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Posted: 10 years ago
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What I felt was, dadisa could have noticed Ganga and asked her how her day was. These small gestures make others happy. When a person is silent and reticent, the others can draw them out even if the house belongs to the former.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The thing is Ganga hushed up her feelings in front of others and exhibited a brave front. And others could not make out what was happening inside her.

Jagya had no time. He was too busy. Ganga did not have friends.

It is a wonder that both anandi and ganga did not have any friends outside the family circle to share their experiences.

It is very important to have a friends circle or one friend atleast outside the family.

I feel sorry for ganga than angry.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes agree with leavesandwaves
Ganga and Anandi both needs friend outside , which will give freshness in their lives.

outing with friends is needed.

Both look like Bandini of Jaitsar badi haveli.

Well they should give fresh touch to their lifestyle.

Anandi and Ganga life is very dull.




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Posted: 10 years ago
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wow wat accusations??i agree wid stephi wen she wrote that r ppl srsly writing it thinking wat the r writing is rite & makes sense ?? bcoz its so clear wat they've written is totally out of serial's facts
ganga handled thing much better than the ppl r saying. shes only wrong not letting tell mannu abt ratan but as a mother her fears can b understood. atleast shes much better than Aji

if she'd made her husband outsider then he wudn't'd been wid her till now.1st of all she din't accuse her husband srsly bcoz no1 who srsly accuse like this will want punishment.even if she accused him she realized & accepted her mistake & wanted 2 get punished by him but he din't punish her as such. and wenever shes in trouble hes there 4 her & shes also there 4 him wen he needed her.
if she'd made her husband outsider then neither she wanted 2 tell him abt ratan being in hospi nor wanted his advice by telling that bimla wanted 2 ratan 2 meet mannu.
and if her husband'd also thot she made him outsider then he wudn't'd left the decision on her abt it.

wow Aji wanted specifically if her staying at BH will cause prob 2 her?? wat a compassionate thinking. asking ur Ex's wife if her husband's ex wife can stay there widout having any prob indirectly burdening her 2 say yes. how can ganga ask her not 2 stay??how can she open mouth abt it??no1 can do that esply if the prsn is guest of her elders.
and how can she ask DS & J abt it even if she din't like.she told J abt it indirectly wen she MU him .and he also told her indirectly.and DS how can she ask her abt Aji.she s elder of the house . how can ganga ask her not 2 do constant comparisons.
wen did she taunt Aji?? it was Aji who taunted her abt her kids.she accused J falsely but not srsly. if she'd done she never wanted punishment 4that.

wats wrong if she gave e.g abt not interfering in oders lives wen sum1 great poked her nose in her kids prsnl matters.so it makes her imaginary competitor ?? so wat abt Aji?? who wen cum 2 know that ganga doesn't like her interference esply bcoz of promise part which was sensitive matter got bruised ego.and she told shivam while rembring ganga's convo.

ganga din't like pooja. and even she lied abt it then shes rite. not everywhere u can strictly ask oders 2 keep away esply wen the prsn is considered a close one & is pushy.wat shud she'd said 2 pooja?? if she'd asked any1 then all wud'd said no its not like that no1 wud'd thot that pooja is distracting mannu.
and why cudn't she barge in2 sarita's home 2 blast them?? if sum1 is maligning ur family, ur husband who will keep quiet??the way she handled pooja & sarita showed how much she down 2 earth unlike Aji who constantly interfering in oder lives.and yes Aji's case is classic case of absolute power corrupts absolutely and u start thinking only u r rite & all shud acccept it.

