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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: hisusmita

Of course Mannu knows that Anandi too knows about Ratan , but its not Anandi's duty to tell him.

All these days people were telling if Anandi would have taken care of Abhi and Mannu when Ganga was out for her medical studies they would have much attached to Anandi. Nothing like that has been shown.

May be becoz of that😆😉

Though I dont want anyone except Nandini and Shivam to be close to Anandi

Still don't understand why Mannu would consider Anandi also responsible for keeping the secret from him.
He was only angry and upset with his family for not letting him know about it.For long he thought Anandi was his massi then he got to know that she is not his mother's sister but his father's ex wife.He seemed to have adjusted to the fact that she is not part of his family in the real sense.
So obviously he won't expect Anandi to tell him or won't be upset with her like he would be with his parents.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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if Anandi is not part of his family why he is going to her ?🤔
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mahi12

if Anandi is not part of his family why he is going to her ?🤔

may be he is going to Pooja but cannot stay with her but stays with Anandi but i don't understand why he will go Anandi in anyway

The point is the great Anandi her highness the great queen noble soul was staying with his family She is not most trust worthy person for him either if he holds his parents and Dadisaa responsible for hiding business from him Anandi herself did not tell him either i am not asking she should have told Mannu about this she had no right but i am talking from Mannu's POV of course Mannu does not understand this why they did not tell me he is only angry they did not tell me and lOl people are saying Mannu accepted she was not part of his family thats why she could not tell me if he can think so much then why he leaves his parents Can't he think they can have some reasons too but right now he is acting emotional He is not thinking anything but only this they cheated me Hid from me so why the great Anandi maasi is not cheater for him Anandi stayed with him for 11 years telling him she is his maasi Mother's elder sister which she is not Anandi maasi still comes and goes in the house and her reaction to Ratan was same as of other's yesterday so why he will go to her


it can be possible he is going to his darling pooja but he cannot stay with her so Anandi is an excuse for him to stay closer to Pooja His only healer now but this nonsense he will go to Anandi who was involved in this hiding business as per Mannu's POV He leaves Makhan kaka too He could stay with him Makhan Kaka too became truth hider from him then how Anandi the false maasi of Mannu is most truthful person???
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Posted: 10 years ago
#34
Did Anandi go to the hospital? I missed that part.😕 Thanks all for this information.

I mean I saw her get up and accompany Jagya and DadiSa for a little distance, but did not actually see her get into the car or inside the hospital. Will watch episode again online.
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Anandi and Mannu have stayed together in BH for 11 years and all these years he has considered her to be his Maasi, i.e. His mom's sister. This is one of the closest relations a child can have after that of his parents.

Just by telling him one day that she is not related to you but it is Bimla who is your grandmother, Mannu is not going to reject his 11 year long bond with Anandi and embrace Bimla as his grandmother. Bonds take time to form.

It is the comfort level that he has built with Anandi over the years that gives him the familiarity to go to her given his anger and hurt towards his parents.

And in this fragile mental condition, it is better he go to Anandi rather than roam around on the streets like a vagabond.

Am sure we will see something of Mannu's state of mind in the coming episodes.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The grown up Mannu was shown as rational, mature thinking child. The way he shouldered responsibility to counsel Abhi clearly shows that he is very level headed. It is not expected from such a mature child to leave home howsoever angry he is with his parents. Abhi or Shivam doing this could still be understandable because so far they are not very mature. He will receive a big shock - but he could have deduced something hearing Bimla's words - he was already in thinking mode when he reached BH.
That is why I expect creatives to show realistic track. Children do leave home - but they are hot headed, immature nature children. Leaving parents and going to Anandi will be like - leave the valley and jump into well (kuan aur khai)...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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He got the biggest shock of his life.Even sensible adults wont be in a rational thinking mode if their world turns upside down like the way Mannu's did. How is expected to think rationally?

He is just angry upset with his parents and he wanted some time to sort out issues. Why only hot headed kids even mature sensible kids do need sometime to themselves in these kinds of insyances.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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His parents, great grand mother etc. did not tell him that he is not his bapusa's child. And he just saw a person die and was informed that that person was in fact his father - his mother's first husband. Is it such a big thing that he will leave home? By now he knows that BH people did hide many things - as J may have told him that he was not told about J and Anandi's marriage because he was too young to understand. And he understood this and did not tell Abhi about this. So now - cant he understand that so far he was too young to understand that this is not his mother's first marriage and he is the son of her first husband. Same problem may come with a child who has been adopted at a very young age (say one year like how Mannu was when he came to BH) and has called someone as his father/mother since he started speaking. There cannot be a perfect age to tell children about these things. And if the parents delayed telling the child for whatever reason - is it such a big thing that the child will leave home? Children leave home when the parents are too cruel, when they fail in exam etc. or some hot headed children over small differences with parents.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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He just got to know that the man who died is his father and the man who was raising him is not his father . He got to know that when his mother asked him to perform last rites that the man is his father.
This is not big enough to disturb Him?

What is it so difficult to understand that he needs time to digest all these things and need time for himself?


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

He got the biggest shock of his life.Even sensible adults wont be in a rational thinking mode if their world turns upside down like the way Mannu's did. How is expected to think rationally?

He is just angry upset with his parents and he wanted some time to sort out issues. Why only hot headed kids even mature sensible kids do need sometime to themselves in these kinds of insyances.


True Aparna.

I remember that an adult, very mature Shiv too got a shock when he learnt that Alok and Ira were not his parents. He went far away from home to collect his thoughts. Anandi had to go looking for him and give him moral support. She found him in wilderness sittling forlorn on a rock.

Mannu too just needs time to process all the new information he is being bombarded with.

He is a level headed child and eventually will come to terms with reality. Until then if he gets some moral support and a sounding board, it will do him good.

Good that Anandi has accompanied them to the hospital.😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Don't think bimla will have any role to play from now on. It is understandable for mannu to go to anandi. She is the only familiar person he's known in his life other than his parents and ds . I think trusting is a big word for a kid this age. And I don't think he'll go to anandi cause he trusts her. He would go just because he hates his parents at the moment and wants to be away from them and this is the only place he could go as he knows her like a family member since he was a baby. Whatever he does would only be a reaction to the situation and not any wise decision taken after deep thinking.
Obviously bimla wouldn't even be an option to him. She can't turn out to be his beloved grandmother all of a sudden and he can't go and stay at her home. She's still a stranger to him.

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