Zoya making the same mistake

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Don't you all see Zoya making the same mistake again?

The main reason her husband had an affair because she was always in a fairyland and never understood husbands needs and /or financial status

She is repeating again. Being in her own world/bubble. She is not seeing / understanding Adithiya's feelings / emotions. Just irritating everyone by repeating over and over again by keeping saying Adithiya is her best friend.

Funny is Adhithya lost his wife because he was unable to see her beyond a best friend even though he made her pregnant

I wonder why Adhithya was not irritated yet every time she refers his as a good/best friend

Before ratings drop drastically, move the story forward please

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Because she's not entitled to have feelings for Aditya?

The beauty of a love story is when it's mutual. She was bound to a marriage by Yash, hence her fairytale romance she imagined didn't work out, because marriages require work and are much more than a fairytale.

She's told Aditya that he's her best friend and that's it. Idk why people think Zoya is OBLIGATED to reciprocate Aditya's feelings.

Obviously she will...but all in due time. Just because someone loves you doesn't mean you have to love them back.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ishana-

Because she's not entitled to have feelings for Aditya?

The beauty of a love story is when it's mutual. She was bound to a marriage by Yash, hence her fairytale romance she imagined didn't work out, because marriages require work and are much more than a fairytale.

She's told Aditya that he's her best friend and that's it. Idk why people think Zoya is OBLIGATED to reciprocate Aditya's feelings.

Obviously she will...but all in due time. Just because someone loves you doesn't mean you have to love them back.


AMEN! Sing it louder for the people in the back.

Aditya being in love with her doesn't mean Zoya needs to feel the same way...ever.

Obviously this is a love story and at some point this she will reciprocate but this assumption and expectation that she must love Adi just because he's in love with her is absurd.

She has been horribly burned in her marriage and at this moment, emotionally, she probably isn't ready for any type of romantic love. Why is that bad? As much as I feel for Adi, he too needs to realize that confessing his feelings doesn't necessarily change anything.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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So if someone was to fall in love with me, does that mean I have to love them back?? 😆 if you watched the precap, Zoya clearly told her parents she has no room for love in her life. Somewhere she is scared to fall in love again, just because she has moved on from yash doesn't mean she is ready to get herself into another relationship or marriage. Now obviously she will fall in love with Aditya, actually I believe she already is but she is yet to realise it and that's why dr arshad miah has entered the Bepannaah world 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ishana-

Because she's not entitled to have feelings for Aditya?

The beauty of a love story is when it's mutual. She was bound to a marriage by Yash, hence her fairytale romance she imagined didn't work out, because marriages require work and are much more than a fairytale.

She's told Aditya that he's her best friend and that's it. Idk why people think Zoya is OBLIGATED to reciprocate Aditya's feelings.

Obviously she will...but all in due time. Just because someone loves you doesn't mean you have to love them back.



Neither I am saying Zoya has to reciprocate Adhirya's feelings nor saying if someone loves you other have to love in the same manner. Rather saying she needs to start read/understand others' feelings and /or what's going on in their life. I just feel that she has one track mind. Meaning she doesn't even try to see in others point of view, just thinks that everyone else also thinks just like her. Basically, I don't see any difference in her thinking / behavior before and after knowing about her husband's affair
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: delena90



AMEN! Sing it louder for the people in the back.

Aditya being in love with her doesn't mean Zoya needs to feel the same way...ever.

Obviously this is a love story and at some point this she will reciprocate but this assumption and expectation that she must love Adi just because he's in love with her is absurd.

She has been horribly burned in her marriage and at this moment, emotionally, she probably isn't ready for any type of romantic love. Why is that bad? As much as I feel for Adi, he too needs to realize that confessing his feelings doesn't necessarily change anything.



I know it's hard to be a feminist in ITV show forums but I can't help myself here.
BP is such a progressive show, I expect a lot more consideration from the audience in terms of understanding a woman's choice and her right to reject love. We all know Zoya will reciprocate but even if she didn't, it's ok!!!

I think Aditya is a bit overboard in terms of trying to profess his love, it'll just make Zoya confused at this point. Though I can't really blame him, I'm the same way. If I like someone, I'll just tell them and if they reciprocate, wonderful! If they don't, oh well... 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yash never looked at Zoya the way Adi looks at her so how will she know it's love? Adi always has given her intense looks even when there were problems between them. Secondly, Adi never made her feel he loves her. He tried to propose to her twice but failed. Unless he confesses he is in love with her, Zoya is not going to understand his feelings.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Girls, don't take me wrong. I am not against in any way rather I am a huge huge fan of Harsad and KING of expressions.

Even Jennifer doing a fabulous job with her killer beauty

Just want to see the change in the preception of life and have to understand others. Just cannot impose your own thoughts/ feelings to others

Example, she thinks that he also considers her as a best friend nothing else.

On the other hand , he was struggling to understand his emotions and feelings. He just didn't label her as his good friend.

He struggled to understand what went wrong in his marriage , what he feels about Zoya and all
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Agamfan



Neither I am saying Zoya has to reciprocate Adhirya's feelings nor saying if someone loves you other have to love in the same manner. Rather saying she needs to start read/understand others' feelings and /or what's going on in their life. I just feel that she has one track mind. Meaning she doesn't even try to see in others point of view, just thinks that everyone else also thinks just like her. Basically, I don't see any difference in her thinking / behavior before and after knowing about her husband's affair


I think it's a bit unfair to expect her to understand things she can't verbally hear.
With Yash, she had a fraction of the blame because she understand him like a friend would. Which to some extent is expected of a spouse. But with Aditya, how can she understand his love if he hasn't told her?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Tulips-

Yash never looked at Zoya the way Adi looks at her so how will she know it's love? Adi always has given her intense looks even when there were problems between them. Secondly, Adi never made her feel he loves her. He tried to propose to her twice but failed. Unless he confesses he is in love with her, Zoya is not going to understand his feelings.



What? Isn't it Yash & Zoys's love marriage? They never showed us how they fell in love and that track. Then how can you say that Yash never looked at Zola the way Adhithya looks at Zoya ? They only showed us Yash was in financial trouble and he couldn't tell her that as she is in a fairytale world. Unless I am missing something

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