Balika Vadhu Episode Discussion Thread #5 - OPENED SEE PG 14 - Page 6

Anandi cried again because nandini didn't wear a new dress? I wonder why anandi is being such a crybaby crying every now and then after her daughter returned to her. When she didn't know if her daughter was alive or not in the past 11 years, she seemed so calm and composed. Strange that she doesn't remain calm after knowing her daughter is alive and happy. Some strange mother she is

How would a mother be happy knowing that her daughter has gone through so much in her absence and suffered all kinds of violence and abuse?What would have happened to that child if she didn't have presence of mind to save herself when she was being molested?

Yaa I too thought how can a mother be so calm and composed when she lost her daughter to death. .And then she came to know the baby became a baby bride(worse than a child bride 😳). anandi surprised me by her composed behavior Inspite of knowing how her daughter's life might be and still I understood her then which is why I'm failing to understand her crybaby avatar now. Did she think the girl would be worshipped all these years? In fact she should be glad for two things. One, for still living. Two for not getting physically hurt and still having that child like innocence and being a happy soul. Otherwise in nimboli's place, it is most unlikely for a girl to remain this cheerful. I thought anandi , if she was a real mother(by the forum definitions😉), would've figured out how lucky her daughter is Inspite of having a reckless mother like herself. Instead of being grateful she is shocked now and is crying all the time now for relatively less important things. I can't help thinking again how strange a mother she is😆

If a mother is so sad seeing her daughter's condition, why doesn't she for once feel she is responsible for all this? And admit it to herself first and then to her children? And give this duaghter her rightful life? Why is Nandini living like a refugee in BH?

Why does that child love this Chkhi Chudail whom she met only a few months ago just as much as the woman who has supposedly raised her all these years and loved her like a mother would love a child?

Children do like anyone who is nice to them and gives them goodies / teaches them a few different things. A positive influence is always welcomed by children. They get easily attracted to material comforts, especially if their own parents have not been able to afford it.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Mangala has been singing the same song right from the beginning and all her actions are coming from that only.

She has been singing that she can't live without the child right from beginning.And every action of hers has been determined by this one line.

She did say it is her loneliness that made her get attached to that child.

If she really loved that child she wouldn't behave this way.

No love and the insecurity that came out of it will make a person behave this way.

Don't think she ever loved the child in the first place.

The child is more like something that she thinks is necessary for her own survival.She never regarded the child's feelings before and now she doesn't care for them.

She is someone makes her life worth living so she is hanging on not because she loves her.

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Anandi took her child with her only because she knew that police would be there.When Ira expressed her reservations she said she had already called police and they are on their way and with police around the scene it will not be dangerous for her or her child.

Sarita was hurrying her saying that it might be too late to stop the marriage if she drops the child before they were on their way.She was saying there is no time.She was not getting any lift too

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This annulment of marriage can happen if they can prove that child marriage happened

Was Sandhya teacher able to prove in front of the magistrate that child marriage happened?

Nandini Kundan's child marriage - was easily suppressed in front of Vidhyaksa.

Villagers will come together if they have to defend their tradtions.

Will the village who believes in child marriage come out and say child marriage happened?

Sarita would have never been able to prove that child marriage happened.

In fact they would have turned the whole thing against Sarita.

Urmi's child marriage had a proof in the form of photographs.So it was easy to annul the marriage with or without her consent combined with the fact that Kundan is convicted in molestation attempt of a minor child who is well below the age of consent

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Is Anandi in competition with the lady or it is just her eagerness to make a place in er daughters life?

She already lost a lot of years and she is in a hurry.Weather the lost years are because of misjudgment or foolishness or what ever.

It is Mangala who is seeing this as competition and not Anandi.

The attachment between Mangala as Nimboli (as well as Nimboli and Kamli, Chagni) must have happened over the years. We have not seen what happened during those 11 years - but seeing the behaviour of the child it is clear - that Mangala is the one who cared for her like a parent - that is why the girl goes to her when in trouble, that is why the girl said - mother would be like teesa. Mangala was not a paid maid in the house - so the term being used by some people - she cared for her as caretaker - seems wrong and biased. People get attached to even pets - when they take care of them for a time - then Mangala caring for an infant will sure result in a relationship like mother-daughter. The girl did not address her as mother - was due to the fact that she was teesa of Kundan and the girl was married to Kundan - obviously, the girl would be taught to call her teesa.

Anandi crying because her child couldn't wear the beautiful dress she got for her totally makes sense.

Nimboli wanting nice things has been judged as being materialistic but the same facilities are being enjoyed by maharani Mangala Devi as well!