Why is Arshad not good for Zoya?

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alizia_malik

@alizia_malik

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: vandana21
guess he'll do the honors by backing out of the marriage ultimately :)) after seeing Adi's dedication toward Zoya ..and sensing somewhat what Zoya is going through ..I think he'll be the one to call the wedding off at the last moment ..

I don't want this then their won't be the intensity we all crave. He will be the martyr for their love. No NO and they will be in his dept for whole life for their love story sake.

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Krithika ravichandran

@Kiruravi

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#12

He is not suitable to zoya accrdng to me and zoya can never be happy with him( even if adi is not there in her lyf) . The reasons are 1st is he canot understand zoya. Definitely he has concern for her but he can never understand her. He is reading her lips not her heart. If she says she is fine nd happy he believes it just like tht. Zoya's pain is more visible but still he could not read it nor understand it. Second is i think he is an opportunistic person. He hides certain things nd reveals the same things according to his convience. Next rsn would be he is a prsn who is following his mind more than his hrt.he had met zoya many times but not once he had asked abt her likes and dislikes but without knwing tht he is saying tht he wil give her cinematic fantasy love life. Zoya said tht she doesnt love neither him nor adi still he doesnt care abt tht much cuz he believes tht she wil fall in love with him aftr mrg. Which i find it vry overconfident. Because he very well knws tht she is suffering frm trust issues still without even knwing anything abt her he is confident tht she would fall for him. And above all i dnt think he loves zoya truly amd completely. It is more like a infactuation or like but not love. Even if it is a love then he is not completely loving her. To me even if zoya goes away frm him tht wil not affect him much. He is a typical arranged marriage groom now.

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Salutethearmy

@Salutethearmy

Rocker

+ 7

Posted: 7 years ago

#13

Doesn't it happen in our country or places around the world. Boy sees girl, they talk , if the boy likes the girl , marriage is fixed. Sometimes it's forced even when the girl is independent financially or has mind of her own. Yes it happens with guys too and sites like shaadi.com are minting money too.

What was wrong with Yash in the first place , if Waseem was tracking his biz, in the real world won't a father tell his son in law or daughter , look he has too much on his plate. It was money that msttered no ? Either sell the biz and look out for a job. Event management also pays well. Parents never intervened , Zoya never understood, he gave up on her and went into the arms of another woman

This Zoya will understand, Arshad isn't into some event management business or is taking risks and is practical. She might sign in for a loveless marriage first and then if he is good will be attached to him. If there are kids ,then her responsibility and attention shall go fully towards them. It's adjustment and understanding that matters. Arshad if he wants to get married to Zoya only , he has to carry that baggage of her past through his life, it will take a lot of time for her to open up and don't we all loose patience at some point of time . Even when we post, all of us agree ? No

He has to be patient , if he is and can break the glass ,then half the battle is won. Waseem is correct, both Yash and Adi were not the right choices. Then it's another issue altogether if Zoya or Arshad both decide to either make their union work or not. They have to discover each other , sometimes one hit the target and most of the time the dart is just flying in the air. To be frank , doctors shld get married to doctors , their profession is very demanding..I maybe wrong but it's not everyone's cup of tea to understsnd doctors .

Not considering Aditya at all here bcos he is a different personality altogether. How can one define him, he is Vibgyor.

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Aaliya....

@Aaliya_Fizz

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

#14

Simply because He is not Adi❤️

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Jareth

@Jareth

Explorer

Posted: 7 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: -Tulips-
Keep aside the fact that we all love AdiYa Jodi and we all want AdiYa to end up together.

But for a second, let's think is Arshad really not good for Zoya? If so then why?

Arshad is a well established doctor, belongs to a well to do and sharif izzatdar family and is also a nice guy. So far, he is not shown as a negative character.

On top of that, he loves Zoya. Yes, he does love her because no one will accept a gal's proposal after getting rejected by her twice and even after getting slapped and insulted in front of lot of people. He has put his ego aside for Zoya.

So why can't he be good for Zoya? Why can't Zoya be unhappy with this guy after marriage? Why can't she fall in love with him after marriage?

I agree she loves Aditya but then lot of people forget their love after marriage with someone else. They attached to their spouses and forget their love. It all depends upon Arshad to make her fall in love with him and he is ready to do that.

I also agree both are different as chalk and cheese but that doesn't mean both can't be happy with each other. Many people with different nature, different thoughts and ideals also live happily with each other by understanding each other.

So why is Arshad not good for Zoya? This thought was coming into my mind earlier too but today after listening to Adi's dialogues that even Zoya has got the right to be loved, I finally decided to make this topic.

