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Posted: 9 years ago
#51
Anandi was never attached to amol.
She is in fact not attached to anyone other than dadisa. She is attached to dadisa for her own reasons. Dadisa is her backbone. Anandi has no backbone of her own.

Put anandi alone in a situation and see whether she comes out victorious or defeated... She will of course be a loser because all her life she has lived with support of others, financial and emotional.

She just cannot win on her own. She must have as many backbones behind as possible to lift her, to do her work for her and to lend shoulder to cry upon.

Such a person is called a weakling. Someone who fights her own battles can never be a weakling.


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Posted: 9 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: fast trak


I'm not talking or comparing Anandi providing Amol agains Mangala's ability to provide. I only compared in context to the earlier post.


I agree mothers who work as maids carry their children along and make them help. But still they strive to provide the best and try not to make their children become maids like themselves.
We have seen Nimboli cooking and cleaning the house for the entire family. We have seen her fetch water and shop for grocery for the entire household. Mangala could've taken the load off her and shouldered her work but she didn't. Nimboli made food and tea etc and served her Teesa while her Teesa sat and ate it while narrating her stories. After a tired day of work when she came back Teesa oiled her head for relaxing. Can you see the difference that I'm talking about?


There is child labour still existing in the country but that's where there is a need to earn daily bread. Totally different from Nimboli story. For Harki Nimboli was brought in as a maid and she utilised her fully to that extent. Mangala did nothing much to prevent that. Either she should've totally protested it or stopped it from happening or tried to get in touch with someone who would've redeemed that child from her misery. Any of these acts would've made me respect her and made me say yes today Mangala has s valid point and stands s chance to claim her right over the child.


@bold - those scenes were just not believable - how can a little child do that much and still not tired or disheveled? All that looked so fake.

@blue - only after Urmi came to the house - did they show Nimboli serving food to all - otherwise - it was mostly Harki who was in kitchen and serving to only Akhera and Kundan. A lot of scenes of Nimboli serving and torture was just not believable - added to create sympathy for Nimboli. More so because initially - Nimboli was just eating laddoos, watching Chagni doing work and playing a prank on Kundan (if he was so cruel with her - how come she played pranks on him?)
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Posted: 9 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: Shinya

Anandi was never attached to amol.

She is in fact not attached to anyone other than dadisa. She is attached to dadisa for her own reasons. Dadisa is her backbone. Anandi has no backbone of her own.

Put anandi alone in a situation and see whether she comes out victorious or defeated... She will of course be a loser because all her life she has lived with support of others, financial and emotional.

She just cannot win on her own. She must have as many backbones behind as possible to lift her, to do her work for her and to lend shoulder to cry upon.

Such a person is called a weakling. Someone who fights her own battles can never be a weakling.



DS is made to do all the dirty work of Anandi - like being assertive with Mangala and Nimboli now 😛. Anandi will play bechari and others will help her get what she wants. From BH people to Anant and his daughter all are doing all that they can to help anandi - such a strong person.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: fast trak


If she was so weak she would've revealed the truth by now to Nimboli and relieved her pain. It needs a lot of strength to see your daughter call someone else maa and even more strength to be able to let go of your child along with that maa. Weaklings can only run away from strong people because they can't fight.

Mangala is a weakling she can't fight Anandi and hence she ran away from there😆

Mangala goes crazy every time Anandi is around Nimboli because she can see Anandi and her magnetic power around Nimboli. 😆



So please, can you explain what is the exact reason for Anandi 's silence? She is not weak, in fact as you say she has a lot of strength to see her daughter call someone else maa and even more strength to be able to let go of her child along with that maa. You and some others emphasize the fact that Kundan is very dangerous and Nimboli's life will be constantly put in jeopardy. And Anandi stays mum!? She really does have a lot of strength to watch her daughter's life in danger . But , she used to it, this is not the first time that she put her daughter's life at risk.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya

Anandi was never attached to amol.

She is in fact not attached to anyone other than dadisa. She is attached to dadisa for her own reasons. Dadisa is her backbone. Anandi has no backbone of her own.

Put anandi alone in a situation and see whether she comes out victorious or defeated... She will of course be a loser because all her life she has lived with support of others, financial and emotional.

