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Shalu,

Have you forgotten that DM did not,for once,ask where she was staying when she came to stay with him.She stayed in the store room,and did he do anything about it?

When Maulik started staying at the store room,Santu slept at the mandir.He came and asked her,why she was sleeping at the mandir,and wasnt she staying at the store room( which btw,was infested with rats and what not).She replied,since maulik is staying there,she had to sleep at the mandir.Which meant,he knew she was staying in the store room,and chose to do nothing about it.Even if she was moved to the guest room,it was because he started developing some feelings for her.If he didnt,probably he would kept on staying silent about it.

As for treating her in the right way.After she told him about how she handled Birwa's case,did you see how he listened to her,and then later on,just barked at her to leave the place.I dont know,i am just unable to find it appealing.And neither would you,if you know what i am talking about.

This,to me,definitely means that he was very well cruel,again,as you said,in his own way,even if it was not physical torture.Which again,he has inflicted on her once,for no fault of hers.

I didnt say Subhi was not happy with him,i only said that we cannot say for sure.Also,we can judge a person from the way he behaves till now,and that hasnt been so enchanting.Atleast not for me.

A thought just struck me.

I was trying to connect the latest promo to DM's current behavior.From what it seems as of now,he is not thinking about getting Santu married off to anyone else.So,something has to trigger that thought.I was thinking that at the engagement function,someone will comment that he has got a very young beautiful wife.And probably,that person will say how mismatched they look.This will be enough for DM to start thinking about leaving her with a better person.

Just a thought..Wanted to see what you'll think..

One thing bugs me he is supposed to be so clever cant he understand that Santo is so much in love with him.Even Ba can understand Santos true feelings.Ithink it is time he realises his Chokris real feelings.Then all his insecurities will vanish and they can move on from there .Shanto should convey some how in her own way that her happiness lies with him .He needs to be convinced .Then all this age difference issue will be irrelevant to DM.

Originally posted by: rpmenon

Shalu,

Have you forgotten that DM did not,for once,ask where she was staying when she came to stay with him.She stayed in the store room,and did he do anything about it?

When Maulik started staying at the store room,Santu slept at the mandir.He came and asked her,why she was sleeping at the mandir,and wasnt she staying at the store room( which btw,was infested with rats and what not).She replied,since maulik is staying there,she had to sleep at the mandir.Which meant,he knew she was staying in the store room,and chose to do nothing about it.Even if she was moved to the guest room,it was because he started developing some feelings for her.If he didnt,probably he would kept on staying silent about it.

As for treating her in the right way.After she told him about how she handled Birwa's case,did you see how he listened to her,and then later on,just barked at her to leave the place.I dont know,i am just unable to find it appealing.And neither would you,if you know what i am talking about.

This,to me,definitely means that he was very well cruel,again,as you said,in his own way,even if it was not physical torture.Which again,he has inflicted on her once,for no fault of hers.

I didnt say Subhi was not happy with him,i only said that we cannot say for sure.Also,we can judge a person from the way he behaves till now,and that hasnt been so enchanting.Atleast not for me.

I am not even going to try to justify his past behavior, simply because there is no justification....he treated her abominably and we all know that. But I am sure even you will agree that DM has changed since then, not only with his interactions with Santu but even with his kids, his servants, his employees. Going back to the way he used to treat her is just taking a step back. Even after they are happily married, he might still raise his voice with Santu at times, thats just who he is and that behavior is not reserved for Santu alone, he is like that with everybody....Santu knows that and accepts him with that....she said it herself to him.....he also apologizes when he realizes his mistake. From all that I have heard about Subhi and DM from his family and friends (Baa, Meghna) I am convinced that DM and Subhi had a happy marriage, so I am sure he will be able to keep Santu happy as well.

I don't know about enchanting but I definitely like DM's character....he is not a perfect human being, he has his faults....but so does everyone and I think that makes him interesting. What I really like is the way his character is evolving and changing for the better and all because of a slip of a girl....if anything I find that enchanting and I think thats one of the main attractions of the story.

Ronit Roy while speaking about DMin an interview said that he was not the best of human being and when Shanto will comein to his life he will change for the better .That is what is exactly happening .Shanto in her quiet ways have changed even his family members to be better human beings.This is actually the crux of the story.

Let's just say DM is a changed man, since Santu first came as Bandini to the mansion. At first he was callous and overlooked a young girl being mistreated by everyone. But what matters now is that he is a wonderful humanbeing. He may not be perfect, but he is just and kind. He will in his own time admit his love for her or show her how much he cares for her. He may not use mushy words of bring her roses, but he loves her in his own way and Santu is happy with that. She is not demanding type, she is a lovable girl who changed everyone's views about her except Moti of course. But there always has to be one negative person in the story to be spicy, I guess. Hiten-Santu relationship has turned out so nice, they were so good yesterday.

In my opinion, DM was bowled over by Santu's beauty when she came down the stairs. His eyes had a happy twinkle in them. Adored his smile when he saw her high heel sandals. He is noticing everything about his chokri, her hair, and the way she looks just makes him adore her all the more.

Let's what today brings.

i am dying to see tomorrow's episode for what will happen - i am glad santo came across malik's stupid plans about her getting married to an other guy. hope santu will teach DM a proper lesson -

One thing that i really like today is the fact that she didnt cry in front of DM, and stayed strong and dares to make him sit on the chair of the maalik of Dharampur to do justice to her...he realised that her husband can do no more justice to her as he has passed all the limits.

Santu was strong even at nanaji's house. She said that she will handle it her way and let her thoughts be known as well as ask DM the questions that will make him think.

What I liked about yesterday's epi was the way Bapuji stood up for Santu and shouted at DM ! Bapuji is the real man of the house and has always supported Santu right from the beginning. Hats of to Bapuji the way he handled the talk between DM and himself. 😛