P.S.- Everyone, please put aside ur AdiYa fangirling chashmah and give ur views on this. 😊

P.S.- Cvs, if u r reading this, don't even think about Arshad Zoya marriage after reading my post otherwise 😈

Okay so we all remember what aditya said right? When the bracelet arshad gave to zoya fell at his feet he said that the bracelet had a lot of qualities (beautiful, khaandani etc etc) but it simply wasn't the right fit for her

Now what i inferred from that scene was that we may come across people who seem to have it all and yet we may feel nothing stronger than a fondness or a mere liking. Like but not love. That is what zoya feels for arshad. Arshad has never managed to evoke strong emotions from zoya. It is only aditya who manages to elicit those strong emotions. The only time zoya reacted strongly with arshad was when he made allegations against Aditya. So it is only Aditya who can make her feel sad, angry, strong, worthy. He makes her feel. Arshad would not mistreat her. He would pamper her like a fragile princess. Just like yash did. And zoya would return to her former self. As she was with yash. A sheltered fragile woman. What zoya needs is challenge. She needs someone like Aditya who keeps her on her toes. This a woman who has already experienced a timid sort of love with yash. That won't be enough a second time around and she knows this well. Also when Arshad took her to see the view at night she was pleased but it was Aditya's gesture that brought a genuine smile to her face because it wasn't extravagant. It was simply what she liked. A simple gesture that spoke volumes since it touched the simplicity she has. Aditya angers her, confuses her and excites. Arshad does not. With Arshad she is bland. With aditya she truly shines. To his fire she is the calm water. And he is the wings that take her far over the ground to the sky she looked at but never thought of reaching. Simply put, he is different from yash. A different sort of love and a friend. He makes her feel like his equal. As she should

Edited by Jareth - 7 years ago

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enlightenme

@enlightenme

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

#16

First and foremost Zoya may be a good candidate for marriage but, she is not and would never be ready for a marriage unless there is a promise of friendship in it, which I don't see in Arshad. He just wants to get married to the good candidate, the means don't matter, if it's even by revealing her best friend's emotions to her. He can't sense Zoya's distance her confusion, her dilemma. If he had really fallen in love with Zoya he would have decently asked her to complete these 2 weeks of courtship period prior to marriage rituals and see where this is going. Now, these are the reasons I feel Arshad should be rejected.

Why Zoya-Arshad won't work out is because unlike Aditya nobody had seen Zoya in her lowest? It's easy to love a person when they are at their best but it most difficult at the other times. Aditya feel in love when she was at her lowest.

Arshad-Zoya can of course get married like a man-woman but the chances of displacement reaction will be high, it won't be a stable relationship Arshad might stray at some point given the fact that Zoya doesn't love and care for him like a standard wife should do. Even Pooja-Aditya marriage would be better than Arshad-Zoya marriage if Yash was not in the equation.

AdiYa marriage would have the elements of love, friendship, empathy and compassion. Even when Zoya was in the denial mode she accepted the fact that it's easy to say I understand, but nobody can empathize with her the way Aditya does. Empathy is the first stirring of bepannaah love where one person can connect to another's pain.

Edited by enlightenme - 7 years ago

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Deepthy

@deeps07

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 7 years ago

#17

All the facts about arshads character makes him a good guy..but for a women like zoya who has suffered enough from past marriage..just because a guy is a good character doesnt mean he is perfect for her..yash is shown to be a good guy too.(.even thiugh i still dnt have tht opinion of him.. 😆)..yash became unhappy in his marrg with zoya because of unknown reasons to her during marrg..thats the worst thing tht happens in relationships..when people are unknwn to each others feelings..arshad being a good guy doesnt mean he will be able to understand zoya or no matter how.much arshad loves her, zoya will be able to understand him..

I wont support aditya here..not because i dnt..but keeping aside my support for adiya..but comparing zoyas relationship with aditya and arshad..

Considering Both aditya and zoya do have feelings for each other...so by marrying arshad. Even if arshad loves her so.much zoyas heart will be for aditya..its will.like another zosh disaster..with zoya in yashs position..maybe she wont have an ema..but being unhappy remembering another guy is enough for the marrg to be a failure..

Now if u mean tht zoya doesnt love aditya...why cant she love arshad?..she can..that is if she doesnt have feelings for aditya..but in her current situation..if she really doesnt have feelings for aditya..she wouldn't be maryying arshad this soon..tht hurry in itself is a giveaway..zoya wuld have taken her time to establish the trust and friendship she lacked in her prev relationship befr binding herself in a other relationship..