ratan case . wen did it shown she punished him or wanted 2 punish him. wen did she delberately kept mannu away from ratan.wasn't ratan the one who asked her keep mannu away from his shadow also. then why 2 blame her 4 that. if she'd wanted ratan 2 punish she wud'd never treated him in her hospi herself rather wud'd shifted him 2 sum oder hospi or given sum oder doc his case.
if she was hard 2wards him then she wudn't'd asked J his opinion on bimls' pleas. she was not giving any reply 2 bimla bcoz she was in dilemma after seeing ratan's health.
if she'd been hard 2 ratan she wudn't made mannu meet artan & let mannu sit or feed the ratan wid his own hands wen mannu luked at her on these requests by ratan.
if she'd been hard then she wudn'td instantly agreed let mannu do ratan's last rites as his son??

wen she tried 2 make place in hearts of singhs?? she never thot of that. she only did wat Aji asked her 2 do & wat she felt as paying 2 singhs & showing h r gratitude.she was not happy abt comparisons . she was happy that atleast ppl also think her as human being worth of praise.
wen did she resent Aji's presence?? she only objected on her interference in her prsnl matters. and wen did ganga behave if Aji's snatched sumthing from her??

and how cud ganga butt in the DS & Aji's convo??wen they were talking abt daily routine??they were talking abt their work so how cud she butt in. shes not like Aji who interfere in oders lives widout asking.and why cudn't DS & aji realized it there 3rd prsn whos a family member sitting wid them.iits they who shud'd asked her 2 join them.

luks like there 3-4 BV ver. airing on on colors.

the problems r real & their handling is also not bad unlike sum1 who made evry's lives mess& then pretends 2 b victim.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Forget about others. they have their own lives good or bad.
She made her husband sad. First by accusing him and then not listening to what he said. she made him an outsider. And with mannu. She could not handle the situation as she went on postponing until the last moment and then expected mannu to fall in line without protest.


In her zeal that Mannu should not know about Ratan, she even ended speaking very sharply to Abhi and making him sad.
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Anandi does have some friends such as Phooli who she met the other day. She also shares everything with DadiSa.

Having a friend for Anandi is not so easy. She tried befriending the lady who was Shiv's friend's wife and ended up getting both of them arrested.😉

Wonder whether there are any other families nearby of BH stature worthy of befriending for Ganga. She would not have kept touch with her childhood mates, if any. Her cousin sister is in prison. Maybe she made some long-distance friends at the nursing school or at the medical college. She should interact with them. Though it sounds unlikely since she was studying and also imparting her duties as wife and mother in BH and host to Anandi and Shivam. And after studies where is the time for beendni of BH and a Doctor to make friends with whom she can exchange personal notes.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

The thing is Ganga hushed up her feelings in front of others and exhibited a brave front. And others could not make out what was happening inside her.

Jagya had no time. He was too busy. Ganga did not have friends.

It is a wonder that both anandi and ganga did not have any friends outside the family circle to share their experiences.

It is very important to have a friends circle or one friend atleast outside the family.

I feel sorry for ganga than angry.

Anandi always had a balanced family life and social life from her childhood days.
There was Phooli who is her great friend from childhood was her staunch supporter during Jagya Gauri days
Then post meeting Shiv - he became her best friend with whom she shared everything they had a social life too from their conversations. Only when they needed some drama or when they decided to make a track involving their social life did we see some of their friends and the parties they attended for example Shiv's IAS colleague whose wife was involved in child labour and of course the infamous Palash track.
Now post Shiv phase Anandi has a friend in Dsa and she still keeps in touch with Phooli too.

Ganga I guess her social life is limited by the presence of small baby and she had family responsibilities too while studying so she may not have had time to make long lasting friends.

Then there was Lal Singh and his wife who were childhood friends of both Jagya and Anandi as well as Gauri but have great regard for Ganga too.

So I think they do have social life but they don't highlight that aspect unless they want to make a track out of it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Prophet_

Ganga is the classic example for people with low self esteem and inflated ego.
When people like her gets success , it makes them , arrogant, insensitive and ungrateful.


On the other hand people with high self esteem and healthy ego behaves just opposite when they gets success. It makes them more humble, responsible , grateful and sensitive towards other's feelings.


