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Posted: 9 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: Nandini30

But when he finds anandi can marry since shiv is not there he is open to his marraige if Ganga dies.
And Ganga will also be open to marry if Jagya dies because she thinks you need to share jimmedari.
Ganga did the same thing she married Jagya so that mannu s responsibility can be shared.
Nidhi is such an idiot she thinks anandi mam will surely say yes she thinks her papa is a super mam and anandi is a helpless widow who will come dancing to marry her papa.
All of their expression were
anandi gave all a silent slap.



You have a point!! 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#52
I'm confused! Anant is a divorcee...right? So what first wife did Anandi had to remind him of? Does she think that like her and Jagya every ex-spouses keep in contact and have some right in each other's life?
Anandi chose an unusual and wrong manner to say no to third marriage! Anandi's third marriage does not hold any connection with Anant-Pushpa's re-union! They are two very different things. If she did not want to re-marry then just say a firm no. This step of hers only enaures me further of her incapability to take a firm decision for herself in her life. 26 years old Anandi was blackmailed by people around her, widow Anandi got blackmailed by Daddu and even a 40+ Anandi can get blackmailed by others! Every person wants to see their loved ones settle down. Every divorcee or widow is asked to consider re-marriage at some point of her life. A strong-headed woman would have clear answer and firm control over her life. She would not look for unusual and interfering ways to make her point.

Anandi bullied Jagya. She knew that Jagya holds the guilt of doing wrong to her and his own family! She hit the nail by calling out on him for his mistakes! Like few members said: Anandi lacks wisdom and tact like Dadisa! If she did have these two qualities, she would have, rather, convinced Dadisa to not bully Jagya into re-marriage! Anandi knows that her own reluctance towards marriage had been a hindrance in her marriage with Shiv and made Shiv suffer for no fault of his. Her wisdom should have guided her to not let Jagya repeat the same mistake. Don't make the excuse that Anandi just looks at good part of every situation because if that's the case then she should have never choosen to be a social worker as their work includes eliminating evil from society. Only such people have the ability to focus more of negative points of a situation and eliminate it. Besides, those who say that Anandi did not put gun on Jagya's head should recall that Daddu did not such thing to Anandi either. He just, as Anandi's defenders say, hit the very point by pointing fingers at Anandi's capabilities or lack of it to bring up her own kids safely and single-handedly. In same way, Anandi hit Jagya's guilt which was just as much of a blackmail as what Daddu did to Anandi. The only difference is that Jagya, at some point, took a stand and decision for himself by marrying Ganga but Anandi stills lives in BH with that 12 years old excuse!

I did find Nandini's way of asking such question highly stupid. It would have looked cute if she was 5-6 years old but she wasn't. Don't blame it on her lack of education. People do hold intelligence even when they are uneducated. Besides few things just need common sense. How can Anant be her father without being her mother's husband? Akhera was Kamli and Kundan's father and their mother's husband. Urmi's father was Urmi's mother's husband. Jagya is Mannu and Abhi's father and their mother's husband. How hard is it to make a connection that one can become someone's father only by marrying the child's mother? Divorced parents are altogether a different case but when has Nandini seen a divorcee to understand the concept of divorce? I don't think her village would have had any divorced couples. Either this girl is intelligent enough to escape a punishment from Harki and lecture everyone in Jaitsar or she is so stupid that she cannot use her common sense. CVs need to decide before she ends up being the most confused lead of a show! Oh wait! Her mother already takes that title...well then second lead to act so confuse!

People will not agree with me but i blame Anandi for her mother's death than Jagya. Jagya's actions might have put Bhago through such trauma but Anandi had all means to ensure her well- being to her mother. She could have ensured the woman that despite being an abandoned-wife, she has gained much more than she lost. If nothing it would have lessen Bhago's pain. She would have been bit better to know that, at least, some part of daughter's dreams is being fulfilled by Singhs.

If Bhago and Khajaan Singh are parents worth replacing then so are so many others in BV.
1) Jagya and Sugna should have replaced their parents for doing their child marriage and replacing both of them by Anandi. They favored Anandi over both their own kids. Doesn't that makes both of them terrible set of parents?

2) Shiv should have replaced Ira with Meenu because Ira favored Saanchi and had been rude to him for Saanchi.

3) Nandini should have replaced Anandi for losing her due to her foolishness and lying to her on so many occasions. Personally, Nandini should have really replaced Anandi for that woman did to such small kid. Even Bhago's decision to marry off Anandi looks more better than what Anandi did to Nandini.

