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Should they be together after all this??

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fuzzyface

@fuzzyface

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Posted: 15 years ago

#11

I think if Kaddu had left him and was on her own I wld be ok if they got back together. But she left him for another man for the sole reason she tght Shanky was having an affair with Santu. It was a tit for tat.

She wanted to hurt him and even deprived him of his own daughter.

He accusation is not something you can just say bygones. What if the future she brings it up again, then what?

Shanky is better off without someone as fickle, suspicious, cruel and just plain stupid like Kaddu. Once was enough!

Life goes on, they shld move on with their lives.

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Rani

@pyar-ishk

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Posted: 15 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: rpmenon
Agreed,but we are conveniently forgetting what led to that reaction or response from her,and just focusing on the outcome.It wouldnt be fair to say that she never trusted him,she did,when he spoke to her about his relation with santu.

Which woman wouldnt skip a heartbeat if/when she gets to know something like this about the husband.

Shanky is perfect in many ways,but not the eternally perfect guy either.He has made his own share of mistakes.He still gives priority to Santu in his own way,and Kaddu should not be the only one to be scorned.

I'm not just focusing on the outcome and I get shanky isn't perfect. My problem with kaddu is that she can't think or make an independent decision for herself. The picture incident she didn't go straight to her husband to confront him. Kaddu when to moti who then when to DM after she didn't get the answer she wanted from santo. I bet this idea of santo and shanky having an affair came from sandy and she when with it. Kaddu brain is like a bucket whatever you fill it up with, is what she carries. I just want her to grow up and that something nobody has ever allow her to do and she also refuses to do. If kaddu really trusted shanky and was over sandeep she wouldn't have divorce him to run and married rat face. Kaddu is justify to be upset with her husband for writing santo behind her back but that wasn't enough to warrant divorce it was an baseless excuse she needed to justify while she left.

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soap-critic

@soap-critic

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Posted: 15 years ago

#13

Shanky is not perfect but Kaddu does not use her brains at all. I agree with fuzzy that that if she suspected an affair and left him due to that it would have been another matter. Both made a mistake and therefore they might be able to work it out. But she left him out of spite to be with another man.

And then after she came to know that he was trading women for money, she tried to save him by taking the blame on herself. Again she was not thinking. What would she have achieve by this? Did she not think about Nandini at all? How was it OK to leave Nandini around 2 men who were selling women? What was the guarantee that they would not continue doing it.

And again, even if she and Shanky got back together, what is the guarantee that she won't flip-flop again if after being released from jail, Sandy came and told her some sob story about how he was doing it for her happiness and wanted to give her the best in life, etc?

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Rani

@pyar-ishk

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Posted: 15 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: soap-critic
Shanky is not perfect but Kaddu does not use her brains at all. I agree with fuzzy that that if she suspected an affair and left him due to that it would have been another matter. Both made a mistake and therefore they might be able to work it out. But she left him out of spite to be with another man.

And then after she came to know that he was trading women for money, she tried to save him by taking the blame on herself. Again she was not thinking. What would she have achieve by this? Did she not think about Nandini at all? How was it OK to leave Nandini around 2 men who were selling women? What was the guarantee that they would not continue doing it.

And again, even if she and Shanky got back together, what is the guarantee that she won't flip-flop again if after being released from jail, Sandy came and told her some sob story about how he was doing it for her happiness and wanted to give her the best in life, etc?

Dufford was testing to see if her husband love her, that's why she looked at him but that weasel turn his head and lower his face. If maulik didn't speak up her father would've beaten her to a pulp. I can't understand why she was in such a denial when it came to sandeep but is ready to burn shanky at the stick for letters. The logic in that is just 😕

Edited by pyar-ishk - 15 years ago

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Samanta

@iSakshi

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Posted: 15 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: soap-critic
<font color="#660066">Shanky is not perfect but Kaddu does not use her brains at all. I agree with fuzzy that that if she suspected an affair and left him due to that it would have been another matter. Both made a mistake and therefore they might be able to work it out. But she left him out of spite to be with another man.

And then after she came to know that he was trading women for money, she tried to save him by taking the blame on herself. Again she was not thinking. What would she have achieve by this? Did she not think about Nandini at all? How was it OK to leave Nandini around 2 men who were selling women? What was the guarantee that they would not continue doing it.

