiri than this show shouldn't be named beyhad it should be normal love triangle.

Thats my ans /pov regarding space thing i am still doubtful n i can trust maya only after watching her progress in future track .

Regarding saanjh her possessiveness is understood able upto certain extent. She is not his wife but she does all the duties that wife would have done to care n protect arjun n ontop arjun allows it to do . But at one point of time i feel she should let go arjun make him realise his needs n mistakes byhimself and give importance to her self respect over self lessnes. N if arjun really loves maya dun worry she will back off.

Originally posted by: -Kritika-

yes sweetiee i understand your point very well yes you're right but my point of view is i don't think if this happened so she'll do over react front of him yes her temperature goes higher may be she do something horrible like what she did with sanjh when she invite her for dinner or may be more dangerous then that but i don't think she said something to him because arjun is a character who hate control by others he is a free spirit if someone try to control him or put their nose everywhere in his life he can't tolerate that person so i don't know how long she plays her games but may be in future she'll be convert into a positive character i have intuitions

That's why I'm saying Arjun is dumbest 😆 he only sees outer things like saanj said... he cannot see beyond that... Arjun hates to be controlled but indirectly is getting controlled by maya professionally Andy personally too... right now maya is behaving sensible which I can't believe where does this sensibility go while dealing with her mom... yes she will turn positive character at the end but before that as the show name suggests we have to witness her behad giri... as of now seeing poster and promos it's maya behadness than to assume any other like saanj or vandana or suman or prem

I wanted to say about arjun hiding things from saanjh and lieing to her.. Not evry lie has bad intentions..sometimes if ppl r hiding things from u then u must question urself.. Few lies are said not bcoz thy want to hurt the other, but bcoz thy know the other person wont understand him/her..so hiding is best rescue thn instead of explaning..

Maya's behaviour is way out of line sometimes but without that obsessive streak, she is a good person. people think that just because she is manipulative, that every action of hers is a well planned illusion but it is not. she loves arjun but genuinely enjoys spending time with and without her dirty games, her bond with him strengthened. the maya we saw at rooftop, basement, and ice cream scene is the real maya-the maya that has been buried by decades of abuse. I agree that she is toxic but not every single thing about her is bad, give her credit where she deserves but call her out on her shitty behaviour.

As for her understanding about marriage, Arjun's love will definitely change her. Maya is changing for Arjun. You can't expect her to change fully overnight. It is not only the girl who has to change, it is also the guy and his family who has to change. But Vandana is calling her chudail when Saanjh has not confessed her love for Arjun.