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Posted: 9 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: russhmeSS

I got confused for a moment when Anandi was thinking about chokhe doctorsa

Stupid me, how could I even think that Anandi was thinking about the proposal that her daughter brought up out of blue 😡 Even when she was looking forward to the prospect of marriage with Shiv, she felt guilty about the unintentional heartbreak of Aashima.. Then how can she think about someone else's husband like this!

I wish they had BV telecast today.. I so want to see the faces of Anant and his daughter on seeing their wife/mother 😳


@bold - I think Anant does not have a wife at present. Who is Anant's wife and whose husband Anant is? 😕
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Posted: 9 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Did anandi take any vachan or said it is my last wish that jagya that u must marry anandi just go to jagya and talk to jagya and try to make him understand about second marriage but anandi did not say it is my last wish u have to marry there was no boundation on jagya he was free to refuse to do second marriage but anandi has boundation she even dont have choice to refuse because there is last wish of dying person and last wish of dying person should be filled this is what anandi did

lols she did say to him this is the one last thing i am asking from you i am leaving Jaistar Please give me as a farewell gift otherwise i will always remain burdened all my life that i could not do anything for my family the same family who gave a new life to me She begged to him , she pleaded to him . She said to him i want to leave Jaitsar with a peace of my heart She said to him Dadisaa's last wish is to see her great grandchild before she closes her eyes Won't you fulfill her this wish ? Dadisaa loves him so much , have done for so much for him Can't he fulfill her one wish ? She said to him if he did not marry maa and bapusaa will remain guilty all their lives they could not do anything for their only son When Jagya refused she hit Jagya with low blows it was her mistake to expect anything from a selfish guy like him that he can do anything for the happiness of his family She said to him this family has bore enough pains they will bear this one too but she will never be at peace and live her life happily because she could not do anything for her family the one who did so much for her

You people in defense of Anandi keep on harping she only tried to make him understand Is this the way to you make people understand ? This is clearly bullying , emotional blackmailing , forcing , manipulating ones emotions to force him to do what you want him to do If she was only trying to make him understand she had already heard refusal from him she would not have run to BH but listened to what Shiv said to give Jagya some time but no she ran to BH and used all sort of techniques to make him say yes at spot

You are saying Jagya was not bound to remarry He was free to refuse Lols Where did the great Anandi gave him freedom to refuse ? First she was begging to him , pleading to him to say yes when he firmly refused she started bashing him and said to him he is hurting her , his family big time by his no. He did not want to hurt anyone .so he surrendered and forced himself to agree

Please go and watch the episode before defending Anandi she never forced Jagya


Edited by Hina- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: libsrocks

@bold
That's funny because i don-t remember thibgs going in such peaceful manner. Anandi had angrily walked out on hsr sick mother because she did not want to marry!
Anandi agreed to Bhago's request when the woman was on verge of her death. At such point even a dying Makhan Kaka could have made Anandi accept Shiv for second marriage!

Anandi may have agreed as per her mom's wish. But she had ample chance to reject shiv. Shiv told her twice whether she wants to go back to jagya.
DS Jagya Shiv all wanted her to go back. But it was Anandi herself who stood up for her marriage with shiv. At least I give her credit for the same.
Just wonder, if Anant loves Anandi why did he accepted Pushpa. He could have stayed alone.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#56
I do not think Toral is a bad actor. There was a time when she she quiet terrible in putting natural and convincing expressions for Anandi's emotions but she has been able to master them over the time. Had that not been the case, we would have not felt Anandi's pain and pride over her husband' death. Despite her foolishness, i could not help but feel the loss of a mother in Toral's portrayal when Anandi lost Nandini.
It's just Anandi and her annoying traits that grate my nerves. The kind of intelligence, wisdom and smartness one expects from a woman as experienced as Anandi was never seen in the character. On top of that, she cried over problems she created for herself.
I do remember watching one episode after leap. Anandi's decision was annoying but still i could not help but feel the helplessness and pain of loss on Toral's face. That made me realize that reading about Anandi's decisions and actions at this forum but watching her go through them are two different things. The actress does hold the capability to put forth Anandi's emotiions and make her emotional viewers feel for her despite her stupidity in the whole situation.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: aparnauma


Did Anandi bully Jagya into marrying or did she request him to get married?She asked that marriage as a gift to her

but when he refused she didn't bully him into getting married she just accepted his refusal and walked away. It was Jagya who agreed out of his own will whether he did to make Anandi happy or whether he wanted to make his family happy or for what ever reason
.He was not bound any promises when he said yes.


why she asked marriage as gift to her ?Its his life its his wish to marry why he should gift his life to her as a gift ?How can she demand such a thing from him ?
@aparna you really think all viewers are blind , deaf , dumb who cannot see , hear the dailogues nor can understand ?Heights of misleading serial Everyone here has watched the episode so your attempt to mislead serial is flop attempt