And again, even if she and Shanky got back together, what is the guarantee that she won't flip-flop again if after being released from jail, Sandy came and told her some sob story about how he was doing it for her happiness and wanted to give her the best in life, etc?</font>

good point given here.... 👏

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chalia

@chalia

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Posted: 15 years ago

#16

Kaddu has never had any value for Shanky and this is apparent in her fickle behaviour. Merely suspecting one's spouse of having an extra marital relationship is not enough here i think. If kaddu really valued her marriage and cared for Shanky enough, she would have gone all out to find out the "truth" to convince herself that she is making the right decision about leaving him. She just spewed some nonsense accusation at Shanky, convinced herself that it is true and ran back into Sandy's arms. Should i then suggest that she has never forgotten Sandy and always held that something for him despite being married to Shashank? Yes, this is probably true because now i feel she married Shanky to

1. To save her face when Sandy left her standing at the altar.

2. To placate her family who were determined to marry her to Shanky

3. Guilt with a capital "G".

Some mistakes are not correctable. The Kaddu-Shanky marriage is one such error. They are just not suited and should not get back together regardless of what the stakes are; family, child, sympathy or whatever one may wish to call it.

I will not say Shashank is blameless either, and he could have gone to great lengths to prove his innocence. Instead he is harbouring a grudge saying that "kaddu suspected her mum" and so kaddu should not be forgiven. Thats not right! Shanky just did not think Kaddu was important enough to fight for. And thats why this marriage will not last. They just dont value one another.

Edited by chalia - 15 years ago

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-SilverFlames-

@-SilverFlames-

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Posted: 15 years ago

#17

I would say Later.. Not now.. Even them showing SanRaj instantly grabbing the opportunity wasn't great but then they are parents.. Which father would want his young daughter being so broke..
DM knows what it is like being alone and without a spouse so he wanted to try his level best to sort her life.. He feels he is to blame.

Both Shanky and Kaddu are to blame.. The reason Kaddu is to blame is as everyone has pointed out she suspected her mother and husband BUT... She wasn't having an affair till after she found out about the letters.. So she had already accused Shanky about the love letters so i don't think she goes on about Shanky and Santu because she was hiding her own guilt. I think she genuinely believed that he hide the letters for a reason..

Shanky is wrong for hiding the letters and not confiding in Kaddu.. She should have known.. When Kaddu found the photo's early on she made such a big hoo haa.. and she was insecure wrong by Kaddu for not trusting Shanky but how would anyone feel if they found letters or photo's like Kaddu had? Kaddu felt insecure and she just put 2 + 2 together and made up a theory that her husband still loved Santu?
If he could hide the fact about it from her, she would be thinking what else must he hiding..
So when she was vulnerable instead of pacifying her and sorting out the marriage he watched Sandy take advantage of the moment and gave Kaddu a divorce..

I dislike Kaddu for insulting Santu by maligning her constantly but in Kaddu's position and mind state she was probably doing herself right..

Shanky and Kaddu seemed to be an alright couple and the proof they did love each other is Nandini? Am i wrong to think that??
They might get back together but not yet.. they need to realise that they both need grow up and not treat marriage as a joke..

Shanky wrote letters to Santu about what i have no idea as he never told Santu what went on over the years so what he wrote about is still a mystery and possibly a huge blooper from the DV's part.. Wouldn't it have been wiser that Santu kept in touch with Champa?

Anyway i'm drifting from the point but about Shanky and Kaddu?? Yes they should get back together as they do love one another but time and circumstances brought differences between them..

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anna

@anna44

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Posted: 15 years ago

#18

NO...I don't want Shanky and Bird brain to patch up again...

Shanky deserves someone better than bird brain. Who knows if they get back together and bird brain may ditch him again 😡😡😡 ..

so the good thing will be for bird brain to cry all of her life for ditching on Gem like shanky...

Besaram Ladki having an affair with her ex infront of her hubby and inlaws..Meghana was a mother to her and a friend but she did not respect shanky's parent nor shanky as her hubby ....

Edited by anna44 - 15 years ago

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miggie

@miggie

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Posted: 15 years ago

#19

No he is too good for kaddu.... she should wait for her dear sandeep when he gets out of prison

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Taral

@taral83

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: DmLovesSantu
i cudnt agree with u more... 😊 i also think soo😛

I couldn't agree with you more. I know that Kaddu's mistakes are very big, but she is human not god. And she rectified those mistakes by bringing out Sandy's truth in front of everyone and helping Bansuri. She could have said she will not go against Sandy and let Santu fight it on her own. But she stood up for what was right. That in itself is a big thing for one to do to a person that they have trusted blindly. She has learned her mistake and she knows it. The biggest thing here is the child, Nandini. Many times when a husband and wife decide to split and so forth they always forget one major thing a child. The effects it has on a child is more then the parents think. I think they need to listen to elders and work out there problems and start fresh, if not for themselves then Nandini. Parents do alot for their kids, then why not stay together for that child.

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