Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Jagya and anandi and ganga are comfortable with one another. there is no awkwardness between them. Even Jagya reminiscing is from a comfort level that nothing can change their present day equation. If Ganga can tolerate anandi's physical presence on a daily basis, Jagya reminiscing wont make any difference. Here I must applaud Ganga.
Shivam can connect with Jagya too as Jagya is so nice to Shivam. It should be like Nandu Jagya relationship. I dont understand why Abhimanyu and Shivam are portrayed as antagonists? I want to see Jagya and Shiv type of relationship or friendship between them.
Anandi will never forget Shiv. She sees Shiv in everything that is good and just. She may not be that expressive now but I dont think she will ever forget even his fraction of memories.
Jagya Shiv - type relationship didn't happen straight away - It started off on a wrong note and only because of Shiv's respect for Dsa and Singhs made Shiv to reach out to Jagya in between all these there was a teeny weeny bit of insecurity in Shiv when he saw Anandi's concern towards J and once he was very sure of all the equations he became comfortable with J
And of course Anandi showed him in many ways how her feelings for him were so different as when compared to what she feels towards J. A lot of work went into making Jagya and Shiv relationship - how can we forget how Jagya tried to ruin Shiv's career Anandi's life with Shiv tried to get her to break off with Shiv and marry him?
So it is unrealistic to expect Abhimanyu Shivam bonding - There may be rivalry simply because J is soft towards Shivam out of compassion for that fatherless displaced child and Abhimanyu may take it as his father liking Shivam more.
Ganga also in order to keep Abhimanyu in check seems to indulge Shivam
All these things do matter.
All said and done I'd rather see Shivam taking his OWN father as an inspiration and may be J helping the boy become like the man that his OWN father had been.If at all they want to show how selfless friendship can be they can show Jagya helping Shivam to be a son a man like Shiv would be proud of.
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Anandi Shiv relationship - Yes Anandi wouldn't ever forget Shiv and she may not express them like we as a viewers who have seen this beautiful relationship evolve with time and how it got better and better.
CVs did invest a lot to showcase this relationship and this is the kind of relationship and the love that went into building this would not fade away but it does become a huge source of strength even after the death of one partner.That's how it happens in real life too.
I have seen this kind of marriage in real life too.Yes the surviving partner did not cry or spent all the time remembering the dead spouse and instead got busy raising her children but all her own happiness came from those memories she had of her husband and she used to work hard to give the kind of life her husband would have given to their children.
This is what we would expect to see in case of Anandi and Shiv love story and their marriage.
Anandi is not the type to ignore her duties and wallow in her past but there should be a way to show that love amounts to something in her life.
Otherwise it just feels like the only thing that her husband contributed to her life was the twins.
We know it was not like that and a marriage is not just for the sake of producing kids but it is about sharing and comapnionship too which could be shown very well through Anandi wanting to share her happiness worries and sadness regarding their children with her husband who is not there physically
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