First she was begging to him to agree for her sake , for Dadisaa's sake , for maa and bapusaa's sake but when Jagya started walking away she ran after him and blocked his way This is her so called accepting his refusal ? When Jagya firmly refused to her again she started rudely criticizing him Called him a useless fellow who can never do anything for the happiness of his family She said to him she will always remain heavy hearted all her life because she could not do anything for her family then one who did so much for her She started leaving with crying after scratching Jagya all over with her taunts that how much he is hurting her and his family by his decision and they all will live with a burden on their hearts forever thats when Jagya stopped her and told her he does not want to hurt anyone neither her neither his family He does not want to hurt his family if his saying yes to marry is the only way to make them happy then ok he is ready to marry He was in tears at that time It was so difficult for him to say yes how can you say he agreed out of his will ?He did not come running to Anandi Please Anandi i want to marry for your happiness and my family;s happiness It was she who came to him , was running after him , told him he is hurting her and his family by not agreeing to marry and they will forever remain upset , heavy hearted because of his this decision of not marrying

The people who are not obsessed with Anandi will see it as bullying someone to impose her decision on him , what she wanted him to do


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Posted: 9 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: Nandini30

Anandi may have agreed as per her mom's wish. But she had ample chance to reject shiv. Shiv told her twice whether she wants to go back to jagya.

DS Jagya Shiv all wanted her to go back. But it was Anandi herself who stood up for her marriage with shiv. At least I give her credit for the same.
Just wonder, if Anant loves Anandi why did he accepted Pushpa. He could have stayed alone.

Not really @Nandini. It was Anandi who gave the promise to marry Shiv to her dying mother. It would have been morally wrong of her to go back from a promise given to a dying person. Only Shiv had the right to back out from this alliance as he had not given any promise to anyone. The only person commendable here is Shiv because he had an easy way out of such unhappy and reluctant marriage but he stood beside Anandi and tolerated every rubbish thrown at him before marriage.
Anant's weird decision is just CVs ' hurried way of bringing end to this whole track. Although i must say its wrong because if Anant likes Anandi enough to think of marrying her then how could he have loved his ex-wife enough to forgive her and take her back in his life?
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Posted: 9 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: libsrocks

I do not think Toral is a bad actor. There was a time when she she quiet terrible in putting natural and convincing expressions for Anandi's emotions but she has been able to master them over the time. Had that not been the case, we would have not felt Anandi's pain and pride over her husband' death. Despite her foolishness, i could not help but feel the loss of a mother in Toral's portrayal when Anandi lost Nandini.

It's just Anandi and her annoying traits that grate my nerves. The kind of intelligence, wisdom and smartness one expects from a woman as experienced as Anandi was never seen in the character. On top of that, she cried over problems she created for herself.
I do remember watching one episode after leap. Anandi's decision was annoying but still i could not help but feel the helplessness and pain of loss on Toral's face. That made me realize that reading about Anandi's decisions and actions at this forum but watching her go through them are two different things. The actress does hold the capability to put forth Anandi's emotiions and make her emotional viewers feel for her despite her stupidity in the whole situation.

I have liked Toral in few instances. Particularly in her drugged state during DB phase. But she always not managed to evoke emotions or reflect the right levels of intensity. Some recent secenes I remember are;

When Shivam insulted Nandini on twins birthday celebrations, Anandi had very timid and flat appeal as a pained mother watching her one child insult another. She came across as a guest watching some scene but then suddenly post N's refusal to come down, she broke down. The emotions didn't match.

And some other such scenes.

So, I find her to be an average actress. Some days she is good and sometimes quite flat.


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Posted: 9 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: aparnauma


When she went to convince Jagya she was actually floating on cloud nine.She had fallen head over heels in love with Shiv at thst time whom she was forced to marry and things were looking rosey for her. Besides Shiv had come up with that idea.😆
She wanted the same to happen to Jagya also.


Did Anandi have a perfect bride ready for Jagya that she went to force Jagya to marry ? The answer is no
she thought he should marry any girl even if he does not want to marry then that girl will also be like shiv she will give him time and space to give himself into relationship like shiv did in her case .Was there any surety to her it will happen in same way ? The answer is no

so how Anandi is justified ?


and i think shiv also told her on very same day to give Jagya some time to heal up You tried to convince him now give him his own time Perhaps someday he will get ready himself upon finding a suitable mate for him Why she did not follow these words of shiv? These words were also of shiv and shiv did not ask them to make Jagya say yes at the spot He asked them to first find a suitable girl for Jagya so why Anandi was so in much hurry ?

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