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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: fast trak

Pooja is equally responsible or everything. Even for miscarriage it's both of them equally responsible. Because she was trying to contact him with her worries constantly but he started to ignore her whereas Pooja couldn't ignore or forget anything. The baby was growing inside her and she didn't know what to do.

Both parents need to be equally responsible for their child but when the parents themselves are children this is what happens. They don't know to act in the best interest of the unborn child so how are they going to manage it after it is born? This is called immaturity.

don't think mannu is atleast responsibl 4 P's this condn esply miscarraige et al.
rest is equally at fault & i m happy hes getting slapped but pooja shud alos b made 2 see her faults

btw r u shallini??i 4got ur name . i rembr i saw u on UT forum.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tiny15

don't think mannu is atleast responsibl 4 P's this condn esply miscarraige et al.

rest is equally at fault & i m happy hes getting slapped but pooja shud alos b made 2 see her faults

btw r u shallini??i 4got ur name . i rembr i saw u on UT forum.


Hi Dolly I'm Dhanya..you forgot me 😊

I believe the day she got pregnant responsibility has come on both. If Mannu was very caring careful etc and Pooja careless I would've said yes only Pooja is responsible but here she was trying to contact him with her worries and fears. She wanted to share her pains etc but he wasn't interested. Ultimately this happened because she is also immature and didn't know how to act in the best interest of the baby. He wanted to keep the baby and ran to stop the abortion. What happened to his love for the child after that?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I m convinced by anshrug explanation...

Jagya and Ganga never expected to Mannu to consummate. For Ganga it was pooja who was trapping her son so she hated pooja but now pooja can't be pregnant on her own. He consummated and asked pooja to go ahead with pregnancy. He did wrong and he not even stopped pooja from doing wrong. Mannu has disappointed them.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: fast trak


Hi Dolly I'm Dhanya..you forgot me 😊

I believe the day she got pregnant responsibility has come on both. If Mannu was very caring careful etc and Pooja careless I would've said yes only Pooja is responsible but here she was trying to contact him with her worries and fears. She wanted to share her pains etc but he wasn't interested. Ultimately this happened because she is also immature and didn't know how to act in the best interest of the baby. He wanted to keep the baby and ran to stop the abortion. What happened to his love for the child after that?

oh sorry i 4got ur name. but i din't 4got u.actually from UT forum i rembr few names tho know many members.
and rest i think mannu's not responsible 4 miscarriage .P din't try 2 contact him wid his worries abt kid or herself .wenever she tried she did 4 having fun like asking baby's names etc. 2nd times wen she called she wanted 2 meet him 4 fun or like that only.not pains etc. she only tried 2 contact him abt pain is b4 dance & that time mannu was not shown .it only showed 2 rings on phone and P threw phone on bed.
he din't want baby 4 luv .both of them wanted it so that parents won't separtae them & P madam'd gone one step ahead .s he thot that i"ll flop all ppl's plan wid this baby.
and miscarriage din't happen bcoz of trauma caused by M by ignoring P.initially M was caring 4 P but P took everything litely so he got irritated .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Lols how come Mannu is to be blamed poor pooja became pregnant because of him He eloped with her Did he put gun on her head to come with him ? he was leaving without looking back at her why she ran after him and hugged him?Poor baby pooja if was so desperate for him and could not stay without him thats why she eloped with him How on earth its his fault and she is milk washed ?
He gave the idea of marriage because she was sleeping with him on bed without marriage He did not put gun on her head and emotionally blackmailed her marry me otherwise i will die He presented his point she could refuse and he would not have forced her but she married him and was very happy and proud of her act that she was defending in front of everyone How it is his fault and she is milk washed ?

She consummated with him on her wish he did not rape her She at night consummated with him and in the morning she was feeling guilty and Mannu was clearly shocked and taken aback by her act why are you saying it now

She was crying for baby yesterday it clearly showed keeping baby was her own inner desire too
so its hilarious how some feminists are busy blaming Mannu and giving this girl a clean chit who was partner with him in everything I am sure these people who are busy blaming Mannu won't blame Pooja that she trapped Mannu with her planning and plotting and her emotional blackmails Of course Mannu has his brain so why same logic does not apply on Pooja ji she has her own brain but whatever she did was on her wish You cannot blame Mannu for this girl
Edited by Hina- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Only Sarita failed She never made Pooja understand properly Indirectly she fueled Pooja to go after Mannu because she made it rich vs poor matter BH people will not accept her only because they indebted to them so she should stop dreaming for Mannu This was Sarita's own statement No wonder Pooja wanted to flop everyone's evil plans because this Sarita put her in mind
But i don't know how people are blaming Jagya and Ganga🤢what is heart to heart talk ? May be pull their heart out and pull Mannu's heart out and make both connected😕 otherwise they made Mannu understand so many times if he did not listen How on earth its their fault

and if a child keeps breaking parents trust again and again that one point he does lose their trust Mannu was lying even now to Jagya when Jagya asked him about pooja's pregnancy he swore i don't know so why will Jagya and Ganga believe him now ?
Edited by Hina- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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pooja marry manu not because mannu manipulate her but in heart she hersel always f want to marry pooja .even before mannu share feeling to pooja pooja always want to marry mannu
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Jagya and Ganga slapped Mannu and are not believing him because he broke their trust He spoke so many lies to them Even just before Jagya informed Mannu about Pooja's miscarriage He questioned him on Pooja's pregnancy What did Mannu do in front of him ?To hide his act he swore in front of Jagya i don't know anything about this so why will Jagya and Ganga believe him now ?He ashamed them enough with his acts They forgave him for all his rudeness to them trusting him he has realized his mistakes and he has changed now but did he truly redeem ? No he kept on lying , cheating them so now he lost their trust and needs to get it back Thats why i said Mannu should come to them and own up his mistakes sincerely and tell everything clearly and truthfully what happened between him and Pooja
I will blame Sarita Sarita seemed quite cunning to me the way she covered up her own daughter and blamed everything on Mannu's head She recalled all her daughter's lies and cheating to her but in front Dadisaa Ganga and Anandi she started victim drama what will happen of my daughter now She did not even look angry at her daughter but she started emotional drama in front Singhs Their son ruined her daughter's life Yesterday she cunningly put everything on Mannu's head Sarita was so wrong
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Posted: 10 years ago
#29
OMG!!! So many replies!!!
Well for me blaming Manu alone is very wrong. They are acting as if she was raped and forced to do all this.
I can understand Jagya and Ganga as Manu's parents they are disappointted and even never imangined that son could something like that. Yes it is sad and unfortunate for Pooja that she can never conceive again. But how on earth is Manu alone at fault? Agreed he didn't want the child but he didn't kill it. If he wasn't there for her she could have atleast tell the truth to her mom when Sarita asked her.

Now she is forgiving Ganga and becoming Mahaan and making everyone feel guilty!!!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#30
I agree with you
Also I find the conduct of Pooja's mother weird.
I can understand her pain and feeling frustrated for her daughter but why is she not angry with herself or Pooja ??
Strange

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