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Originally posted by: ammoos

Yes i agree with malli...i didnt find her desperate........but by her nature she would never be, unless her Maalik wants her so ...😳

Originally posted by: fuzzyface

yeah i dun think it was desperate
imagine if ur in love 'cld u resist looking into the person's eyes

Originally posted by: rpmenon

to me she just looked like she was caught up in the moment....until she realized how close she was to DM and then stepped away....I think thats natural, after all she did admit to Baa that she loved him.
Thats what i meant too.She is in love with him,and she is desperate for the same emotions back from him.She is easily attracted to him.Thats the fact.
Of course she wants DM to reciprocate her feelings, who wouldn't....but I don't see anything desperate in any of her actions.

he has been married before, from what we know of DM-Subhi relationship, it was a good one, so I would assume he knows how to treat his wife, seemed like Subhi was happy with him From what we see,Isnt it.Do we know for a fact that she was not treated the same way.I know many wives who actually like being ruled on,being shouted at,and i find it annoying.
But if Subhi was happy with DM and did not see anything wrong with the way DM treated her, then what's wrong with that. Who's to judge which is the right way of loving someone?

he will treat her as a wife should be treated but in his own style. In his own style,yes,I agree.The style he has been following till now. 😉
He is not going to shoo her away Are we watching the same show,Shalu?
Yes, we are watching the same show, we just see things differently😊 I don't really mind his style, it's what makes him who he is. True he tends to shoo her away but like I said in my post, its because he sees her as a chokri a lot of times. For that matter he even told Baa to stop staring at him and go do some work during the whole navratri track, does not mean he does not respect her.....it's just the way he talks to people and if he changed that, he wouldn't be DM, he would be someone else whom we may or may not like or find as interesting. Anyways, I feel once he starts seeing her as his wife, he won't be shooing her anymore, he will probably be calling her closer😉

how many times have we seen Santu stay her ground in front of DM for what she felt was right Yes,sure,only to be a mushy puddle the minute she hears "maliks" voice.
So she melts when he talks to her nicely or treats her well, whats wrong with that....for that matter even we melt and forgive DM when he does something nice and we are not even in love with him.....doesn't detract from the fact that Santu has stood her ground on a lot of issues with DM and has made him listen to her despite not having the status of his wife( infact let alone wfe, when she was not even treated as a member of the family) and being scared of him....that needs courage.

And I am not quite sure what she is supposed to do instead.....is she supposed to put on airs and demand things and get angry and give him a piece of her mind....even if she could do it, I am not sure if it would serve any purpose. Also, Santu is not a modern woman who thinks she is equal to her husband and can do these things......she has been brought up in a village and probably been taught that she should always obey her husband and never raise her voice to her husband and in-laws....how can she be expected to forget all that has been taught her....she didn't do it when she was being treated abominably, do we really expect her to do it now that people have actually started treating her nicely..

Probably she enjoys being treated this way by DM,if so,who am I to comment.

Originally posted by: ammoos

After watching todays episode i dont think its Virat who is behing this diamond chori but someone else, could be AC.. but its definitely not Virat....he seems to be genuine and was misguided by those three unfaithful workers..😈

Originally posted by: rpmenon

Each to his own,Shalu.

I am no one to "judge" any of his actions.But are you saying that I shouldnt comment either? Well!