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Posted: 10 years ago
#41
Why so much discussion on Mannu's reactions???
If a grown man like Shiva was shattered on knowing the truth about his parentage toh Mannu toh abhi bhi baccha hai
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Discussions because different people are thinking differently about the situation. It is about our perception of situation and persons and reasons for their reactions. Like I think Shiv was shattered not because he is not Alok- Ira's son but because the truth was hidden from him and various attempts by Alok and Meenu to suppress the truth even then. He was mature enough to understand if he was told. Still he did not leave his parents and went to his aunt/friend etc.
Creatives need drama and make situations over dramatic - thats why the death and revelation on Mannu's birthday. But to expect a level headed child to start hating his parents (even if temporarily) because they hid the truth. He should be devastated, confused, angry etc. but hating the parents and running away from home is not expected from a mature child like Mannu.

If creatives think like this is the only reaction when a long hidden truth is revealed, then we will see several episodes in future like this because all the characters have secrets (BV is a big khichadi of relationships) and the truth is hidden from children. Now it appears that may be the reason they did not disclose about J and Anandi marriage to Abhi and Shivam - they can use it in future.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If a mature sensible level headed guy who is much older thrown off balance and he will recover much earlier with much less damage
How can a teenager be expected to display same level of maturity and understanding as thirty year old?

Shiv was a married man when he got to know about it he emotionally retreated from his family even if he didn't move from home and he just clung to only one relationship he was sure of at that time and that was his wife.

Mannu is a kid he is displaying the same thing in a more obvious manner and his reaction is more like the child of his age.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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i agree Puja Creatives are just being idiotic they need drama They have destroyed this track They could show it without this misunderstanding part

Mannu was introduced as sensible boy who cleared so many misunderstandings of his younger brother He suddenly became so irrational ?He is approx 16 years old now when his parents have never done wrong to him , given him unconditional love how he can start hating them ?Blaming them now as per spoiler he is going to insult Jagya ? Really how he can so rude to Jagya One fine day he comes to know Jagya is not his biological father Ratan was his father He has rejected Jagya as his father 😡what cvs want to prove through this track that no person should adopt other's child as his own Give him unconditional love Treat him like your child because when he will come to know you are not his biological father he will start insulting you and reject you as his parent 😡even its temporary track its not done 👎🏼Disappointed with BV creative team They could show Mannu angry and upset but stop this nonsense of him insulting his parents when they have never even scolded him Jagya has always shown great trust and pride in Mannu and this reward he is getting from Mannu for his unconditional love for him 🤢

BV cvs are just sadist social message gaya tail lene they have only make leads suffer

Edited by maria13 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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No one is saying Mannu should not be shattered This is life changing truth for Mannu He will be shattered , angry , frustrated any mature person will be even shiv was He was so older to Mannu but a 15-16 years old boy knows difference between right and wrong Mannu is not some hot headed immature boy He was introduced as very sensible boy who made his younger brother see his father's love when he was living in misunderstandings He made him see how wrong he is to think like this so today him hating his parents Insulting same father Thats so unexpected from him


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Teenagers are sensitive lot.
They know what is right and what is wrong but at that age there is no grey for them every thing is black and white and no in between. But this also the age where they put people on pedestals if they they are good and they are thrown off the pedestals by them very easily too.

He may be sensible guy but right now his world turned upside down he obviously doesn't know what he is doing he is disturbed.

How fast he bounces back is what defines him

Don't think he should be judged by his behaviour at this point but he should be judged by how much time it takes for him to come back to his senses
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Teenagers are sensitive but not all teenagers behave same way The ones who are sensible they remain sensible i have seen teenagers hot headed too i have seen teenagers mature too Mannu was a sensible boy as well Mannu's world is turned upside down no one blames him on being shattered he can even be angry upset but being rude to his parents and rejecting them then he will be criticized for it He is doing wrong and he should be ashamed of it He will bounce back everyone knows but when after hurting his parents fully ? How much he will be ashamed of himself later he totally deserves that i personally won't feel sad for him when he will be ashamed or guilty later because giving himself into misunderstandings and turning blind to his parents unconditional love thats his mistake

This truth has been life changing to Mannu does not mean it gave him right to insult his parents That parents who has always given him unconditional love He has been raised like a prince In BH What was not given to him ?where Jagya Ganga Dadisaa give him less love ?so accusing and insulting his parents He is not justified in that One day its going to be he who will be ashamed and guilty and ask forgiveness touching feet of same parents He better be

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Posted: 10 years ago
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i saw in sbs that bimla was leaving with ratan asthi and mannu comes and hugs her and then she leaves so i think bimla will go back to her place and after that mannu will become more aggressive and decides to leave bh as said earlier.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shiv was upset that he had not been told and also because to what extent they went to hide the truth from him.
But Shiv's relationship with his two sets of parents did change completely till the end he was trying to balance his relationship with both the couples and was completely torn between them

Going by the precap even Mannu was upset that they hid so many things from him and he was quite sarcastic when he wondered what else they were hiding from him.

Would like to wait and see what made Mannu turn against Jagya.
He should be upset with his mother/parents for hiding the truth but shouldn't have turned against Jagya because of this particular reason.




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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

The grown up Mannu was shown as rational, mature thinking child. The way he shouldered responsibility to counsel Abhi clearly shows that he is very level headed. It is not expected from such a mature child to leave home howsoever angry he is with his parents. Abhi or Shivam doing this could still be understandable because so far they are not very mature. He will receive a big shock - but he could have deduced something hearing Bimla's words - he was already in thinking mode when he reached BH.

That is why I expect creatives to show realistic track. Children do leave home - but they are hot headed, immature nature children. Leaving parents and going to Anandi will be like - leave the valley and jump into well (kuan aur khai)...


It is sometimes very easy to counsel others but when it comes to self, even the most sensible people lose their ground.

How can counselling abhi over petty kids fights be same as accepting a harsh truth about his own birth? If abhi had a different father, would mannu be able to counsel him? No... this was a very sensitive issue which his own mother could not reveal to him for years.

How can the boy be expected to be mature and accept it with grace?

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