So true. It is said that a person should be like a tree which starts bending towards earth as soon as it becomes loaded with fruits.

But Ganga's story is totally opposite of it . She was appearing humble and grateful while without power of education and status. But as soon as she moved in the direction of becoming a doctor she started thinking about things only from her own perspective. All others are wrong and doing great injustice to her and she have to safeguard herself and her kids from them at all cost.

Let us see how her relationship transformed while she grew in stature.

She accused her husband , her biggest benefactor of two timing.

Her relationship lost warmth with DS , her other benefactor and a loving granny who supported her at every step..

She became intolerant towards Anandi, her biggest counselor of earlier days and stooped so low as to actually checked her room in the middle of night for her husband. 🤢

She started telling lies with her elder son in the name of safe keeping his interest and deprived him of knowledge about his parentage until it was too late.

She instilled her insecurities in her younger son and fanned his jealousies regarding Shivam.

She got in competition even with a kid Shivam whether it was for bringing ice cream or about bringing video game.

She remembered all the bad deeds of her ex husband but forgot not only the good unexpectedly done by him but her own promise of letting him meet his son whenever he wanted.

She started bulling persons who were below her at social ladder like Sarita and Pooja.

No wonder after leap she was feeling lonely and only muttering to herself .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ppl are talking about the hard work Ganga has done to achieve what she got . It is exactly opposite to what was shown in the show . She got every thing on a platter. Perhaps this was the reason that she developed an arrogance toward ppl around her.
After escaping from Ratan Singh and getting J and BH family's support life has become a catwalk for Ganga.
Let us she what she got and how she got.

She entered as a refugee in BH first. But she was not treated like one, was given all the benefits of a guest though she was neither a relative nor an acquiescence . Like Sarita and Pooja she too was a victim who was helped by BH ppl but unlike Sarita she got all the advantages and actually grabbed all the opportunities came in her way and did not left BH knowing fully well the danger she placed it due to herself and also Sumitra's disliking of her untill Ratan actually attacked them.

Even after that she got a cottage in BH hospital first and latter a fully funded stay and study in Bangalore. How many girls are lucky to get that?
She got a nursing degree after 6 months course which was not possible for anyone else. She only once got a job on her own merit in a hospital with a dubious track records and later had to leave it due to unfortunate incidence because of working in it despite getting warning from others.

She could have ended in jail but thanks to Dr Saab. How many girls are lucky to get that support.

After coming back she married J and faced opposition from his family for sometime but thanks to Sanchi and her dirty tricks that BH ppl accepted her whole heartily after Sa's truth exposed.

As BH beendani she suffered no hardships because Anandi had already oiled DS by her selfless devotion to BH family . She had not suffered 1% of what A has to suffer as BH beendani . Actually BH folk including DS supported her and her son at every step. And the same DS who was ready to send A for secretly studying to her maika encouraged G to work as she wished all thanks to A's affect on her.

Then despite doing a helper nurse course she became the head/senior nurse because of her relationship with management.

Then she got admission in a medical college by the power of capitation fee despite crossing age for pre medical tests , having no knowledge of basic science subjects required for these tests just because her husband thought that she was good enough to become a doctor.

In a country where thousands of students after doing hard labour for years find their dreams shattered , is not G's doctor degree was given to her on a platter?

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And ppl are talking about hard work G done to achieve for what she got ? Huh.

She only worked hard to get J , after that journey was smooth.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshurg5

She only worked hard to get J , after that journey was smooth.


Yes agree that was one hell of a hard work😆😆😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Some light moment r needed .
Ganga jagya should go out for few days with abhi mannu.

Anandi should take shivam somewhere . not in mela but somewhere happening place.

Well 24 hours they just roam in three places shivniketan badi haveli and jaitsar.and hospital.

24 hours bv characters spend time in carrying balvivah and its effects.

Little bit modern touch should be there .











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