What is Mangala so scared of? DTN pg 27

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Originally posted by: Shinya

red - that is a big mystery to all of us, not just you. 😆

By the way, the show does not run because of anandi.. this is a myth that the show runs because of her.

There are others because of whom the show runs. The current ones are mangala and akhiraj-harki.

Anandi is/was in the show for namesake. Her story ended the day she married second time.

Akhiraj and Mangala will come and go but only Anandi stays on!

It's not a mystery to me and so many others why the story is popular. People have been posting here even before Akhiraj and Mangala came in and they will continue to post after they leave . Anandi and BH people are the only permanent people on the show. Actually Jagya Anandi and dadisa. Ganga came in later isn't it although now she's in the main characters

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Originally posted by: SPuja

They can't show too disheveled and malnourished because it's only the character not the actor in real

But the crux of the story was that Nimboli was the maid of that house.
Who fed her laddoos?😆 She stole and ate them and found her own ways of finding entertainment and keeping herself sane amongst that miserable life that she led.

Even when she got thrashed she used tricks like stiffening her body to reduce the pain and later used to laugh about it. Does it mean the child didn't feel any pain?. Mangala stood and watched all of it and later came to pacify her . Any use of that?

Eating laddoos and enjoying life indeed! I wished it was so true like you have written.

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Originally posted by: fast trak

At that time I could see no fault in it. But today when I look back I can see the pattern. It's not about the mehndi but the way she could use her Devi act to get what she wanted. Using it to save her life was alright because something needed to be done to save herself but was it really needed for the mehndi?

And please don't mention stealing. She has stolen things we have seen it. I wonder where the necklace is ?

and why its so wrong if she used it for mehendi ?Is mehendi some wrong thing? Is it some immoral thing ? The society she lived in ,was regressive enough if she did it openly they would have sentenced her to death because this is what happens in reality in regressive societies and Jharla was one of that kinds . Its a very very harsh reality that widowed woman are still treated so cruelly . As far as Mangala is concerned these were only innocent desires of a woman which are right of every woman in the world and are not some sin which cruel and regressive society did not allow her being a widow to do it freely . Here society should be criticized for wrong customs

Please before lecturing me what i should mention or not understand my point first I am talking about she did not steal anything using her devi avatar so there is no point of saying she was using her devi avatar for her own wrong pleasures . She only used it to save her life , save others lives If these were pleasures which she was satisfying using her fake avatar then i applaud such pleasures

Let me clear you i am not a Mangala fan i strongly dislike her for what she is doing now She is wrong now but this does not mean she was always wrong so i don't agree with the people who just to glorify Anandi want to prove Mangala was always bad and evil

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Originally posted by: kate-nic
exactly i am surprised how people are saying Mangala used her devi avatar to satisfy her inner desires , for her own pleasures 😕Was she trapping wealthy men by using her fake devi avatar ? Was she stealing things ? was she satisfying her desire to rule the world by using her fake devi avatar ? No
even if she used her fake devi avatar to apply mehendi or color on her Then how it became sinful ?

i also read some people saying Mangala should marry since she wants to apply color on her , mehendi on her ? Just how regressive thinking is this the woman only after getting a man in her life can apply color and mehendi on her

agree wid u.

@bold so true & this forum has also bcum live e.g of this esply wen it concern 2 sum1 whos pinned against the great soul A.

wen sum ppl pointed out A enjoying company of anant then same ppl who r now saying this abt Mn lashed & criticsed those members who said abt A.

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Originally posted by: kate-nic
and why its so wrong if she used it for mehendi ?Is mehendi some wrong thing? Is it some immoral thing ? The society she lived in ,was regressive enough if she did it openly they would have sentenced her to death because this is what happens in reality in regressive societies and Jharla was one of that kinds . Its a very very harsh reality that widowed woman are still treated so cruelly . As far as Mangala is concerned these were only innocent desires of a woman which are right of every woman in the world and are not some sin which cruel and regressive society did not allow her being a widow to do it freely . Here society should be criticized for wrong customs
Please before lecturing me what i should mention or not understand my point first I am talking about she did not steal anything using her devi avatar so there is no point of saying she was using her devi avatar for her own wrong pleasures . She only used it to save her life , save others lives If these were pleasures which she was satisfying using her fake avatar then i applaud such pleasures

Let me clear you i am not a Mangala fan i strongly dislike her for what she is doing now She is wrong now but this does not mean she was always wrong so i don't agree with the people who just to glorify Anandi want to prove Mangala was always bad and evil

I'm no one to lecture you. So please stop from passing allegations on me. If you have right to say she didn't steal then You may say it. But in the story they have shown her stealing. I'm not cooking up her stealing story.

