Originally posted by: SPuja
I don't think Mannu was misleading Pooja. The way Mannu changes his mind - means he is not thinking properly - getting influenced by small things. Pooja did agree with Mannu without any force or blackmail. Somehow - yesterday's episode - Mannu seemed genuine to me. For one - he did not know what happened to Pooja. He was not responsible for miscarriage also. Perhaps Pooja also is not over mannu. It may be filmy style - saving Mannu from future (she knows that she can never become mother now) - the way she did not turn away when Mannu was leaving and kept looking towards him.
Mannu does not seem that he had planned to ditch Pooja. He was avoiding her because he did not want children. He decides at the spur of moment - very immature - he is not the same Mannu that we have seen before Ratan drama. Another example how creatives bend the characters suddenly. And J and Ganga are totally at fault for slapping and blaming Mannu. They should limit their judgement to what Mannu did to them. They do not know and did not try to know what he did to Pooja. The marriage picture itself is proof that Pooja was not in it under duress - she herself agreed to elope - to marriage - to consummation - to keeping the pregnancy hidden from parent - to abortion - no abortion, keeping the baby etc.
Mannu should get punishment for what he did - punishing him for something he did not do will be another mistake of the parents.
Puja ,
I agree that what happened ,has happened because of fault of both. Both of them were partner in crime but since it was Mannu who was leading both of them during all this and Pooja was blindly following him despite having her doubts , IMO responsibility would be more of Mannu.
Whenever Pooja tried to oppose whatever he was proposing, he quieted her doubts by his twisted arguments. Pooja was girl a weak who did not have the strength to stick to what she thought was right when opposed to her blind love for Mannu. Ske kept following Mannu blindly out of her own faith on Mannu. Even when in the last J-A shared their experience with them , she was confused for what to do but Mannu was determined that their case was not similar to them.
And remember Mannu was talking of their 'zarroorten' when Pooja said they had to control them.
So IMO as a team leader Mannu is more accountable for what they did together by their own will.
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Yes I think that he was genuine y/day when he try to visit Pooja ,after watching Pooja in this condition he was really feeling sorry for her but his attitude was same , my rights on my wife, you cant stop me. 😡 Did he considered that he too was equally responsible to push Pooja in that situation? He still had explanations to justify his actions.
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Btw it was clear from last few episodes before this miscarriage that he was planning to ditch Pooja since he did not want to shoulder responsibility of their child anymore so avoiding her. He was not picking Pooja's calls when she was calling from her mobile .But when she called from PCO he picked up her call since he was not aware that it is Pooja's call.
Pooja too perhaps realized this after going through all the pain . Thus her anger for misguiding her whenever she opposed and her realization that he was avoiding her might have combined when she slapped her.
