What is Mangala so scared of? DTN pg 27 - Page 5

Dr. anant is available to anandi whenever she needs help. Even when her daughter is upset, he takes her to his house.

Yes, agree that the Dr. Smita, or whatever her name, did tell anandi to not tell the truth to Nimboli.

Mangala hasn't used Devi avatar just to protect herself from Akhiraj. She also used it for her own pleasures. That means she was always a manipulator but she was able to use her full colours only now. Akhiraj being the more dominant one suppressed her and only when he left she was able to express much better

Originally posted by: aparnauma

M only told her doubts about Akheraj's involvement in her husband's murder which the lady didn't believe.

But she never told about Akheraj's behaviour towards to her to anyone.It started from the time she entered the house as a newly wed.She didn't tell her husband also.

Because she never told him off in no uncertain terms he was emboldened and his ignorance and belief in Devi act was a temporary deterrent and he just took her silence as acceptance of his feelings for her and fear of society from accepting his advances.

Originally posted by: Missesha

Well but it has been proven that Anandi cares for her image and fear of rejection through many scenes in the show. That is a FACT and not assumptions, similar to those highlighted in bold 😛

If Anandi doesn't care for image , then what is it exactly that stops her to tell the truth? What exactly is she waiting for?
Amol's parents lost their son. They were searching for him for so many years. They too must have feared of their son's rejaction if and when they find him ( something that happend by the way.)
Yet they had enough courage . determination and most important the need and desire to make understand their son that he wasn't abandoned,thrown in the garbage, that it was just an unfortunate set of circumstances. Even if the child's decision afterwards is to stay with his adoptive parents,somewhere in child's mind comes a relief due to the fact that he was not unwanted. Although heartbroken because they once again lost their child, this time by his own choice,Amol's parent complied with his decision for the sake of his happiness.( same as Bhago did for Anandi's happiness- although the case was different but purpose was the same, a child'shappiness) Amol's parents were heartbroken but to their son they gave a heartsease because he finally found out , no matter how and why but he wasn't abandoned.

So no doctors , no Mangalas,no one in this world could stop me to tell the truth to my child. Even if my child will hate me for ever. Even if my child rejects me. Even if my child chose a person who cared for him/her for so many years . I would like my child to know that he/she wasn't abandoned, that I loved and did all possible to find him/her. But maybe Anandi can not tell all this. Because it would not be true. First , she has not lost her child accidentally, she was aware of the danger. Even if she wasn't experienced , she was warned by the police to put her child in a safe. And then according to what was shown and what we saw, she did almost nothing to find her daughter. So the conclusion is that she cares very much for image .In the meantime, her daughter can continue to live with belief that her own mother didn't want her. And this is not Mangala's fault. It is Anandi's own fear and inability to face neither the truth of her own mistakes nor the consequences.

Amol's parents' example is so apt. They told the truth - faced their child's rejection gracefully, considered his attachment for the adoptive parents and retreated voluntarily. And this when Amol's association with his adoptive parents was for a few years only (may be one or two - BV timeline is never clear) - and here the girl has been brought up and has known only Jhalra people all her life. Creatives think making Mangala bad will automatically make Anandi right - it is not so - people will judge Anandi for her actions no matter what other character are doing.

It was because Amol got s lot after living with Anandi. Not just luxury. When I say got a lot means s good life and lot of love. He got cured. Proper education and a great childhood .

Originally posted by: Shinya

Dr. anant is available to anandi whenever she needs help. Even when her daughter is upset, he takes her to his house.

Jagya drives her when her daughter runs away. Jagya was the one who found her daughter.

What has anandi done so far ? The real weakling is anandi who does nothing on her own other than shedding tears.

Mangala and Anandi are not comparable in terms of what they could give to their adoptive child. Their circumstances were entirely opposite and the way the child came to their life also was so different. Amol was like a social service project for Anandi - while M risked her own life to save Nimboli. I already mentioned in many posts that comparing what the child had in Jhalra with what she could get with Anandi is like comparing what a child gets in Indian home to some developed countries. Many Indian parents have to loss their children to State Authority and put in foster care because Indian and western standard/idea of nurturing a child is so different. It cannot be said that Indian parents do not love their children - mothers make their girl child help in household work, help in raising younger siblings and even work in fields - girls as young as 9 years old - work as maid while living with their parents - no one says that the mother is not doing anything. The child will get what the parents can provide.

Originally posted by: SPuja

Mangala and Anandi are not comparable in terms of what they could give to their adoptive child. Their circumstances were entirely opposite and the way the child came to their life also was so different. Amol was like a social service project for Anandi - while M risked her own life to save Nimboli. I already mentioned in many posts that comparing what the child had in Jhalra with what she could get with Anandi is like comparing what a child gets in Indian home to some developed countries. Many Indian parents have to loss their children to State Authority and put in foster care because Indian and western standard/idea of nurturing a child is so different. It cannot be said that Indian parents do not love their children - mothers make their girl child help in household work, help in raising younger siblings and even work in fields - girls as young as 9 years old - work as maid while living with their parents - no one says that the mother is not doing anything. The child will get what the parents can provide.