Originally posted by: BeingAnonymous
And when adult kids dont listen parents can do only so much she was thinking to file case against them and wat not , parents are human to and at time when ur kids insult u soo much u leave them to learn on their own
Being Anonymous, I believe that parents have a responsibility to save children (even adult children) inspite of insults.
And my real issue is why the parents let the relationship with Rahul get so far that she was alienating them for him.
My point is that the relationship should have been nipped in the bud when they still had influence over Pratyusha. Obviously, three years later, after he had become really bold, he told her to get rid off the parents and at that point pretty much there was nothing they could really do.
They were living with Pratyusha. How did they agree to live-in relationship under their own roof?
It is one thing if a boy and girl decide to do live-in relationship when they are living alone.
But what self-respecting parents will allow live-in-relationships when they too are living in the same apartment?
Pratyusha's parents should have told him no right from the get-go. They should have known that live-in relationships don't suit Indian culture and provide no security to the girl. It is mostly the girl's reputation that is at risk and girls are at risk of pregnancy and resultant abortion etc. or stress if they choose single motherhood.
They should have told him that if you want our daughter - you have to marry her or else you have to get lost. Atleast live outside and come to visit her.
And then, when he started asking for her money, he should have been thrown out in the early stage itself.
My assessment from a lot of Pratyusha's moms interviews with the media was that Pratyusha had become uncomfortable with Rahul at an early stage. At that time itself, a responsible mom would have told Pratyusha, if you are not comfortable then get out of the relationship.
However, her mom for some reason, kept trying to convince Pratyusha to make the relationship with him work, emotionally compelling Pratyusha to stay on in the relationship, because of her own (mom's own) greed being blinded by his claims of financial wealth and political connections.
The point where mom went wrong is to tell Pratyusha that being comfortable with someone is more important than money.
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