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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anythng is posible in ths serial world.acord 2 me even jagya thrd mariage is also wrong wen he already slept wd two woman .nw after his redemption n realisation he desrve thrd chance than i vl say al the people pls do redemp and realisation u vl b welcmed by mahan ladies like ganga and anandi.anadi thrd mariage is posible if shiv character is butchurd n they cn do anythng 2 make their main lead mahan.wen it comes to social msg bv ended the concept of social with character jagia.jb b jao kisi ladki ko uthao karlo mandir m shadi.after his 21 phera even he dsnt knw whom he vl get next janam.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jan50

We have to learn a few things from the western world. People should not marry just for the sake of

Marrying . If having children is very important ,then yes. But luckily for humans there are other options.
Our Indian culture and middle east and african cultures have made complete slaves of women
In the name of great family values, stability of marriage etc. but western world where wonen have a
Much better status, people marry and stay in the marriage only if it suits them. If being single
Hels one to be more happy and productive they should do so.


It is not true, western world also has similar issues, in USA husbands are abusive too, and when the women breaks the marriage, all the kids responsibility goes to woman and men are free, they marry again and do the same thing. There are 60% singe mother in USA, they two 2-3 three jobs to take care, most of the kids are taken care by grandmother in African American society, and in other Americans there is no one to take care of kids, daycare in USA is very very expensive, our Asian people call there parents to take care of there kids.

What all you think about western world is not true, here on one side there is free sex society and other side the same society does not believe in abortion, contraceptive, condom etc.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: paljay


It is not true, western world also has similar issues, in USA husbands are abusive too, and when the women breaks the marriage, all the kids responsibility goes to woman and men are free, they marry again and do the same thing. There are 60% singe mother in USA, they two 2-3 three jobs to take care, most of the kids are taken care by grandmother in African American society, and in other Americans there is no one to take care of kids, daycare in USA is very very expensive, our Asian people call there parents to take care of there kids.

What all you think about western world is not true, here on one side there is free sex society and other side the same society does not believe in abortion, contraceptive, condom etc.


You are right my friend.

Independence in women comes with a cost i.e. EXTRA RESPONSIBILITY.
If a lady can not mingle up with husband, in-laws well or vice versa both parties should separate amicably rather than doing GHISA PITA rona dhona and wastage of time. And both parties should bear the consequences as well.

In western world not only men, but women too can go for second marriage with kids and this practice is well accepted.

I wont say people don't abuse each other there in U.K. or U.S.A.; as we all are human beings with animal instincts. However there single women are well accepted in society. If marriage does not work you have the financial, social support of system to stay on your own. I think that's every human being's born right.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalluuu

Anythng is posible in ths serial world.acord 2 me even jagya thrd mariage is also wrong wen he already slept wd two woman .nw after his redemption n realisation he desrve thrd chance than i vl say al the people pls do redemp and realisation u vl b welcmed by mahan ladies like ganga and anandi.anadi thrd mariage is posible if shiv character is butchurd n they cn do anythng 2 make their main lead mahan.wen it comes to social msg bv ended the concept of social with character jagia.jb b jao kisi ladki ko uthao karlo mandir m shadi.after his 21 phera even he dsnt knw whom he vl get next janam.

failed to understand this post The 21 pheras you are counting one was his child marriage ? Did he even know the meaning of marriage then ?Do you find it mahaan work for cvs to support child marriage 🤢and why the hell he should give Gaurri a chance That woman does not care even if lives or dies and he should be punished till eternity to do pooja of her WHY ? why person cannot get a chance to restart his life why he has to suffer in failed relationship doing aarti of a woman who does not care for even his Life ??...Really pity you think like this and BV has not ended neither its social message ended and the character is also very rightly going on if some haters cannot understand they will never understand Haters will talk like Haters
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Oh come on now...people are thinking of very far...it's true that things are getting out of hand for now but i don't think it's so bad that AnSh's marriage will break...marriages should break when both partners have not only lost faith on each other but also love...i don't see that happening yet...things will get back to normal and then just see how strong AnSh's relation gets...lok at Archana-Manav, Tulsi-Mihir or Ram-Priya...they are so favourite couples of T.V serials with whom story writers cannot afford to separate them permanently...luckily our AnSh is one of them...BV will have nothing left if AnSh get separated...btw i agree with one point that Anandi does lack in handling marriage relation well...but like some said AnSh's failed marriage will make all the trouble of sending the message of remarriage go in waste...Saanchi's drama holds few of the most important issues of our society
1) In-laws should starting giving respect and stop blaming their DIL for every small mistake.
2) We should be obedient towards our elders but also firm in taking control of our own life and their decisions...this all drama started because not only elder encouraged all this(Shekhars) but also they forced their children and tried to take control over their life(Singhs)
Edited by libsrocks - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks

