Jagya was equal to be at gun point Putting so much pressure on a person that if he does not marry and does not accept a certain lady in his life , he is hurting his family big time and ruining their happiness How this is different than forcing someone to do something on a gun point?There may not be a physical gun at his head but the family's happiness , their peace , their satisfaction ,Anandi's happiness , her peace pressure gun was put on his head and he was forced to accept Sanchi
Jagya had firmly refused he cannot marry when he was not ready but he was bashed by Anandi who called him selfish and good for nothing son who can never do anything for the happiness of his family , same family who loves him so much . She said to him he did this that in the past which hurted his family and her even now he is doing same hurting her and her family because he can never do anything for other's happiness . She said to him with his this decision his family will live their lives with pain and guilt for not being able to do anything for their son They will live the pain of their crushed dreams which they saw for him but he crushed them and she is leaving jaitsar with a burden on her heart and will live her life with pain of not being able to do anything for her family who did so much for her . Jagya did not want to be reason of his family 's pain or anyone else so for the happiness of these people he agreed He will marry
Here he is being blamed where was his brain ? kept in refrigerator or left in Gauri's purse ? He had his brain with him thats why he was saying when he is not mentally ready for marriage how the marriage will work but where was Anandi and Singhs brains ? How they thought Jagya will have a happy marriage if he is not emotionally ready for marriage ?
Even though Jagya said yes to Anandi he will marry at that time when she was crying so much in front of him but he did come to Dadisaa later when Dadisaa started searching suitable proposals for him He told her he is not ready for marriage at that time but did Dadisaa bother to listen ? No She brushed off his concerns and send him off by telling him he should think only positive Everything will go well Was it Jagya's fault if Singhs became so blind they could not see their son is not happy with the idea of marriage right now and needs sometime to be emotionally stable before they think of marriage for him ?They were happily selecting proposals for him but their son was sitting upset without even eating anything When Ganga saw him tensed she asked him what happened? He told her he has tried to talk to everyone but no one is bothering to listen to him he is not ready for marriage at that time . What would have cost Singhs if they would have given Jagya some time ? Their wish to see him settled and happy in his life was not wrong but give him some space to breathe What was rush to them? Fault was of singhs and Anandi there , not understanding Jagya's emotional needs and pressing his neck so much to make him do something for which he was not ready then . He could do only one thing leave the house but then same people would saying what a bad son Left his family
Singhs made up their minds to accept Sanchi's proposal even before discussing with Jagya for the sake of Anandi .None among Singhs bothered about Jagya Will this relation be suitable for him , how he will live in this relation because it will become awkward relation between him and Anandi but no, their only concern was Anandi's skin should remain protected in her in laws even at the cost of Jagya's life and future and Dadisaa and sumi were all set to go to say yes to this proposal It was Bhairon who insisted them to talk to Jagya at least once and when they told to Jagya He clearly refused but what Sumitra and Dadisaa did ? They glared at him and warned him this matter is concerned with Anandi's in laws Don't you dare you do anything that will put her happiness at stake which she got after a long time . Sumitra did not see anything wrong in this alliance and was asking Jagya why he is shocked ? They brought such a nice alliance for him They all like Sanchi
Jagya's mistake was this he was doing everything according to his family says to make his family happy Lesser he knew his family does not care for him at all nor Anandi cares Anandi is a selfish woman who cannot look beyond her own self .
People i think have forgot how much drama Sumitra did when she realized Jagya is not happy with Sanchi and really does not want marry her so might not marry her She was shouting , screaming , lying on Dadisaa's feet begging to her to make sure this marriage is done otherwise they will be ruined , Anandi will be ruined She literally said this to Dadisaa everything will be ruined please maasa , please maasa do something
if Sumitra was so blinded with her ego , blinded with Anandi and blinded with Sanchi she even after knowing Jagya is not happy with Sanchi , even after knowing he is more happy with Ganga still she was hell bent on marrying Jagya with Sanchi Is it Jagya's fault?
Dadisaa never liked Sanchi herself , she could see this Jagya and Sanchi are a mismatch , she herself liked Ganga , she knew Jagya likes Ganga , still she thought of Anandi more and was ready to sacrifice her grandson 's life for her assumed happiness of Anandi and she was planning and plotting so that Jagya must marry Sanchi . Is this Jagya's fault?
Bhairon same like Dadisaa he himself did not find Sanchi right match for Jagya and knew Jagya is not happy with her but was more happy with Ganga yet he was quiet and never bothered to talk to his son for once is he even happy with his alliance with Sanchi? For Anandi he was always around her but for Jagya he was never there for him
Basant he never did anything either though he always called Jagya his son
Only person who tried to open sumi's eyes was Gehna by telling her Jagya was so happy before Sanchi came in his life He was so happy with Ganga and Mannu but Sumi turned her face from her and fought with her and asked her not to interfere in her son's matters She has no right
Jagya had his brain with him thats why he realized marriage with Sanchi would be ultimate destruction and that everyone has lost their brains they cannot see what destruction this marriage will bring He broke off with her and put his foot down and married that girl who was right for him and right for his family as well He had his brain with him thats why he married Ganga The ones who were shouting , screaming, tearing their lungs out after getting hard slaps from God , burnt out from their wrong acts were later asking forgiveness from him realizing their mistakes
Edited by jdfan - 9 years ago
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