She has that trust and friendship in aditya..love is unknwin to.her yet..once she accepts her love it would be easier for her to love aditya..but for arshad..its just too fast to establish the trust and friendship and be in a relationship for zoya..

Edited by deeps07 - 7 years ago

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Isha

@tereliyex

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 7 years ago

#18

Arshad and Zoya can surely make a marriage work. But neither of them will ever be happy. Arshad will spend his whole life trying to make Zoya love him and Zoya will never be able to. I can't say this 100% but as long as Aditya is alive and well I don't think Zoya can ever love someone else. Most of the time people around me who have loved sincerely and gotten married to someone else always tell me about their "if onlys" and "what if's".

Arshad may be good, but the thing is that we've seen Aditya's love and can Arshad live up to that standard? Will he demean himself for Zoya's love? Will he save Zoya in every situation? Aditya has proven himself worthy of Zoya countless times, being a nice bloke with a promising career doesn't mean you'll be a good husband. Chemistry and a deeper connection is necessary, I know a lot of people say that's unrealistic and maybe it is but very few people get a chance to have that in their life and Zoya got it...

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Sarana1234

@Sarana1234

Explorer

Posted: 7 years ago

#19

He is wrong for her only because she loves Aditya :)

I have nothing against Arshad so far. He has been shown to be human...and poor guy is also in love with Zoya.

Now, these things do happen in arrange marriages in India, and probably if she was married to him, even if she did not love this guy they would lived happily ever-after.

The thing is that ever-after is different for every individual..in this case they have gone through marriages in which EMA happened, when they were completely dedicated to their marriages. With her and Adi, a lot of water has flown under the bridge for them to really be that connected to anyone else other than each other. They understand each other like no one else. It's like Arshad can 'sympathise' and can feel for her but they both 'empathise' and actually understand each other.

So, yes Arshad is a good guy...just not for Zoya...and i really hope CV's keep Arshad as positive only.

Originally posted by: -Tulips-
Keep aside the fact that we all love AdiYa Jodi and we all want AdiYa to end up together.

But for a second, let's think is Arshad really not good for Zoya? If so then why?

Arshad is a well established doctor, belongs to a well to do and sharif izzatdar family and is also a nice guy. So far, he is not shown as a negative character.

On top of that, he loves Zoya. Yes, he does love her because no one will accept a gal's proposal after getting rejected by her twice and even after getting slapped and insulted in front of lot of people. He has put his ego aside for Zoya.

So why can't he be good for Zoya? Why can't Zoya be unhappy with this guy after marriage? Why can't she fall in love with him after marriage?

I agree she loves Aditya but then lot of people forget their love after marriage with someone else. They attached to their spouses and forget their love. It all depends upon Arshad to make her fall in love with him and he is ready to do that.

I also agree both are different as chalk and cheese but that doesn't mean both can't be happy with each other. Many people with different nature, different thoughts and ideals also live happily with each other by understanding each other.

So why is Arshad not good for Zoya? This thought was coming into my mind earlier too but today after listening to Adi's dialogues that even Zoya has got the right to be loved, I finally decided to make this topic.

P.S.- Everyone, please put aside ur AdiYa fangirling chashmah and give ur views on this. 😊

P.S.- Cvs, if u r reading this, don't even think about Arshad Zoya marriage after reading my post otherwise 😈

Edited by Sarana1234 - 7 years ago

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Mandy

@BeyondHorizon

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 7 years ago

#20

TBH from day one I never found anything negative about Arshad and I am not hard set in my ways to feel anyone who comes between my fav couple has to be a negative character. In fact so many movies had wonderful parallel characters for ex KKHH, DTPH to name a few. It depends on how makers portray that character. The only time Arshad behaved out of character was when he punched Adi to a pulp. But otherwise he has been a genuinely decent guy n he doesn't love her like Adi does bcoz he is not connected to her, to her past the way Adi is. His love like him is simple. It's not intense neither passionate. There is nothing to say he won't be a good husband to Zoya or Zoya can't learn to love him after their marriage. In real life there are so many instances where two people in a relationship don't end up together but that doesn't mean they won't find love in their marriage later. If Arshad was the hero n not Aditya the very same people would have wanted Zoya to be with Arshad 😆 the reason why we (including me) want Adiya is bcoz we are familiar with their story and we firmly believe they r meant to be together no matter what. We can come up with a million excuses as to why AdiYa are the end deal but fact remains we want that coz that's what we are made to believe. No matter how much we want to believe in eternal love n together forever n all of that romantic garbage truth is things don't necessarily work out the way we want it to in real life and my views are purely from a practical standpoint n nothing else 😊

Edited by BeyondHorizon - 7 years ago

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