I'm not glorifying Anandi to demean Mangala. If you liked Mangala earlier and dislike her now then I am the same. I liked her earlier and dislike her now too. I'm just referring the mehndi as an example to see what the creatives were wanting to show us about her. For me even if sh applied mehndi openly wouldn't change my opinion about her because I don't believe in backward thoughts. It's a natural thing for a lady to beautify herself especially if she is young and losing her husband at a young age shouldn't mean the end to her life. But Mangala knew that if she wanted to satisfy her mehndi desire she had to be smart enough and fool people or else her desire won't be fulfilled.

I don't agree with Harki living that life. But it's her choice and she idolised her husband to the extent that now she can't think of anything in his absence. I feel pity for her instead because Akhiraj didn't give her any value for her devotion

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At that time I could see no fault in it. But today when I look back I can see the pattern. It's not about the mehndi but the way she could use her Devi act to get what she wanted.

Today's episode clears the myth that M did not use devi avtaar for small pleasures.

She also knew how to stand up for herself when she would just be forced to follow rituals. For example, she chose to sleep on proper bed.

And in general, she has used her devi avtaar to protect either herself or others from dangers such as death or molestation.

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Mangala stood up to help as much as she could. But there were times she just stood and watched it all . She had her limitations. She was just a well wisher of Nimboli along with chagni and Kamli. Chagni has disappeared while Kamli has found pushkar but Mangala has no one so clinged to Nimboli for support.

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Originally posted by: fast trak

Akhiraj and Mangala will come and go but only Anandi stays on!
It's not a mystery to me and so many others why the story is popular. People have been posting here even before Akhiraj and Mangala came in and they will continue to post after they leave . Anandi and BH people are the only permanent people on the show. Actually Jagya Anandi and dadisa. Ganga came in later isn't it although now she's in the main characters

bold - we all know that... that was not the point either.

The point was the story becomes interesting NOT because of anandi but because of other characters... When the story is focused on anandi, it is plain boring and even the TRPs fall.

So it is not about anandi and the great so-called journey of anandi.

They could not afford to kill akhiraj because he is the crowd puller.

They could not keep nimboli in jaitsar because it was getting beyond boring.

So people need not assume that it is because of anandi that the serial is doing pretty well for years.

The serial is doing pretty well because of other characters.

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I'm no one to lecture you. So please stop from passing allegations on me. If you have right to say she didn't steal then You may say it. But in the story they have shown her stealing. I'm not cooking up her stealing story.

yes you are no one to lecture me and even ask what i should mention or not I think you need to read your own post how you asked me please don't mention this ? what i should mention or not is none of your business Just like you have right to say i too have but if you will ask me please don't mention this that then i will ask you please stop lecturing me what should i mention or not Before blaming me i am passing allegations on innocent you read your own posts what you said to me , based on that i asked you stop lecturing me

I'm not glorifying Anandi to demean Mangala. If you liked Mangala earlier and dislike her now then I am the same. I liked her earlier and dislike her now too. I'm just referring the mehndi as an example to see what the creatives were wanting to show us about her. For me even if sh applied mehndi openly wouldn't change my opinion about her because I don't believe in backward thoughts. It's a natural thing for a lady to beautify herself especially if she is young and losing her husband at a young age shouldn't mean the end to her life. But Mangala knew that if she wanted to satisfy her mehndi desire she had to be smart enough and fool people or else her desire won't be fulfilled.

I don't agree with Harki living that life. But it's her choice and she idolised her husband to the extent that now she can't think of anything in his absence. I feel pity for her instead because Akhiraj didn't give her any value for her devotion

i answered to the people who were saying Mangala was satisfying her inner desires . her pleasures using her fake devi avatar i said that her those pleasures were not immoral that she was satisfying Rather i felt sorry for her she is trapped in such evil customs society that she had to use a fake devi avatar to get what is the right of every woman in the world These evil customs are man made not made by God but women are forced to follow them by cruel regressive societies

i don't feel sorry for Harki simply because she is a spineless woman , having no self respect The way Akhiraj ill treated her Her still being so obsessed with him then she herself loves to live in hell so be it . Such women don't deserve sympathy IMO who loves to be doormat of men no matter how much men ill treat them

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I agree about Harki. Deserves that treatment but again it goes back to rural village women. She blindly worshipped her husband even though he kicked her and abused her. Hence I feel pity. In today's day and age it's rare to find people or even women who will blindly worship their husband to this extent. Akhiraj doesn't realise how lucky he is and to some extent Harki is responsible for fanning his male ego. She had kept the male folk above everything and look at her son today. What has she achieved in life? The funny part is she doesn't even care.

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