Anandi vs the inlaws - Page 9

If she tells the truth, she'll just be doing herself a favor by not lying. J needs no more favors fm her to live n breathe !
Ganga was his rescue, he saved her, gave her mental n physical strength.

Anandi has not demonstrated good intentions in jagan case so far. She keeps silent abt some very intense stuff n goes overboard with other.

I'd rather she stay away fm BH if she leaves KB.

Originally posted by: hooked

If she tells the truth, she'll just be doing herself a favor by not lying. J needs no more favors fm her to live n breathe !
Ganga was his rescue, he saved her, gave her mental n physical strength.

Anandi has not demonstrated good intentions in jagan case so far. She keeps silent abt some very intense stuff n goes overboard with other.

I'd rather she stay away fm BH if she leaves KB.

Anandi had already done many "favours" to Jagya. She does not consider it favour. But fact is Jagya is indebted to her for life. She saved his life in childhood, she convinced DS to let him go to Mumbai and study medicine, she saved him from jail when she refused to file case against him during Gauri track. She has done way too much for him - and Singhs, which they cannot repay for lifetime.

She has every right to come to BH if she wants. But she is strong enough not to come there. Still, as I told in previous post, Singhs (JaGan included) will themselves bring her or help her if they learn she is out of KB. This is how their relationship is.

What intentions? She did tell Shiv he could not file case like this. She did tell him about bribery issue of Sanchi.

Did she not answer Ganga's call and give her some assurance?

Earlier, did she not keep helping Ganga? Or lashed at Sumitra for letting her leave the house in middle of the night?

What Anandi did in past, or what she did later or what she will do now - will be her own decisions.

I am not saying she will do "favour" by telling truth in court.

I am only saying that if a person has done so much then it is imperative to feel indebted to him/her - that Singhs do! And even Jagya acknowledges it!

kools i will go one more step ahead
I don t want A becomes main factor to save Jagya sigh cbs have developed this track in such a way that Ganga cannot be main factor
I would prefer Ganga otherwise for saving jagya by finding clues on her own
can t they give her such a strong track that would make her value in front of sings also and common nurse beating collector
i would be crazy to see that kinda ego hurt of shiv my one dreamy wish

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Skep let me put it this way

I am not saying she has no right over that house .

I am not saying she has not done enough for that family to last for a lifetime .

I am saying she shouldn't coz now things will be ODD . Formerly it was just the family minus an errant Jagya

now it will be Jagya AND his wife

and really the picture of Jagya smiling with 2 women knowing his habits will be NAUSEOUS .

Or if she goes there first before they r reaccepted

it will delay their ACCEPTANCE as once more the Singhs will be full of her and her problems

its NOT a new story dear .

Also

i don't want as a viewer for HER to mediate for JAGAN's acceptance

i want Singhs to value Ganga on her own merit .

u see this track will have no self respect for Anandi . Her going to Khajan , doing higher studies will .

I didn't say this coz i dislike her ...i feel that they should show development on a WHOLE level .

Well this thing has not yet happened now. So there is no need to debate at length about it.

Regarding Singhs, they were dragging Anandi's name even when they would praise Ganga before marriage. Anandi's being there or not, won't change their behaviour. I mean, they will do what they have to do.

Acceptance? Everyone except Sumitra has basically accepted JaGan. DS also favours them even if she has not yet expressed it. Anandi herself accepts them. She was in fact first to accept them.

BTW, why are you so intent on Anandi leaving KB or being kicked out from there?😆 As if it is going to happen or it MUST happen?

Whatever that happens Anandi is wise and self respecting enough to know her limits around JaGan.

Regarding her mediation in acceptance of JaGan it depends on CVs. She was instrumental in supporting Ganga many times before JaGan fell in love also.

Though it will not be needed for her to interfere after Singhs and especially Sumitra see real face of Sanchi and devotion of Ganga in court and throughout this court case track.

Still if at all, her mediation will be needed it will only be to convince that Sumitra who's been using her name to peddle her own agenda in family.

Nothing wrong if she makes some things crystal clear to Sumitra. Others are already pro JaGan.

oh sure, hey no offense, but maybe u shld ask further questions n for more info before u shoot ur mouth off based on ur own assumptions!

fyi all my bhabis r in same country and all live togather in an extended family set up!

furthermore did u just assume i said boyfriend so there is no future plans involved? again ask before u comment, engagement n marriage plans r in d works, i also spend alot of time with his family!

saying im unmarried cld also be that i am divorced previously

these are my 2 points that i was trying to make .u can only speak for ur self and not for another person..

Also as I mentioned Being married and being in a relationship are two entirely different ball.marriage preparations is not equal to being married..

So u mentioned u are divorce so do you have this same opinion on ur ex in laws ?if u were treated as family then good for you...

Originally posted by: kritikakk

^^ that is ur point of view, but it is individual choice and for the parties involved in the relationship to decide just how much responsibility n contribution they make to their relationship and to the respective families on both sides!

being married by signing a piece of paper dsnt dictate what the couple's responsibilities are or how they carry it out!

really once again, try and ask for further info and gets some facts clear rather then to just assume!

I think your very confused.. and I did ask you a question which you just evaded and then u tell me ask further info..

Who is debating on family resposiblity...I can't understwnd wat ur trying to say..please read my post properly before you make confusing posts...

So u think marriage is just a paper ..and wat about physical intimacy which is exclusive of marriage ...I hope we havent become westernised ...

Originally posted by: kritikakk

^^ that is ur point of view, but it is individual choice and for the parties involved in the relationship to decide just how much responsibility n contribution they make to their relationship and to the respective families on both sides!

being married by signing a piece of paper dsnt dictate what the couple's responsibilities are or how they carry it out!

really once again, try and ask for further info and gets some facts clear rather then to just assume!

BTW, why are you so intent on Anandi leaving KB or being kicked out from there?😆 As if it is going to happen or it MUST happen?

Whatever that happens Anandi is wise and self respecting enough to know her limits around JaGan.