Why man's possessiveness is accepted and not of woman's? - Page 3

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Another comparison between viraj and jhanvi and arjun and Maya ...

Viraj and jhanvi were hubby and wife ...Jhanvi accepted and loved him ...she wanted to cure him ...hope thats all going to be fine and had no support like friends ...

Arjun hasn't fallen for Maya ...on the other side there is saanjh who loves him selflessly and he needs her support.Their relationship is much more then friends .So why would anyone want arjun to fall in problems ?

The same if arjun and Maya were hubby and wife ...we want always want them to stick to each other and arjun trying to cure her .There is difference in both the situations.

Only problems will be in Saanjh's life not Arjuns.
Arjuns life might just get better 😆 plus why are we comparing this shows characters to another show
Each show has an individual message, and that show was clearly more traditional.
And how do we know Arjun wont fall for Maya, what if he does?
What of he falls in love with Mayas imperfections

Originally posted by: ishakumar

Just to clarify we dont like their jodi only for looks lol 😆
There are many other aspects that make them perfect for each other

1. Maya also deserves love no matter what, because she couldnt get that love from family.
2. Maya is alien to this feeling of love, she doesnt know how love should be expressed, and just because her expression is different doesnt make her a pyscho
3. Her past has shaped her, but her future with Arjun will define her
4. Arjuns protective nature has attracted Maya not his looks
5. Maya sees a trustable person in Arjun
6. Arjun has not told anyone about Maya's fears (when ashwin comes to scare her)
7. Who knows maybe Arjun is more compatible with Maya? Just because she is not Saanjh doesnt mean she cant have a good relationship with Arjun
8. Maya is ready to change herself. When she ate the mirchis it signified that she ir ready to dwell with Arjun whether it even ends up hurting her. She is willing to do anything he likes, and according to that Arjun can change her outlook on life
9. Maya doesnt trust any other guy except Arjun. So that is their relationship should be given a chance.

😃

It's all about Maya in all the points mentioned above .Nowhere it's about arjun.Relationships are difficult to deal with even when it comes to normal people.Maya needs treatment .Maya s expression is different doesn't mean she is phyco.A Different expression means trying get away his best friends by showing knife.Piercing glass in hand.A fight and Maya becomes suicidal ...She can harm herself and others too.When person harms others the person can be called physco or phyco in the making.So a person needs treatment ...

When we think about saajun considering the needs of both the parties ...not just one ...

Originally posted by: ishakumar

Only problems will be in Saanjh's life not Arjuns.
Arjuns life might just get better 😆 plus why are we comparing this shows characters to another show
Each show has an individual message, and that show was clearly more traditional.
And how do we know Arjun wont fall for Maya, what if he does?
What of he falls in love with Mayas imperfections

See anything can happen but here TM asked why did people accept jhanvi and viraj and why objecting arya ?So obviously comparisons will be made .Just explained how the situations are different.

Lastly I m not saying I want a particular thing to happen but I feel it will happen in a certain way which is going to be entertaining to me...The reason for watching the show are

Maya -the mysterious and layered character in show.We all have eagerness to know and to watch her with excitement.Her obsession for arjun will surpass all levels and it will an adventures journey for the viewers.Honestly I don't find her becoming normal ...Maya will live an adventures life not a peaceful life and she will enjoy it since she will be powerful and she ur born to play.

Saanjh- Well though I say saajun deserve each other .This is a show and it will get boring if Arjun realises or falls in love with saanjh right now.The characters need to develop.Saanjh character needs to be developed so she needs a heartbreak from arjun.

Arjun- The chracter needs to develop and to realise the worth of people and look beyond glitter and shine

Ayan-The current baby of the show will soon be mature and responsible guy who will take of vandana and provide support to saanjh to get through it.

Twists are required to make this show entertaining.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

It's all about Maya in all the points mentioned above .Nowhere it's about arjun.Relationships are difficult to deal with even when it comes to normal people.Maya needs treatment .Maya s expression is different doesn't mean she is phyco.A Different expression means trying get away his best friends by showing knife.Piercing glass in hand.A fight and Maya becomes suicidal ...She can harm herself and others too.When person harms others the person can be called physco or phyco in the making.So a person needs treatment ...

When we think about saajun considering the needs of both the parties ...not just one ...

Being possessive in love is not a trait reserved to men. Women have just as much right to be possessive of the man they love. But when guys do it, it's Hot and masculine. When women do it, it's obsessed and psycho behavior.

^ as long as maya remains this way, doing morally unacceptable things in the name of love, no sane person would fall in love with her. And even if he would, he wouldn't remain that way. The love gradually gets replaced with anger and then sympathy. The promos were not misleading. ArYa will be very much a couple, I'm sure of that...but i don't think their equation will remain that way. It's not a good girl vs bad girl thing. It's us fans I think who are making it that way. The story of beyhadh is such that it tells u how extreme one person can be in love. Saanjh is at one extreme and maya is at the other extreme. Both loves are completely different from one another, and the show is trying to tell us just that. It's very surprising that ppl thot that this show is just a love story. There is so much more to this show than that.

Originally posted by: love_taher

^ as long as maya remains this way, doing morally unacceptable things in the name of love, no sane person would fall in love with her. And even if he would, he wouldn't remain that way. The love gradually gets replaced with anger and then sympathy. The promos were not misleading. ArYa will be very much a couple, I'm sure of that...but i don't think their equation will remain that way. It's not a good girl vs bad girl thing. It's us fans I think who are making it that way. The story of beyhadh is such that it tells u how extreme one person can be in love. Saanjh is at one extreme and maya is at the other extreme. Both loves are completely different from one another, and the show is trying to tell us just that. It's very surprising that ppl thot that this show is just a love story. There is so much more to this show than that.

If we're talking abt arjun and saanjh, it's too early to say whether they will be a couple or not, as of now, it's not love but their friendship that makers are trying to portray. Arjun doesn't love anybody. Period. When I said he'll come back to saanjh, it doesn't necessarily mean he will be romantically involved with her. He will come back to her friendship and to the homely feeling that she gives him, which maya is gonna surely take away from him...n we have got enough evidence to prove that much atleast.

The show is not just a love story between 2 ppl. It's abt maya's beyhadhness and how that affects Arjun, Saanjh's n her own life. Having said that, we will definitely get romantic scenes between maya n arjun, makers will not disappoint viewers like that by only showing the serious stuff. But this show is much more than that. Just the love story of the bad girl, as u have put it!

Originally posted by: ArYa-JenWin20

Wow..wow..👏

Siddhi . .what a post..

Mind blowing👏

You have said rite..this show isn't gonna just about love story..

If it is just simply love story then nothing new would happen..

And I am sure cvs not gonna dissapiint us (Hope so)..

They will show us different side of love ,passion,suuport..etc

And most importantly "hadh se jeyda kuch bhi accha nehi hota". .this concept..

Girl love your posts..😳😊

You know you have pointed those things.. brilliantly . .

And now I hope

we just have to wait and see what happens next..😃

Originally posted by: love_taher

Thanks Sharmin!!😊 Very kind of u :) yes we should wait n watch! I am toh loving this show with every passing episode more and more!!