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Posted: 9 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Who ever has seen a mother doing something nasty and putting the blame on daughter like breaking a valuable thing so deliberately and putting the blame on her daughter so that the daughter would get into trouble?
Who ever seen a mother crushing her child's future so cruelly and willfully?

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Comparing a woman's misjudgement resulting in losing her daughter and a woman who is so cruel to the girl whom she considers as her own child? Comparing two mothers one of whom made an error in judgement and another woman who is so vicious and manipulative not to mention deliberately cruel?


Did we see Mangala like this before Anandi came into picture? Did Mangala ever do anything to make Nimboli sad? Nobody is justifying what Mangala is being made to do now. This is what I always said. She will be made a scapegoat to make Anandi appear good - but even this ruining of character is not making Anandi good. Because even Anandi is in competition - to feed the girl, to dress the girl and she has the advantage of a wealthy family's backing and can purchase many goodies that the children like.

Anandi only misjudged when she made the infant's life secondary to her own goal? No, she knew what can go wrong, she knew that the child marriage can be annuled, and Sarita was not even asking her to stop the child marriage - she was requesting her to drop at the venue. The infant was not well and she could have been dropped home first.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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As regards the insecurity - Mangala very well knows that she is not the real mother, that the real mother turns out to be from an influential, wealthy family, that the child will sure find that much wealth and status attractive and that this family can snatch the girl from her and she can do nothing. Ask any mother - who has adopted/nurtured a child that is not hers. The insecurity can creep in because of the very nature of the relationship. And unless Mangala do blunders like she is doing now - it will be difficult for the creatives to justify the girl choosing to live with Anandi leaving Mangala. And anyway - all her life - anandi's story is just being juxtaposed with a woman who is doing something negative. That is the only thing creatives know.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anandi was giving a bhashan to villagers not to be afraid of akhiraj, that he is a coward that is why using weapon to frighten them.

So, what should the poor villagers do when a goonda approaches them with a weapon?... Go and fight him and lose their children like she did? 👎🏼

Except for anandi, for every woman, her children are her life. They will sacrifice their own life but will keep their children safe... Their self interests and goal do not matter to them before their children... that is what motherhood is about.

It was ridiculous how she told the villagers not to be afraid of akhiraj.🤪 It is like telling them, dont be afraid if a tiger comes before you... The tiger is scared of you. You should not be scared of someone who is already scared.🤪


Edited by Shinya - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Don't face the goons, Don't fight, do whatever they say because you may lose your kid or life or something. Instead, you may try using Devi act to terrify them😕. A asked villagers not to be afraid and speak the truth. If that is not right the whole world will be filled with either goons like Akhiraj or all cowards. Who asked to speak truth is not important, standing for the truth is all that matters.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What jagya told in his first speech was right... He gave a practical solution and told what needs to be done if any person tries to take undue advantage of them.

He asked them to approach the police, but it is a different story that the police are corrupt

The answer to the problem is not to give useless talks to vulnerable people but to restructure the system.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The question is asked what Anandi did was less than what vidhayak sa did

Vidhayak sa did what a noble good responsible person will do and in that he did not sacrificed the lives of his kids which Anandi did Jagya's work did good of all victims of Akhiraj Anandi's work made her own daughter victim Don't feel its fair to compare Anandi's foolishness with Jagya's good work for society
Edited by BeatifulSoul_ - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja


Did we see Mangala like this before Anandi came into picture? Did Mangala ever do anything to make Nimboli sad? Nobody is justifying what Mangala is being made to do now. This is what I always said. She will be made a scapegoat to make Anandi appear good - but even this ruining of character is not making Anandi good. Because even Anandi is in competition - to feed the girl, to dress the girl and she has the advantage of a wealthy family's backing and can purchase many goodies that the children like.

Anandi only misjudged when she made the infant's life secondary to her own goal? No, she knew what can go wrong, she knew that the child marriage can be annuled, and Sarita was not even asking her to stop the child marriage - she was requesting her to drop at the venue. The infant was not well and she could have been dropped home first.

Mangala has been singing the same song right from the beginning and all her actions are coming from that only.
She has been singing that she can't live without the child right from beginning.And every action of hers has been determined by this one line.
She did say it is her loneliness that made her get attached to that child.
If she really loved that child she wouldn't behave this way.
No love and the insecurity that came out of it will make a person behave this way.
Don't think she ever loved the child in the first place.

The child is more like something that she thinks is necessary for her own survival.She never regarded the child's feelings before and now she doesn't care for them.
She is someone makes her life worth living so she is hanging on not because she loves her.


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Anandi took her child with her only because she knew that police would be there.When Ira expressed her reservations she said she had already called police and they are on their way and with police around the scene it will not be dangerous for her or her child.
Sarita was hurrying her saying that it might be too late to stop the marriage if she drops the child before they were on their way.She was saying there is no time.She was not getting any lift too
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This annulment of marriage can happen if they can prove that child marriage happened
Was Sandhya teacher able to prove in front of the magistrate that child marriage happened?

Nandini Kundan's child marriage - was easily suppressed in front of Vidhyaksa.
Villagers will come together if they have to defend their tradtions.
Will the village who believes in child marriage come out and say child marriage happened?
Sarita would have never been able to prove that child marriage happened.
In fact they would have turned the whole thing against Sarita.
Urmi's child marriage had a proof in the form of photographs.So it was easy to annul the marriage with or without her consent combined with the fact that Kundan is convicted in molestation attempt of a minor child who is well below the age of consent

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Is Anandi in competition with the lady or it is just her eagerness to make a place in er daughters life?
She already lost a lot of years and she is in a hurry.Weather the lost years are because of misjudgment or foolishness or what ever.
It is Mangala who is seeing this as competition and not Anandi.



Edited by aparnauma - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anandi and her daughter ended up being Akheraj's victims not because Anandi had something personal against Akheraj but because she was doing what she considered as her duty as a responsible citizen and a social worker.She was trying to stop something that shouldn't be happening and trying to help a woman save her child.Sarita had no one to look up to for help.
Her daughter was lost to her because people like Akheraj exist.Akheraj would have come after her for a revenge even if she had not taken her child to that venue.

Her daughter would have been kidnapped or some of the Shekhar family members would have been harmed or Anandi herself would have been harmed or he would have snatched the girl from her own home or if she had taken her somewhere else like a shopping mall too.


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Posted: 9 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: Shinya

Can someone else please enlighten as to what should be called to a woman who does not care about her 3 month old baby's health and takes her along on a dangerous mission? ... ...a mentally ill woman? mentally unsound ? showing symptoms of acute mental disorder?


I wouldn't have agreed to this in general. And I understand that you wouldn't have said it too in general.. But seeing the recent standards of motherhood... the definitions of motherhood on this forum, if I go by that same yardstick, I have to agree that anandi had some postpartum depression and hated her baby so much that she took the baby to a graveyard. How sad to have a mother like that🤢. A mother like that is not just useless, she's harmful too. It costed the baby her very life.
**DT NOTE: Comment has been edited to remove a phrase that falls under character bashing**
Edited by Yuvika_15 - 9 years ago

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