Originally posted by: loveheart
i guess that im not much of a gopika because i like this santu, shes much stronger, more independant, she doesnt depend on DM all the time and as DM is his own man, santu is her own woman. a lot of people on this forum are hating on her because she shouted at DM but thats how he treated her in the beginning through no fault of her own, so i think he defo deserves some of it. i want to see equality in their relationship. a strong malik need a equally strong malkin to look after him and their household. i also want her to figure everything out on her own to prove to DM that she is no dufford, no chokri but his wife and mother to their children. its pretty obvious that DM can't look after his children without santu. his route of punishment has not worked all the time, it makes them want to rebel more, think maulik, kaadu etc. but santu's way is more effective and has brought a family together when DM simply couldnt. i mean someone got to look after these ungrateful children and who better than santu. just by being herself she puts them to shame and shows them how to act.
just because she acts like a mahaanta that doesnt means she is not human, thats how shes always been, a good hearted person. maybe im looking at this through rose tinted glasses but when did being good natured become a sign of weakness. she loves her kids even though they are not her own, she willing to sacrifice her happiness for them, isnt that what every good mother does? but lets hope shes gives them a good telling off. im sure a lot of you would choose your children over your husband anyday.
also i know a lot of you hate tracks that are not about sanraj, but one relationship can make a good movie but not necessarily a good serial, having other relationships is what makes it more realistic. they are a family afterall. also for those hardcore sanraj lovers, a realistic marriage isnt always happy happy, theres up and downs so you should expect that even if ekta makes the downs rather unrealistic. it these that keep the show from ending, i dont care if this serial has turned unoriginal but i do want it to be realistic.
bdw Im not hating on DM this is just another point of view. im all for sanraj but no to all this santu hating crap
You said it all in one 👏