Ganga knows how to make a big mess

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

Ganga knows how to make a mess of her life and also that of others.

She knows how to unfriend people. She unfriended anandi by giving a cold treatment and also a rude treatment.

She knows how to make people feel guilty. She made Jagya feel guilty about himself. And it led to anandi giving a big bhashan to Jagya.

She knows how to treat people who are below par. Like Pooja and Sarita.

She knows how to be as cold as ice to dying people and their mothers.

She knows how to make her own son unhappy by hiding things from him in the name of saving him(or herself?), how to separate him from his friend. How many times mannu asked her and how many times she refused to answer.

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 10 years ago

ofcourse gang knows how 2 make mess of he rlife & oders just like Aji did/does.

she also knows how 2 unfrnd ppl just like Aji does. Aji unfrnd ganga by blaming & taunting ganga abt telling of truths 2 their kids.

yes she also knows how 2 make ppl feel guilty just like Aji does. Aji made guilty both JaGan 1st by throwing on ganga's face abt JaGan's convo & taunting abt telling the truth 2 their kids as per their conevenience.

then Aji made J guilty by questioning him his luv & care 4 his wife.

ganga knows how 2 treat ppl who r below par just like Aji does. Aji did it 2 ganga whom she think shes below par by saying 2 DS that i shud move out of BH so that J can listen 2 his wife than me means she thinks shes so high that oders husband's r giving importance 2 her over their wife

and ganga was cold 2 bimla & ratan. 😲wen did it show??if she did then Aji also did. din't she was also cold 2 ratan & bimla wen she saw them.

if ganga wud'd been cold 2 dying prsn & their mothers then she wudn't consoled bimla by taking her 2 sit on the bench nor she wud'd given ratan treatment herself. rather she wud'd left hin dying or handed over him under sumoder doc's guidance.

yes ganga knows how 2 make her own daughter unhappy just like Aji does.

Aji made nandini unhappy for 11yrs by taking her 2 dangerous spot wid her & then not following cops instructions 2 stay far away.how many times Aji'd seen the danger in such places.

and why shudn't ganga separate his frnd from mannu if shes distracting him from his studies.

i used 2 think ur posts hav logic & r unbiased but now it luks from past few months its opposite. and just a twisting of facts of the serial.

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Awfulggt

@Awfulggt

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Posted: 10 years ago

God gifted her with an unimaginable life from nothing to everything. Something she could never ever dream of and this is what she makes of it. Whatever she's facing now is the result of her own doings.

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 10 years ago

ofcourse God gifted 2 her from nothing 2 everything bcoz she deserved it. it was who worked hard 2 make gud life 4 her. unlike sum1 who got it widout any hard work on her own.

watever now that sum1 is facing is bcoz of result of her own doings also.

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Prophet_

@Prophet_

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Posted: 10 years ago

Ganga is the classic example for people with low self esteem and inflated ego.
When people like her gets success , it makes them , arrogant, insensitive and ungrateful.

On the other hand people with high self esteem and healthy ego behaves just opposite when they gets success. It makes them more humble, responsible , grateful and sensitive towards other's feelings.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

Ganga makes a big mess by not going to the root of the problem.She is totally responsible for the mess her life is today.

Anandi specifically wanted to know if Ganga would have problems with her shift to BH.She said no she will not have problems but she started having problems didn't open her mouth about them instead she took to taunting Anandi at every opportunity she got and giving her cold shoulder.

She did not like Jagya and Dsa constant references to Anandi in every conversation they had.But did she tell them that it is bothering her ? No. Instead she accused her husband of wanting to get back to Anandi

Telling Mannu about his biological father - she didn't want to do that instead she said if Anandi can't bring herself to tell Shivam about Nandini why should she be made to reveal about Ratan to Mannu she entered into imaginary competition instead of figuring out how best to tell this to Mannu

She thinks Pooja is a distraction to Mannu but what does she do? She lies to Pooja and then barges into their home and bullies them. Why can't she tell in strict no nonsense manner that she wants Mannu to keep away from Pooja? The way she handled this infact told how Ganga uses the power she got through her education and her marriage. Classic case of the saying power corrupts.

Ratan Issue - She punished him for all that he had done but still tries to prevent him from meeting his son just once before he dies. Why? Because she can't forget how he snatched her baby from her. But didn't she already punish him for that? Didn't he relinquish his rights? Then what makes her so hard hearted towards him?

When she was making a place for herself in the home and hearts of Singhs Anandi's advice was welcomed and comparisons were appreciated but when Anandi comes to BH as a daughter of the family she resents her presence and behaves as if Anandi is stealing something that belongs to her.

The problems may be real but her handling it is wrong that probably is because of her basic nature.

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hisusmita

@hisusmita

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Posted: 10 years ago

Her son also noticed that his mother's behaviour was rude towards Anandi.

So now he thinks his mother is the reason for Anandi's exit from BH

Very poor handling of everything.

When DS and Anandi was happily discussing about anything she was sad why she was not asked to participate.

Why is she a guest? If she feels it is her house she sould come and participate

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

Forget about others. they have their own lives good or bad.
She made her husband sad. First by accusing him and then not listening to what he said. she made him an outsider. And with mannu. She could not handle the situation as she went on postponing until the last moment and then expected mannu to fall in line without protest.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: hisusmita
Her son also noticed that his mother's behaviour was rude towards Anandi.
So now he thinks his mother is the reason for Anandi's exit from BH

Very poor handling of everything.

When DS and Anandi was happily discussing about anything she was sad why she was not asked to participate.

Why is she a guest? If she feels it is her house she sould come and participate

They were just sitting and discussing and sharing about how their day went by. What stopped her from joining them? Even people who live in hostels share with their fellow hostelers about their day at work.

She could have joined them but was expecting an invitation like she is a guest.

If she felt like an outsider in her own among her family members then there is something wrong with her.

Ganga feels her life is empty despite having everything and Anandi is happy with what ever little she got and content wth the memories of a life which will never revisit her and not only content but draws strength from it.

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Aji is classic e.g of wen ppl got everything on platter & don't've 2 do much hard work. such ppl bcum arrogant & egositic & interfering trouts causing troubles in oders lives.

on the oder hand ppl who'd gone thru much more harsh realities bcum successful, remain down 2 earth & non-interfering in oder's lives while having their own POVs.

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