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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sincere apologies to all. The post has been Deleted. I know the forum members are not responsible. I saw a post on twitter yesterday that bashed Harsh n Gunjan n therefore I had written this. My intention was never to hurt anyone's sentiments. I am sincerely apologizing to all members who felt offended. Let's just bury the hatchet and love BI & ZaYa.
Thank You.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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let it be jinko smjhna hoga dey'll gt it jinko nai smjhna hoga unko jo bhi keh do wo nai smjhengey why to make dem understand a thing which dey dnt wnt to understand evr aj agree karengey kal fir kch rumor hoga nd agn old story so let it be we cnt control oder people..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Errm...I dont know about others, but I haven't seen any such activity in this forum where in fans have verbally abused Gunjan or Harshad. So I don't see why this has to be brought up again.

All this happened 2-3 days back and people have moved on. If you made this post because some fans did something in some social websites, then its no use really. Here in this forum, most of us are a matured lot.

Another thing, whether we advice some poeple are not, there will be a group of fans in EVERY fandom who are not mature and act impulsively. Not all human beings are perfect and same. They have their flaws and react. So the best thing I would suggest is ignore them like the actors themselves do, when its pointless to make them understand or stop. 😆

I appreciate your effort to try to make everyone understand, but its old news now, so lets just forget it happened. Enjoy the show!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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um no one here has bashed Gunjan at all...yes our hearts were broken since we have been shipping Harshika for so long but we wouldn't do that to Gunjan..she's as much part of BI as Zaya and any other member.
I have twitter and I sure didn't ask anything from anyone as I know it's their personal lives and we all do here.

I understand your point and I'm sure everyone here does. U know there are some Zaya fans who are very active on twitter and they are not part of this forum, so it would be awesome if u can kindly send them that lecture.

And keep in mind that those ppl u r referring to are in the minority, the only problem is that they're persistent and unreasonable so the attack on the actors. therefore when u make a post/speech like this don't make it sound like we're all like them..it's actually very hurtful..to me atleast.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Silver_19

um no one here has bashed Gunjan at all...yes our hearts were broken since we have been shipping Harshika for so long but we wouldn't do that to Gunjan..she's as much part of BI as Zaya and any other member.

I have twitter and I sure didn't ask anything from anyone as I know it's their personal lives and we all do here.

I understand your point and I'm sure everyone here does. U know there are some Zaya fans who are very active on twitter and there are not part of this forum, so it would be awesome if u can kindly send them that lecture.

And keep in mind that those ppl u r referring to are in the minority, the only problem is that they're persistent and unreasonable so the attack on the actors. therefore when u make a post/speech like this don't make it sound like we're all like them..it's actually very hurtful..to me atleast.


See, I am mature enough to understand how hurtful it is when for the minority, everyone has to suffer. Yesterday schocikingly the least expected people brought this up and I was hurt that ALL Beintehaa fans are being blamed for it. I was so ashamed that we have to remind our friends continuously about this matter. And like I said, if you are one of the matured ones, you are welcome to share this post so that the some people regain conscience. My intention simply wasn't to hurt or offend anyone. I did not even mention particulars. I just wrote what I felt, and also maybe some of the others feel too, in general.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nandini27

Errm...I dont know about others, but I haven't seen any such activity in this forum where in fans have verbally abused Gunjan or Harshad. So I don't see why this has to be brought up again.

All this happened 2-3 days back and people have moved on. If you made this post because some fans did something in some social websites, then its no use really. Here in this forum, most of us are a matured lot.

Another thing, whether we advice some poeple are not, there will be a group of fans in EVERY fandom who are not mature and act impulsively. Not all human beings are perfect and same. They have their flaws and react. So the best thing I would suggest is ignore them like the actors themselves do, when its pointless to make them understand or stop. 😆

I appreciate your effort to try to make everyone understand, but its old news now, so lets just forget it happened. Enjoy the show!


Exactly my point, But yesterday people started talking about it again on Twitter and Facebook. i have written it here so that whoever looks up for updates, can find this one too and maybe it could be one of those people too, who have said obnoxious things. My intention is not harming anybody's sentiment. Thanks For The Review

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good Post
But the fact is that its the behaviour of so called ZaYa Fans on twitter which pisses me off . They are bunch of kids tweeting crap and malign Za fandom image on general. I m glad that none of us here have bashed or posted crap about Gunjan. I proud of my buddies here.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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^^ Again, am saying is, this is not gonna change with this topic. Tomorrow they will post a picture of Harsh and Gunjan together(IF, I am saying only IF) it will blow up out of proportion. Why would they invest time reading what we have to say with maturity when they don't even take the actors' words seriously? The co stars, the PR everyone said its not true. What difference will our words change their minds? Its just pointless.

I know you want to help, but its pointless. And making this post is like bringing up old stuffs. I am on twitter facebook too, but I haven't seen any such stuff since yesterday. So it means not all of us see these stuffs of baseless bashing. And even if we did we ignore it. Bringing it up again and again to make a point to the immature fans is actually making it worse. They will argue back, they will not care. And it will also be hurtful to those fans who are trying to forget this whole thing happened.

I am not suggesting you don't share your views, but when time has passed, it's better to leave it. It will die down eventually.

I am out of here.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Excuse me why do u think those bunch of kids are from India forum? Here ppl r much more mature than twitter kids.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well firstly, this is the first time i'm commenting on your posts since this is the first one you have posted after i joined twitter...
and sorry to say, but as you urself admit, you definitely ARE rude and it hurts for sure.. atleast me, it hurts a lot
we people out here NEVER bashed Gunjan or for that reason anyone from the cast of BI. and believe me, we have ourselves discussed how disgusting it is to do such things on social media
and thus i'm a proud member of BI forum out here
i completely understand that you want to help.. but really sorry to say, this does not seem to be the right way to me
as one of friend did point out, when people don't listen to the Cast or PH, i wonder if they would even read this...
and digging buried matters is something which is happening HERE. coz we have happily forgotten that news.
all i can assure on behalf of the BI forum on I-F is that nothing of this sort would happen here... healthy discussions are bound to happen on the news but not bashing or name calling of anyone..
we surely are and will behave in a matured way..
thank you though for pondering over this and taking time to make a post like this on the show we all love immensely
thanks again

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