Let things come out in the open - Page 2

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anandi clearly said that though Dsa thinks of her as beti the past between J and her can't be brushed away. She may not see him as a husband material nor she may not ever want to go back to him but she did say that Ganga may have problems with her staying.

Ganga knew her husband just fall short of worshipping the ground on which Anandi walks and he would love to see his wife have some qualities of Anandi then what changed for her?

Why can't she tell her husband that she can't be Anandi nor does can be like Anandi and he has to accept her as Ganga?

Because he will not accept it. How he cuts away ganga everytime she broaches this.

Ganga is human and she vents her frustration and I dont fault her for this.

Anandi cannot understand these things unless she is told directly or indirectly.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

But here Anandi is not holding grudges against Ganga or Jagya so why should she be faulted?

Why should it always be Anandi? Why can't Ganga look inside her and why can't Jagya look inside him?

Who says anandi is holding gurdges? I am talking about my sisters who are ordinary human beings with their own faults.

Because anandi is the protagonist and we expect her to do things.

How will Anandi know that he compares her and his wife constantly and expects her to be just like his first wife?

Originally posted by: aparnauma

How will Anandi know that he compares her and his wife constantly and expects her to be just like his first wife?

To outisders their marriage looks like a normal one with a few differences here and there which are complicated by lack of time and communication gap,

That's how Anandi and Dsa see this issue between Jagya and his wife.

Now she came to know.

A normal woman would have understood these things long back. The situation was such a nonsensical one. Ex wife and present wife staying together.

though ganga did mistake by doubting jagya character but ateast ganga is not egoistic she is not dominating to jagya and toward his family she does not create drama .regarding ganga marrying to jagya jt is her personal choice .and she has every right to take decision in her personal matter

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Now she came to know.

A normal woman would have understood these things long back. The situation was such a nonsensical one. Ex wife and present wife staying together.

I think any normal woman. Even if I am wrapped up with my kids, I know what is normal and what is not so normal situation and I wont go and stay with a married couple just because they said yes. Especially if one of them is my Ex. Even if I stay for a couple of months or days as the case maybe, I will make arrangements to stay somewhere else.

Is she living with the couple or is she living with her grandmother?

Not at the mercy but with them. With dadisa or without dadisa. It does not make difference or change equations. Is anandi not sitting at the same dining table or is she sitting with dadisa separately?
Is not Shivam and Abhi are fighting most of the time? Is not ganga and anandi are cooking together?

It is not only dadisa and there are others too.

My question why it has to be only from Anandi's side?