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Muktchand

@Muktchand

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Posted: 10 years ago

#51

CV always does this earlier they never show Anandi vocal about her feeling towards Shiv

its always understatement finally they came up with unique idea Drug drama through DB where finally one can see Anandi's mind heart soul is only for Shiv 😳 nothing comes in her mind except Shiv 😆 for that she needs be drugged 😈 😡

same here Anandi remembering Shiv talk about him miss him not shown I am sure Writer will show with their unique way 😈

I think CV showing Anandi is on guilt trip of loosing Nandini due to her. Hence ...but Anandi being in BH is totally 🤬 move by CV

can't wait Nandini unites with Anandi Shivam Amol all went back to KB. Anandi may be thinks since due to her she loose Nandini for Shivam its better to be with DS Family even its most awkward

staying in Ex house is nothing new for Indian daily soap though 😆

Edited by blushing - 10 years ago

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Memories of Jagya have no significance in her life except likening them to Nandini's life at present as balikavadhu.

So true this memories of Jagya are nothing to do with Jagya but more linked with the state of her mind at that time.

Way back when J left her for G when she is still not over him she used to miss him and remember him.

Then she moved on.All her memories of happy times came back when Shiv entered her life and was trying to charm her and win her heart simply because of all th nice things taht Shiv was doing to make her feel special reminded her of those times when she last felt that way and also because she was trying to close the gates against Shiv by reminding herself that all these things do not mean anything a man can make you feel special and still leave you.It was her way of trying to resist Shiv.Shiv patiently worked his way into her heart and mind that the moments of happiness that he gave her pushed J way back into her mind.

Then memories of the bad times her marriage with Jagya came up simply because she just found out that her baby is tied up in child marriage and that filled with dread and that is what has made her determined to fight it all over again and more importantly gave her a direction to her life which was so lacking till now.

The memories of pleasant time with J were not because she still loved him nor the memories of her nightmare that her marriage with J had not come because she hates him - those were just memories of her feelings that she experienced in those past moments.

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Now with Nandini disappearing from her life she obviously can't be happy and content and remember the times she spent with Shiv.

Had that not happened she would have been bringing up all three children and remembering her times with Shiv since she had been doing quite okay for herself till Nandini was taken away from her.

From content wife she would have been a well adjusted young widow who found solace in her husband's love if Nandini had not been kidnapped.

There is no problem if the CVs want to redefine JA friendship a relationship and a friendship which should have been as pure and innocent as their childhood had been if not for Bal Vivah spoiling it.

But they shouldn't be showing in such a way that it looks like JA relationship is taking the place of Anandi Shiv relationship.

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jayshree1942

@jayshree1942

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Posted: 10 years ago

#53

Really Jagya remembering her holi with anandi is too bad. And one more thing cant Anandi being mother understand the emotional battle within his son.

She should shift to some other place for the sake of his son.

Because i really feel in future Abhimanyu will raise question against anandi and jagya relation,

even somewhere i felt he insulted anandi yesterday but

dadisa is not understanding this , she is not understanding respect of anandi.

I feel in future Abhimanyu is really going to insult Anandi badly.

What anandi did to find nandini? she is busy in her social work and just saying one day i will find u ?

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#54

The viewers addiction to Saas Bahu dramas is the main culprit.

Saas Bahu Sagas are the QUEEN OF ALL MALADIES.😛

In their attempt to make it appealing to larger section of viewers every story has to be told in the format of family drama and Saas bahu Saga.

In all that Anandi's character landed nowhere.

They gave her dreams aspirations, brains intelligence capabilities and courage to voice her opinions daringness to the right thing and yet they wanted her to the obedient bahu and ideal patni whose life and world revolved around her husband and sasrewale so as to connect with the girl next door.

Most of the times they did succeed in getting the right balance but now it is looking really bad.

On one side they want to show that a man and woman who have been husband and wife in the past can be good friends and well wishers and can support each otther and to show that message - they made Anandi move in with her ex in LAWS in the most regressive manner.

