Anandi vs the inlaws - Page 12

fabulous!!!!

Originally posted by: hooked

Ganga is a struggler - she has come up to this level from absolute zero where she was beaten up and left for dead and her baby stolen from her.

She never had the love of parents or relatives or her in-laws. In addition she got raped, burnt, beaten, abused - had no funds and no education.

Despite that - this woman never gave up. She got lucky in being discovered by Jagya and brought to BH, kept faith and got her kid back. Agreed to study and worked hard and cleared exams. Despite not having ever stepped out of her house - found the courage to goto another city with a new language and do a career building course.

Yes - and in between - when her bum hubby came back to hurt BH - she had the guts to offer her only treasure in life - her beloved son - for the people who gave her hope and shelter.

And after that - she moved out of there HERSELF with her head held high even though she had a kid and no place to go on a rainy night.

Put up with and fought off a rapist on her new job. Divorced her scum of a husband. she has so much spirit !! so much courage !!

How can anyone not see her will to live and strive to make things better. There is so much HOPE in her eyes.

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Compare that with Aanndi who had loving parents - had education. In her saasra too - she had loving in-laws except DS (but Sumi and Bhairon wud adore her even if Ds was mean) and education here too.

Yes - at one point DS made her give up books, but she was loved by all and the entire village. Jagya was a loving husband to her. She does not know the fear of rape like Ganga does.

Yes - Jagya cheated on her. She moped for the longest time. But then too - she had choices - she cud go back to her parents place. She cud take Jagya to court, She cud let Bapusa punish him by cutting off his funds and making him see sense.

Anandi had choices. But she chose to be ever-forgiving, ever-pleasing, and ever-dukhi atma.

The Singhs did all they cud to cheer her up. they urged her to study more, be a doc, do things, the village chose her as Sarpanch, she got to run her own school and adult literacy capms. She got to remarry widows and what not. In Short - DS made up in every possible way to her for all her toughness earlier.

DS wangled for her the smartest guy she cud find and played cupid and got them married. Despite that - I have yet to see the hope that shines in Ganga's eyes - shine in Anandi's.

Ganga is happy about life. Anandi is forever scared of displeasing someone.

So how can anyone still think Ganga as a mere sidekick and Anandi as the main lead ?

Currently a brave Ganga is loads more interesting than a pathetic, confused, sorry Anandi.

Every body is talking about how Bairon willed all his property to A. This will is implemented only after his Death. He could change the will any time. At that time he willed it to A hoping J would come back to A At least for that and also in anger since he dis owned him. Now things are different. He can change The will not that Jagia cares for it. For now he is happy getting the love of the family.

@Hooked

This is with reference to your comparison post on Ganga and Anandi. I don't think Anandi was dukhi aatma after she became teacher, social worker and Sarpanch. Those episode are there for anyone to see how confident she was and how tactfully she would deal with those villagers who would take digs at her own broken marriage.

She was dukhi aatma for while as Jagya came back to meddle in her life as her marriage was happening to Shiv. Her mother had also passed away recently. But still she was fab in the way she gave it back to Sanchi who tried to taunt her in front of everyone at every ceremony.
Her happiness after she became comfortable with Shiv, knew no bounds and reflected from every pore.

So much so, that people were taking digs at her, how she and Shiv were eating around or having fun while other struggled even for redemption.

And before the Jagya-Gauri-Anandi triangle, Anandi was mostly happy, cheerful freespirit who cried only when she saw others in pain or was blasted by DS - both in her childhood and after leap.

She has been made dukhiyari only now as Sanchi-Ira drama has reached its peak.

Ganga has lot of strength and hope and I have myself said often, that her character - as it was introduced - had lot of potential. But she too has been made to cry often or seem anxious/nervous/sad/feeling empty. We can't say she has only shown strength and hope alone.

It's been a mix.

Since TRP aunties like loud weepy drama (with even the lead of a show like TMKOC shouting He maa! Mata ji! every now and then) leads are made to cry and original canvas of their character is left.

I also feel BV has habit of ruining one relationship, as they go to build another. Like they ruined Pratap-Sugna (killed the former) to make Shyam-Sugna, then caused problems in Shyam-Sugna, as JaAn were evolving into a couple, ruined JaAn to establish JaGa, ruined JaGa when they began to roll out AnSh, made JaGan slowly - only to have it ruined by SaJa, then finished SaJa, ruined AnSh to make JaGan. There's a pattern of sorts here...and it's weird!🤢 There is barely any peace and all couples intact at any point of time. For SaJa, they mauled Bhairon-Sumitra also.😡

agree with your post skep