She just cannot win on her own. She must have as many backbones behind as possible to lift her, to do her work for her and to lend shoulder to cry upon.

Such a person is called a weakling. Someone who fights her own battles can never be a weakling.



This is written about some other Anandi not the one shown in the serial😛 I am unable to change anyone's personal opinions. I can only discuss about things shown in the story.

I don't see any reason why the creatives will want to show a weakling as a lead. The serial is doing pretty well for years so that itself is proof enough about its popularity. Anandi has always been the main lead of the show since the beginning.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: Shinya

The way it is said, she used to devima to satisfy her hidden desires, it looks as if she used devima to sleep with some men. 😆


What was her hidden desire? putting mehndi? Did she commit a serious crime doing that?



exactly i am surprised how people are saying Mangala used her devi avatar to satisfy her inner desires , for her own pleasures 😕Was she trapping wealthy men by using her fake devi avatar ? Was she stealing things ? was she satisfying her desire to rule the world by using her fake devi avatar ? No
even if she used her fake devi avatar to apply mehendi or color on her Then how it became sinful ?

i also read some people saying Mangala should marry since she wants to apply color on her , mehendi on her ? Just how regressive thinking is this the woman only after getting a man in her life can apply color and mehendi on her
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Stephi



So please, can you explain what is the exact reason for Anandi 's silence? She is not weak, in fact as you say she has a lot of strength to see her daughter call someone else maa and even more strength to be able to let go of her child along with that maa. You and some others emphasize the fact that Kundan is very dangerous and Nimboli's life will be constantly put in jeopardy. And Anandi stays mum!? She really does have a lot of strength to watch her daughter's life in danger . But , she used to it, this is not the first time that she put her daughter's life at risk.


Well they have already shown in the serial the real reason for her keeping mum.
And the decision to expose her to Jhalra dangers is not Anandi but the so called claiming to be the real mother Mangala. So she needs to explain as to why she has taken the child to Jhalra. I would love to know and so would Nimboli and as usual Mangala is going to cook some new stories for entertaining us all. 😆

Is it just me and some others who need to emphasise that Kundan is a danger to Nimboli? I thought everyone would have thought the same
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Posted: 9 years ago
#58
The serial is not doing well because of Anandi only and not all viewers are obsessed with Anandi only neither Anandi is the most popular character in the show Some People should not make their own likes as universal favorites🥱
Anandi time to time has been proven badly sketched character This is the main issue Creatives present this character as inspiration for viewers since they tell us it is a social message based show but she is so flawed and never improves Then this is actually sending wrong message to viewers .No one expects Anandi to be perfect In fact making mistakes . realizing and improving herself will be something more relatable and inspirational from her but the fact she makes nth mistakes but realizing and improving herself accordingly is not her character trait which makes her more irritating and pathetic than an inspirational character
Edited by kate-nic - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: fast trak


This is written about some other Anandi not the one shown in the serial😛 I am unable to change anyone's personal opinions. I can only discuss about things shown in the story.

I don't see any reason why the creatives will want to show a weakling as a lead. The serial is doing pretty well for years so that itself is proof enough about its popularity. Anandi has always been the main lead of the show since the beginning.


red - that is a big mystery to all of us, not just you. 😆

By the way, the show does not run because of anandi.. this is a myth that the show runs because of her.

There are others because of whom the show runs. The current ones are mangala and akhiraj-harki.

Anandi is/was in the show for namesake. Her story ended the day she married second time.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: kate-nic

exactly i am surprised how people are saying Mangala used her devi avatar to satisfy her inner desires , for her own pleasures 😕Was she trapping wealthy men by using her fake devi avatar ? Was she stealing things ? was she satisfying her desire to rule the world by using her fake devi avatar ? No

even if she used her fake devi avatar to apply mehendi or color on her Then how it became sinful ?

i also read some people saying Mangala should marry since she wants to apply color on her , mehendi on her ? Just how regressive thinking is this the woman only after getting a man in her life can apply color and mehendi on her


At that time I could see no fault in it. But today when I look back I can see the pattern. It's not about the mehndi but the way she could use her Devi act to get what she wanted. Using it to save her life was alright because something needed to be done to save herself but was it really needed for the mehndi?

And please don't mention stealing. She has stolen things we have seen it. I wonder where the necklace is ?

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