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Posted: 14 years ago
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From the 'About the show' page

Beendh Banunga Ghodi Chadhunga is a family drama that revolves around the story of two people caught up in the web of strong traditions and rituals.

The show traces the story of Sarika (Jayashree) & Jai (Anuj Thakur) who both come from Marwari families but have a very different outlook to life. Sarika is a young and ambitious girl from an average family in Jaipur and Jai is the youngest & the most pampered son of a rich businessman. While Sarika's ambition is to complete her studies and become a Doctor, Jai's only dream is to get married and live a carefree life. Yet, when these two diverse people cross paths, destiny has its own rules set for them. Sarika, who is on the verge of fulfilling her dreams, unwittingly finds herself married to Jai. From there on begins Sarika's struggle of managing the household and pursuing her dreams. While she has a tough time at college, at home she is repudiated by her conservative in laws for not being a good bahu. On one hand she struggles with her assignments in college, on the other she puts in great effort in discharging her responsibilities at home. The show drives the thought that can a girl realize her dreams/create her identity while donning the role of a dutiful daughter-in-law in a traditional society. The show marks the return of television superstar Nausheen Ali Sardar on the small screen. It also has powerhouse actors like Khyati Khandke, Himani Shivpuri, Akshay Anand and a host of others in key roles.


Well, we all know how all Imagine shows stay true to their USPs to the end. 4 would-be jethanis and a role solely in the kitchen? A thinly disguised saas-bahu show.

Anyway, the thing that bothers me about this show right of the bat is the message above. In the first episode clip, they show her literally burning the midnight oil studying, and in return for her efforts, this? Sarika unwittingly finds herself married? What's this - like someone spiking a drink of hers or what? What's that all about?

And the theme of the show in bold above - forcing a college age girl to marry & fulfill her bahu responsibilities when she clearly has interests to study (and presumably work) - and showing her as ideal only if she can do both? W*F? How about this - if a girl is as interested in studies & a career, do not dump her in a sasural. Conversely, if she weren't interested in studies & a career in the first place and wanted to trot around in a sasural barefoot & pregnant, do not force her to study and waste money on the attempt. But expecting a girl to do both is a recipe for disaster.

I can see this going right in. Once she marries, as long as she is home, she'll be berated for studying instead of cooking, and will be shown reading her book in the kitchen while stirring the dal, and the CVs are going to portray this as some sort of ideal bahu behavior. If she decides to go out to her campus to study more peacefully, her jethanis will berate her for not spending more time @ home. Oh, not to forget - @ campus, she'll definitely stand out for being married - a majority of college students still ain't married, as far as I know - and potentially face taunts. So just sounds like an all round sadistic routine that will give the other saas-bahu dramas a run for their money.

Expectations from this show: 👎🏼👎🏼👎🏼

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I just saw the 2nd epi...am disappointed too..that male lead seems like a daddu silly guy..didn't like him at all.The heroine's mom is too young..I love jiju the most..he is an awesome actor..I see this show just for the love of Rajasthan and their culture.
On the other hand,there is yeh rishta kya kehlata hai in star plus,which is a rajasthani based show and it is really a great show..
I am not liking the main leads here..the story is weak too
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Posted: 14 years ago
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The heroine herself is too young (to marry) - she's still college going and intensely studying. From the first episode, looks like her Dadi will be the catalyst in putting her thru a guilt trip for not marrying. And I'm not seeing how she ends up w/ him - what will happen - he'll just surface and ask for her hand, and her parents, w/o knowing anything about him, will just dump her into this family just b'cos they are of a similar background?

I agree - the story seems pathetic, and besides that, the heroine doesn't look too great.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Vrish_

The heroine herself is too young (to marry) - she's still college going and intensely studying. From the first episode, looks like her Dadi will be the catalyst in putting her thru a guilt trip for not marrying. And I'm not seeing how she ends up w/ him - what will happen - he'll just surface and ask for her hand, and her parents, w/o knowing anything about him, will just dump her into this family just b'cos they are of a similar background?

I agree - the story seems pathetic, and besides that, the heroine doesn't look too great.

herione's mom is younger than heroine 😆😆..dadis are dominating in almost every other show..can they pls stop showing us boring dadis..in fact,I love yeh rishta dadi.she is awesome.Not only the heroine..the hero looks like a lofer 😆..both are pathetic..the hero looks like a 1st year college guy 😆
I think...star plus and zee /sony produce good shows..all other channels...are pathetic... 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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The father of the heroine looked too young as well - in fact, his existing damaat & older daughter looked about his age. It's tough to digest that - once either the elder daughter, or later Sarika, has a baby, they'd be grandparents, but look way too young for that. Wonder whether they married in the sets of BV? 😆

The other thing about the message above, which I didn't touch on - the message for the guys. In other words, a guy could be a total loser, but if his family manages to cajole a girl like Sarika, he can marry her and just live on her, while she both slaves away & studies? One of the worst matches in TV history, and that too of the lead pair. Only positive about Jai - that he seems very pious, but little else.

Sarika's situation reminds me a bit of DHKJ, where Preeti was forced to marry a guy she disdained - Suryakamal, and was tortured as a bahu. I see the same happening to Sarika. Honestly, I'm not planning on watching this serial after Sarika & Jai get married.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i watched last night's eps , it sounds interesting but not so good as others hows of imagine were , its just time wasting show....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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agree vrish..the gal's dad looks very young too and his acting skills :(((
The main leads mom,look at the way,she was introduced..sooo boring...gosh..this serial has gone for a toss..it won't be air for too long./.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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It has already predicted about this show that it wont go long .both gal n boy are so boring .there were lack of good actor and actress in telly land?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I don't plan to follow it after they're married, since it'll likely be torture scenes for Sarika in her sasural - 4 Jethanis against 1, plus the MIL. Just hope the wedding scene is good, and after that, tune out.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I know..it is gonna be really boring..look at the lead boy and gal...gosh..they didn't get anyone better it seems. After marriage,it will be usual..sas-bahu drama..😵

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