Why always biased towards Maya and her actions while Saanjh's not..?

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Rebecca Valentine

@RebeccaValentin

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Posted: 9 years ago

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My feelins 2wrds saanjh hav been like dis frm d start..

Wow so cute -> a bit cute -> maybe she shud giv him space -> Wait is she annoyin? -> She IS annoyin -> y cant she go2 space? 😆😆

I mean.. tes days shez jus too much yaar!!

She was so damn upset jus cuz maya got ayan out~!! poor ayan.. dat guy was so hpy dat he was bailed out, while saanjh wsnt a bit hpy abt d fact dat he got out.. all dat she was concerned abt, ws dat maya helped arjun out.. lyk WTH 🤢🤢

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Kavyanjali

@kavyanjali08

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: RebeccaSweety
GRT post 👏👏👏
My feelins 2wrds saanjh hav been like dis frm d start..
Wow so cute -> a bit cute -> maybe she shud giv him space -> Wait is she annoyin? -> She IS annoyin -> y cant she go2 space? 😆😆

I mean.. tes days shez jus too much yaar!!

She was so damn upset jus cuz maya got ayan out~!! poor ayan.. dat guy was so hpy dat he was bailed out, while saanjh wsnt a bit hpy abt d fact dat he got out.. all dat she was concerned abt, ws dat maya helped arjun out.. lyk WTH 🤢🤢

Well, that's my point, yet only Maya is considered the 'pyscho' while Saanjh acting as if she is Arjun's wife or girlfriend or something and tries to make all his decisions on his behalf is considered all normal because she is Arjun's 'best' friend with whom he shares 'special' relationship...like that makes everything on her part logical!! *note the sarcasm*

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aanvi

@aanvi98

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Well i think this topic should be little controversial😆

I feel that all of these behaviours of Maya is due to constant bickering of her dad that she is psyco... And Arjun is her only means to be a real person. like when arjun asked what you want. she said i want peace only. she seeks peace in Arjun which any person will want from his/her love interest. and it is totally clear from the last episode! Come on man... is it insane?😆

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sumz_d

@sumz_d

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Great post

One more thing is that Saanjh claims that she knows Arjun very well more than himself so why does she act so insecure? I mean she should know what is actually in Arjun's heart and that if he does love her.

She is not proposing Arjun because she somewhat knows or has an inkling that Arjun will reject her. In other words she is in "denial"

And oh yes Saanjh had said that Arjun runs after glitter everything that shines and gets lost. But then from the gift episode (when Maya had sent gifts to Maya and Arjun returning the gifts) it is clear that thats not the case.

Now i feel if Arjun will fall for Maya genuinely then Saanjh will claim that Arjun wants money and therefore his family and people will mu him.

Maya is clearly not normal but thats due to her sad past her torturous childhood her life experience she has not experienced that "Unconditional" love from her parents and loved ones unlike Saanjh whos had a normal life.

But somehow i just cant understand Saanjh. She is way too much controlling.

Therefore for me both Maya and Saanjh are not normal but while Maya has an explanation for her reactions Saanjh does not.

Edited by sumz_d - 9 years ago

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Bharathi_gurti

@Bharathi_gurti

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Don't worry saanjh will be out of arjuns life very soon...how dare she feels bad that she can't help ayyan...how dare she feels that she was helpless and couldn't do anything at that time...how dare she feels bad that someone else is entering in her only friends life ...how can she be possessive of her only close friend...how dare she wants arjun to be hers...how dare she interferes in arjuns life...she is no one in arjuns life ,she is just a friend...she was a fool to live a life for arjun all these days and she is a fool that still thinks of arjuns good and she is still a fool to be arjuns friend and didn't back up because Maya has entered arjuns life and still a fool to love arjun...what is she just a friend na who should have moved away once she gets to know about Maya life...what a cruel person saanjh is!!!

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muktha_cute

@muktha_cute

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: sumz_d
Great post
One more thing is that Saanjh claims that she knows Arjun very well more than himself so why does she act so insecure? I mean she should know what is actually in Arjun's heart and that if he does love her.

She is not proposing Arjun because she somewhat knows or has an inkling that Arjun will reject her. In other words she is in "denial"

And oh yes Saanjh had said that Arjun runs after glitter everything that shines and gets lost. But then from the gift episode (when Maya had sent gifts to Maya and Arjun returning the gifts) it is clear that thats not the case.

Now i feel if Arjun will fall for Maya genuiny then Saanjh will claim that Arjun wants money and therefore his family and people will mu him.

