Balika Vadhu Episode Discussion Thread #5 - OPENED SEE PG 14

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sam

@fly2meee

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Posted: 9 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: Shinya
Anandi said to her daughter, tu iss ghar ki beti (you are the daughter of this house).
Grandson's ex-wife's daughter becomes the daughter of the house?? Since when did this culture start ?😔

Does that mean only blood relatives are family? Then what is the adoption culture? If that's the case, N is no way related to M. 😆

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 9 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: fly2meee
Does that mean only blood relatives are family? Then what is the adoption culture? If that's the case, N is no way related to M. 😆

May I know who was adopted by whom ?

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

#73

Anandi knows very well that she is part of the family because Dsa and Singhs consider her as part of family and they loved her just as much as they love Jagya and Suguna.

Dsa and Singhs consider Anandi as their beti.But they did not ever try to seperate Anandi from her parents or did not claim to have more rights over her than Khazan and Bhago as well as Shekhars.

Isn't Ganga so happy to see a girl child wandering around the house?

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If Anandi is considered by Singhs as Ghar ki beti then so will be Nandini.

Dsa calls Daddu and Shekhars as Samdhans then what does that make Anandi ?

Haweli ki beti.

Anandi's rishta with Singhs happened with the approval of every one who are important in Anandi's life be it her parents later on Shiv and then Shekhars.

The same cannot be said about Nandini and Jhalra wasis.

Akheraj and Harki never considered their beendini as beti nor did Mangala adopt her nor did she give her mother's love or care not now or before this.

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sam

@fly2meee

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Posted: 9 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: Shinya

May I know who was adopted by whom ?

You agree that N should call Mangala as maa because she took care of her(as per your thinking) for 11 years. Singhs treated Anandi as their daughter. Stood for her when their son cheated her. They abandoned their son for what he did to Anandi and took Anandi as their daughter. You were calling BH as ex-sasural but for them A is like daughter just like M thought N as daughter. Kajan and bhago gave their only child to singhs and as singhs stood by her side more than their own son, they let her stay as BH's daughter. But in N's case, N was snatched away by Akhiraj and M got her married to Kundan. A didn't give her daughter to Kundan. Moreover Mangala is snatching away the girl's happiness by daunting her for 2 plaits, frocks, breaking cellphone and blaming the girl for that, even tearing the clothes on festival day. Still you say M's is mothers love but A can't be BH's daughter and so is Nandini. By saying BH is A's ex-sasural, you said only blood relatives are family. Then how can you say M is N's mother. Because she is not related to M by blood. So if someone is adopted, they are not part of that family because they are not related by blood!

Edited by fly2meee - 9 years ago

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

#75

If Dsa is a culprit in J A child marriage so are Singhs and Anand's parents - all of them should have been arrested but unfortunately Sandhya teacher couldn't prove that Anandi's child marriage happened at that time.

If Dsa is punishable for Anandi Jagya's child marriage so is Mangala punishable for Nandini Kundan's child marriage. She too should have been arrested along with Akheraj.

Since it's being said again and again that Mangala gave the child a new life to that girl so she should be called mother of that child then who was that child who came under the sword of Akheraj again whom Anandi saved?Wasn't that girl Nimboli who was married off to Kundan by Mangala and made to endure so many troubles all thanks to Mangala's decision?So who did Anandi save that day? Was it Nandini or Nimboli?

If saving Nandini from Akheraj sword makes Mangala a mother of that child then Nimboli almost died under the sword of Akheraj's goons that day so it means it is Anandi who gave her a new life.

Edited by aparnauma - 9 years ago

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fast trak

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Posted: 9 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: Shinya

May I know who was adopted by whom ?

Who did kanyadaan for Anandi Shiv wedding? BH has given so much to Anandi. They have been responsible for marrying her off to a lovely personality like Shiv. Why won't Anandi, Khajan care for dadisa? She means the world to them. For any parent if their child is well taken care of is all they want. Anandi has a very special place in that house and hearts of BH people -while same cannot be said for Nandini.

Anandi saved Mangala's life as well during the last weeks episode. Still that lady is so ungrateful. Is this how you treat someone saving your life? Behind Anandi's back tearing and breaking her property. I've never seen more ungrateful people.

I think Akhiraj and Harki treated her perfectly fine. She deserved that life only not this cosy and respectful life she's living now.

I so wish she leaves the child alone and goes away. It's sad because the child thinks Mangala genuinely loves her and will miss her. Whatever Mangala is doing is not good at all. She has done good things also with the child and now she's finished it all with her negativities.

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rohini55

@rohini55

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Posted: 9 years ago

#77

If Shekhars are sambdis of DS and the Singhs which make Anandi the latter's daughter,

is she Jagya's sister?

when will she tell the truth to her children?

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psiloveyou

@psiloveyou

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Posted: 9 years ago

#78

Dadisa married of JA in the name of fulfilling old customs and traditions .

Mangala married of NK because she wanted to save the baby's life. Apparently there's a difference.

J is A's brother. Sure. I hope Shivam leaves Anandi for good after learning the truth about his fake family and the fake relationship s that he is surrounded by. . Poor boy deserves a better life than calling his mom's ex's family as his own.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 9 years ago

#79

Why Shivam will waljk away away from his mother when Shivam's father as well as his father's family considered considered Singhs as Anandi's family. So what wil he do when he gets to know the truth that it is his father's family who left him and his mother in his mother's ex sasural?

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psiloveyou

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Posted: 9 years ago

#80

Father's family never left him. The mother refused to shift to Singapore giving an excuse for finding his sister. The family had to shift to Singapore, they left their DIL at kalyani 's care until their grand daughter was found. It's a different thing Anandi was never bothered about N. They entrusted the police and didn't pressurize the DIL to shift with them. They didn't leave Anandi at BH for her to stay there forever.

It's the shameless Anandi who still probably harbors feelings for a happily married man Jagya, that's why she refuses to leave the place giving an excuse of DS ka pyaar, Nandini's search etc etc. And I'm pretty sure Nandini and Shivam's dad never wanted his kids to grow up in his wife's ex's home. I'm sure Shiv must be so happy to see his family apart today. Jagya doesn't give ghaas to her, and loves only his wife, so now her agenda is to trap Dr Ant and shift in Jaitser permanently.

Poor Shivam and Nandini will forever live with fake relatives.

Edited by psiloveyou - 9 years ago