Now what?

Now i wonder whom will Shiv call 'Ma'?...after knwing the truth it will hard to call Meenu 'Chotima' but it would also look bad to call Ira 'Badi Ma'...and what about all other relations?...Singhs will become direct samdhees of Anup-Meenu and not Ira-Alok...What do you think will happen next?

Lol the ma part is so confusing but as CM gave away Shiv for Ira and Ira loves Shiv more than her life (As much as i know) , Shiv should resume calling them maa and chotima respectively ...

let him cal both as maa... both will be happy no prbs for anyone

Shiv will always consider ira as his mother but meenu won't have this closeness.

eagarly waiting for the episode wen shiv hugs minu by calling her maa.. from many years she had kept her feelings herself... i think now its the time to expload & to express her mother love for her beta which has been hidden for nearly 30 years...but feels very bad for ira

"janam dene se bada palne wala hota h"...so ira is more close to shiv...

Originally posted by: angelic8219

Shiv will always consider ira as his mother but meenu won't have this closeness.

He should continue calling Ira Maa and Meenu Chotimaa, afterall for all these years he has been calling her Maa, so if now if he suddenly switches to 'badimaa' after knowing the truth of his birth, it would be insensitive.

It is not so bad for Shiv and Meenu. But th e biggest victim here is Ira. Shiv and Meenu had heirIf i were Ira,i would like to leave that house and go some where else away from them all.

Ira has not been more of a paalne wali in Shiv's case and neither did CM disappear after giving birth to Shiv. CM was very much involved in his upbringing and shared his concerns. He was able to confide more in CM than ever to Ira.

I feel CM deserves to be called "maa" by Shiv. Why can't he call Ira mom and CM as maa? No need of prefixes.

Shiv will try to balance between both. But I don't think onus is on him to balance or ensure who's sidelined or not. It's their problem. Not his.

I'd comment more on treatment CM or Ira deserve when backstory is out and real reason for CM giving away her son is out. If she volunteered to give away Shiv herself then she deserves less sympathy because she relinquished that right herself in her mahaanta. If she was EBed and pressurised by Alok then all kicks for that idiot and sympathy for CM (but still question of her sharing this info with Anup matters. If she did not tell this to him or take his consent then again less sympathy for her).

Ira - I feel bad for her. But it's Alok's job to handle her. He didn't want to handle her earlier which is why he did this thing. But he must take responsibility now followed by CM.

Anandi will have to mad women to work on in KB - that mother-daughter duo.

BH people have seen bigger scandals than this so issue for them. They can secretly relax that Anandi has sensible Meenu as her saas and not that haughty Ira ji, neither she has that mad Sanchi as her real SIL. That dhamki dene wale maa beti are distant and need not be given undue influence. Sumitra will regret doing "Ira ji Ira ji" even more. They'll also get over their inferiority complex in front of Shekhars as they slowly find out this family is no less crazy and scandalous as theirs. 😆 BH wale can offer psychiatric treatment at their multi-speciality hospital in Jetsar to Ira and Sanchi. 😉