They made it seem like a single mother cannot cope on her own and that too they made Anandi feel so inadequate under confident about her mothering skills that she would believe what ever Dsa and Daddu will tell her.

One hand she is oppressed by her family and on the other hand they make her fight for thsoe people who cannot fight for themselves.

For how long they will show Anandi this way?

Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#55

Anandi might have made a mistake leading to Nandini's kidnap. But that does not take away her motherhood or make her a very bad mother. Shiv also almost forgot a handicapped Amol. Did that make him less of a father?

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#56

A defence mechanism to come out of loss is to block certain feelings or moments.If Nandini also died like Shiv, that same mechanism would have been used to protect oneself from depression.

I lost my father who I loved very dearly above everyone else. The only way I could and can come out of depression due to that loss is to block him from my memories as much as possible. I avoid seeing the photos too.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
A defence mechanism to come out of loss is to block certain feelings or moments.If Nandini also died like Shiv, that same mechanism would have been used to protect oneself from depression.

I lost my father who I loved very dearly above everyone else. The only way I could and can come out of depression due to that loss is to block him from my memories as much as possible. I avoid seeing the photos too.

True. Blocking out certain feelings and memories is a way to come out of loss.

But also as time goes by one learns to live with that loss .That void can never be filled but you learn to bear that emptiness and go on with your life that doesn't make one's love for the departed person any less.

You lose husband you have children to take care of you miss your husband but you don't give yourself the time to spend time with those memories simply because you have duties towards others who are dependent on you.

Here Anandi does have a lot on her plate bringing up Amol and Shivam then Nandini occupying her thoughts constantly because she doesn't know what state she is in and she still has not given up searching for Nandini and also the guilt feeling wrt to her disappearance from her life keep her fully occupied and don't allow her to think about herself.

If and when she thinks about herself only then she will remember Shiv.Where does she think about herself?

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#58

So in a way this is realistic - but they can show when she spends some moments of togetherness with Shivam it would be nice to see her remembering Shiv and how much he would have loved to be tehre with them.

Let us see. In today's episode or tomorrow's they may show that.

Losing a dear one is double tragedy. One is losing him or her. The other is to live with that loss forever. There are crores of people out there but the one person who you love is not there.There is a ocean but it will not quench the thirst.

Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#59

In some persons, pain turns into anger. Anger against others, anger against oneself.

In some, it turns into a determination not to give up.

In some it turns into empathy for others who also undergo pain.

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#60

Originally posted by: aparnauma
The viewers addiction to Saas Bahu dramas is the main culprit.
Saas Bahu Sagas are the QUEEN OF ALL MALADIES.😛

In their attempt to make it appealing to larger section of viewers every story has to be told in the format of family drama and Saas bahu Saga.

In all that Anandi's character landed nowhere.

Really, is it viewers' demand to see Saas bahu saajish or makers' inability to think beyond saas bahu drama?

I thought Ekta kapoor's serials started making loss due to over dose of saas-bahu.

I thought people found BV unique and interesting because it did not have Saas bahu.

I clearly remember people showing displeasure with the entries of negative characters like saanchi and DB

I clearly remember people applauding Anandi for both physically and virtually slapping Jagya for his misdeeds, choosing to make someone out of herself in adversities and finally living blissfully with a man like Shiv.

So technically, what exactly suggests that people (viewers) like meek leads, and want to see Saas bahu drama only?

It is ok, if some section of viewers find Anandi's actions justified and can make sense out of the current story line, but that does not generalise that people are interested in Saas bahu saga and complicated relationships only.

It's simple: Makers cannot think beyond saas bahu and they do not want to end their show which had come to it's logical end way back. So they are continuing the show even with illogical tracks. As long it works commercially well, they will go ahead with it.

Let's not blame viewers to justify creatives' inabilities.

Edited by Missesha - 10 years ago

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