do you know anyone cheated by their kids?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi friends....
I like the concept of this show very much..i know these things are happening in our society... i just want to share my experience with this matter ... and also want your experience... my question is DO YOU KNOW ABOUT ANYONE...who have been cheated by their kids????
.like putting them in old age homes... not taking care of them... etc..etc..
i want to share my answer.. i have one aunty she has 12 kids.... (8 girls and 4 boys) you must be surprised na... but its true... now she is almost 75 to 80 years old... i like her very much.. she is so ooo good..
when her husband died ...things didn't went good after the partition of her property.. now she lives in a small house. and she had to leave her big house where she stayed for years... it was so sad.....her childrens are not bad... but they shoudn't have done this to her.....😭.......
i need to know about your experience also...........

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Posted: 15 years ago
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first of all nice post dear n in my relatives or famiky friends no 1 is having such prob well there r soooo many old homes knoww
saba
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yea I know one lady who used to live in my street. She was same as my Grandmother. She had 1 son and two daughter (both married but died at very young age) So she used to live with her son. but har DIL did not like it so some how they told her to leave the house so she came and started live on my street. Her son's house was 1 block away from where we lived. So she was living by herself we used help her by money or by food and if she needs to get something from market. One day she found out she has Cancer and still her son did not care and never came to her just to sit with her and talk with her. We had to move to other country and few days before we were going to leave my house she commited suside and died.
i really felt so sorry for her. I mean we helped her all we can but after all she was mother and wanted to live with her son and grand Childrens.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I know of relatives whose children are not as supportive of their parent/parents as they should be. Sometimes, there is fault on both sides. But I feel that parents-children relationship is too precious for both to give up on, they should work out their differences. Afterall, our parents are the first people in our lives with whom we form a loving bond.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: radha5

Yea I know one lady who used to live in my street. She was same as my Grandmother. She had 1 son and two daughter (both married but died at very young age) So she used to live with her son. but har DIL did not like it so some how they told her to leave the house so she came and started live on my street. Her son's house was 1 block away from where we lived. So she was living by herself we used help her by money or by food and if she needs to get something from market. One day she found out she has Cancer and still her son did not care and never came to her just to sit with her and talk with her. We had to move to other country and few days before we were going to leave my house she commited suside and died.

i really felt so sorry for her. I mean we helped her all we can but after all she was mother and wanted to live with her son and grand Childrens.

ohhhhh its really sad ... God will definitely punish her son...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I belong to the medical profession, i have personally seen three couples(patients) in the last 6 mnths, who have not been just cheated, but have actually been deserted and thrown out of their own house and now these people are struggling hard to live with some dignity............harsh reality of todays world.

that's the reason I m enjoying basera as I feel its high time that parents don't depend on their kids for their security but are smart enough to secure their own future financially.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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you know friends..

i think parents are responsible for this. for example 80% parents are 20% kids... i will explain to you with my personal experience.. i lost my father when i was 12 yrs old. i have one sister and one brother. my mother was housewife my father was Assistant Sub Inspector of police...you know our govt. matters take long time for a file to get approved so my mother started getting the pension only after one year of my father's death.. till that time was the most difficult time in our life... but we over come it.. coz from my childhood my mother always teach us the difficulties of life not about the luxuries... when we spoil food she will beat us badly so we know the value of food and money.. very well...

but i have seen some parents doent give a clear picture of their background to the children. coz they feel that even i suffer my kids should not suffer..but for me its not right you should show them your real background.. you guys remember the show SANTAAN??? the kids are joined to english medium school and obviously if your friends are rich you will complain to your parents... i am asking if you are not financially stable why are you showing them luxury life...??
and i believe todays kids get lot of variety of items they want. for example if i wanted a new dress i had to begg for it for atleast one month then only i get one dress. but when i got the dress i feel sooooooooo happy and maintain it very well. but some parents, if one kid ask for new dress they bring 2 or 3 types, so they dont know the value of things and money....
so i think the parents should teach make realize the kids the value of money,self respect, social status, power of relation...etc...etc....
what you think???
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Posted: 15 years ago
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1st of all thanks for sharing this with us in basera forums.... i actually know someone and to be honest that person was my maternal uncle, under some circumstances, my Grandparents were forced to leave the house by my maternal uncle...Its sad but true...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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awwww so many sad stories
saba :((((
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Posted: 15 years ago
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People are so busy in their own lives, working hard and trying to attain the good life that parents tend to be forgotten. The parents and the children could even be living in the same house and yet, there may be lack of communication. One of the saddest things that affect old people is loneliness. It doesn't cost us much to spend a little bit of time, talking to our parents and grandparents. Afterall, we never know how much of time we have left with them.

Edited by suganthirani - 15 years ago

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