Maya is clearly not normal but thats due to her sad past her torturous childhood her life experience she has not experienced that "Unconditional" love from her parents and loved ones unlike Saanjh whos had a normal life.

But somehow i just cant understand Saanjh. She is way too much controlling.

Therefore for me both Maya and Saanjh are not normal but while Maya has an explanation for her reactions Saanjh does not.

I Agree with u

Sanjh wont take a sec to blame and attack Arjun when Arjun will incline towards Maya or Will choose Maya as his gf

It wont be Maya but will be Sanjh who will turn his loved ones against him

First she will try to control and emotional blackmail him through Ayan and Vandana.When she wont suceed she will try to use them to seperate him from Maya and bring him to close to her or home.so she can be around him and keep him away from Maya

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Kavyanjali

@kavyanjali08

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti
Don't worry saanjh will be out of arjuns life very soon...how dare she feels bad that she can't help ayyan...how dare she feels that she was helpless and couldn't do anything at that time...how dare she feels bad that someone else is entering in her only friends life ...how can she be possessive of her only close friend...how dare she wants arjun to be hers...how dare she interferes in arjuns life...she is no one in arjuns life ,she is just a friend...she was a fool to live a life for arjun all these days and she is a fool that still thinks of arjuns good and she is still a fool to be arjuns friend and didn't back up because Maya has entered arjuns life and still a fool to love arjun...what is she just a friend na who should have moved away once she gets to know about Maya life...what a cruel person saanjh is!!!

First off, Feeling bad about not able to do anything for Ayaan & giving dialogues like "Main Maya ke paiso ke saamne har gai..." like bailing out Ayaan was a competition she lost... if she had been thinking about how Maya got to know Ayaan's being arrest than I would've been okay... but she was behaving as if she saw Maya as competitor with whom she just lost. Secondly, Saanjh has other friends too, yeah not as close as she is with Arjun but nonetheless she had friends & close friends or not, that doesn't gives anyone the license to her to decide with who Arjun would associate & on what level... that's his choice, even if he chooses wrong company, that too is his choice & trying to advise him is okay but she doesn't get to decide behalf of him whatsoever. See no one likes someone else dictating them, best friend or not, Arjun has his own brains to use & decide for himself... anyways Saanjh behaves as if she knows it all & goes accusing Arjun than later she changes her tune so quick like that gift incident. Now Saanjh needs to confess her feelings to Arjun like everyone is asking her or she needs to back off & stop pushing people who Arjun as love interest out of his life & I'm not talking of Maya only, be it any other girl I don't think her reaction would be much different towards any of them... she can't keep silently pinning for him, doing secretly wife things for him & keep all other girls out, not possible or a practical...its either do or let go but clearly she isn't doing either of it. Thirdly, no one asked her to live for Arjun & not herself, her dad tried to make her understand this & later both her parents but she simply won't listen. Then how does she know Maya is not normal or psycho.. I mean as viewers we know Maya is gonna go psycho crazy in future but at present how does Saanjh know that, it's not like she had seen Maya trying to murder someone or having a fit of madness or is it because she saw that 'uski aankhon mein ajeeb sa pagalpan'...does that even makes sense? I mean Maya showed such crazed-eyes with every intention to scare her & if Maya wanted to be sweet than Saanjh won't have guessed anything & would've been as clueless as Arjun is. So please don't go off saying as if whatever Saanjh is doing is her 'mahan' act of trying to save her best friend from 'psycho' Maya because that isn't the case.. Saanjh is fighting for her love as much as Maya is at the moment. Her emotions are no different than Maya' s, the possibility is that in future her emotions won't go as extreme as Maya's but at present they aren't in much different levels... Saanjh works her ways through emotionally as she is close & known Arjun longer while Maya is trying to figure out that could used, be it emotional or materialistic...but that doesn't mean her every action is an act of 'obsession' & sign of being 'psycho' at least at the present moment as we all know that would change in future but that's a different topic altogether.

Edited by kavyanjali08 - 9 years ago

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Ron

@ronshaan

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Interesting post I totally agree, sanj is becoming obsessed, thinking arjun is duffer and can't see the right or wrong but her approach of helping him is not helping but kicking him away of her because she become irritating person.

what i liked yesterday, he was going to tell maya his answer is no she said to him arjun I know you don't love me so its ok but don't spoil this special moment. It was different thing from what she said to her mother "Kya fark padhta hai" she knows uske dil me love nahi but dheere dheere love ho jayegaa.

never say no b4 u try anything ... this is what she thinks and this is what will make him fall for maya.

maya finds her peace with him, he found happiness with her. Yes she is rich but that doesnt mean her love is fake