Is it wrong to try to woo one love - Page 4

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

in other soaps, it is the hero who tries these things to impress the heroine. What do you say 4 that? Arjun has not committed to anyone. But all Sanjh fans feel that Maya is manipulating, which is baseless. As for his distancing from his family, Arjun never gave the rights of a mother to Vandana and she is really behaving like a step-mother by not asking Arjun what he wants. He does not even know that Sanjh loves her. Sanjh has also not confessed her feelings 4 him. If it was Ayaan, Vandana would have cared for his likes and dislikes because he is her own son. Arjun is right by not giving her the rights as a mother. She is in a way utilizing Sanjh to get him to track assuming that he loves Sanjh.

Maya never played any games with Arjun. If she had to play games, she would have done that a way back. She is bold enough to confess her feelings 4 Arjun. She has also given him the time to give his decision. She never behaved like a possessive girlfriend or a nagging and a bossy wife.

if Arjun is drifting away from Sanjh & his family, these 3 ladies namely Vandana, Suman & Sanjh are responsible for it because of their controlling nature. If Sanjh really loves him, she has to understand that Arjun has got his own life. He isn't a kid to be told who is good & who is bad.

Originally posted by: lumos_31

I think it is not possible to convince people for anything over here. Binge justifications about Maya are not going to chang ethe fact that she is wrong in what she is doing. And justifications about Saanjh are not going to change the fact that she does get clingy.

When people term Maya as wrong, it is solely based on her actions, and the same goes with Saanjh. But, there is a difference in the two sides of this discussion. When I say Maya is wrong, I do not say Saanjh is right in being clingy or possessive. But we also need to remember that Saanjh is, after all a human being. She is bound to react in the way she is reacting. But speaking against her for reacting this way and terming Maya's actions as smart is hypocrisy. Because both are wrong her. Saanjh for being clingy, and Maya for manipulating Arjun. And they are wrong because the characters are humans just like all of us. Maya has a reason to behave/act this way and if we are mature enough to understand that n empathize with her, then I think we shouldnt criticise saanjh for her actions. Because she too, is not doing this without reason.

And for people justifying Maya, I agree with u all, shes handling Arjun smartly, shes giving arjun space, blah blah. But it is this that is going to cost her, just the way Saanjh warning Arjun is going to cost Saanjh their friendship. Logically speaking Saanjh Arjun is the end game, not ArYa.

Definitely not unless Arjun knows the truth n then falls in love with Maya.

Originally posted by: lumos_31

Maya played no games? Are u kidding? Either it is that or u dont want to accept what is being shown. Maya was bold enough to confess, but is not bold enough to face rejection. That is why she confessed in a hot air balloon, so that arjun couldn't say a no. She promotes anyone according to her whims and fancies, just so Arjun can have lunch with her and not Saanjh. She pretends to be okay with Saanjh or Arjun not loving her when clearly she is not. She gifts Arjun the cabin and the promotion, just so he thinks that Maya has recognised his talent. Also, she sends Arjun those gifts by hacking into his wish list and very smartly covers it up when Arjun confronts her. What are all these then, if not mind games?

I agree to the other parts to some extent but not entirely. If there is anything that is going to take Arjun away from his family, it is going to be his gullibility.

Comparing Maya n Saanjh saying that Saanjh is this and maya is this, hence maya is superior doesn't make sense at all. They are 2 different people, two different personalities. Both are flawed. Both are right in some things and wrong in some things. But for me, personally Maya is more dangerous as because of her Arjun Saanjh n herself are going to suffer. Everything seems all hunky dory now, but once Maya's real self is out in the open things are not going to be smooth for Arjun and for ArYa or SaaJun. And this is what Saanjh fears.