Oh come on now...people are thinking of very far...it's true that things are getting out of hand for now but i don't think it's so bad that AnSh's marriage will break...marriages should break when both partners have not only lost faith on each other but also love...i don't see that happening yet...things will get back to normal and then just see how strong AnSh's relation gets...lok at Archana-Manav, Tulsi-Mihir or Om-Parvati...they are so favourite couples of T.V serials with whom story writers cannot afford to separate them permanently...luckily our AnSh is one of them...BV will have nothing left if AnSh get separated...btw i agree with one point that Anandi does lack in handling marriage relation well...but like some said AnSh's failed marriage will make all the trouble of sending the message of remarriage go in waste...Saanchi's drama holds few of the most important issues of our society

1) In-laws should starting giving respect and stop blaming their DIL for every small mistake.
2) We should be obedient towards our elders but also firm in taking control of our own life and their decisions...this all drama started because not only elder encouraged all this(Shekhars) but also they forced their children and tried to take control over their life(Singhs)


I hope you are right my friend.

I remember one sentence my mom told me when I started living in hostel for first time at the age of 15.
"There is nobody like a mother in this world my daughter. If you expect love and care you would be unhappy. Now its your time to live life tactfully"

The same is applicable for Anandi as well. The mother-in-laws would keep on blaming Bahus and love their daughters with partiality. That process would never end. It's high time she should learn how to tackle this truth of life.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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There is no system free from issues. But the nature of issues are different. In the western world
There is not that many social stigma against women or any one. People make mistakes but are forgiven and move on. They also were like what out Indian society s today where men dominated
And bused women. It still happens. But they are the ones who rebelled agaist it and took
Fredom for themselves. They say " freedom hasvto be aken. No body gives it to you on a platter".
The number of single mothers is a lot. Teenage pregnancy out o wed lock where they can not
Hold he biological father responsible becausevit is not clear who the father is. These are
Definitely the curse ofvthat society. But despite all that a woman can bring up a child or
Give in adoption and move on with her life without too much stigma.
But India at least in metro in another 20 years will be more westernized. Men and women may
Have liv in relationship with out actually marrying. You see this among film stars who are acting
In hese saas bahu serials.šŸ˜†

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jan50

There is no system free from issues. But the nature of issues are different. In the western world

There is not that many social stigma against women or any one. People make mistakes but are forgiven and move on. They also were like what out Indian society s today where men dominated
And bused women. It still happens. But they are the ones who rebelled agaist it and took
Fredom for themselves. They say " freedom hasvto be aken. No body gives it to you on a platter".
The number of single mothers is a lot. Teenage pregnancy out o wed lock where they can not
Hold he biological father responsible becausevit is not clear who the father is. These are
Definitely the curse ofvthat society. But despite all that a woman can bring up a child or
Give in adoption and move on with her life without too much stigma.
But India at least in metro in another 20 years will be more westernized. Men and women may
Have liv in relationship with out actually marrying. You see this among film stars who are acting
In hese saas bahu serials.šŸ˜†



Shayad ghar me bhi live saas-bahu drama nahi dekhna chahtešŸ˜†

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Posted: 12 years ago
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completely agree with u bcoz for me already Ansh mrg is a failure...a hus who gives cold shoulder for d mistake done by her ex..a hus who stand der nd watches his wife bieng abused by his mom nd sis fir no reason without uttering a word...a hus who ignores d tears of his wife..a hus who negkects d request of his wife to talk to her...a hus who taunts her is nt a hus perfect for any girl nd an educated man at dat ..i jus want anandi to move on frm shiv nd shekars nd have a peaceful life as a single mother or jus single... i would love to see an independant anandi who can give back what evr she takes..i want anandi to slap sanchi once bass nd evn say two words to shiv get lost!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lumzz

completely agree with u bcoz for me already Ansh mrg is a failure...a hus who gives cold shoulder for d mistake done by her ex..a hus who stand der nd watches his wife bieng abused by his mom nd sis fir no reason without uttering a word...a hus who ignores d tears of his wife..a hus who negkects d request of his wife to talk to her...a hus who taunts her is nt a hus perfect for any girl nd an educated man at dat ..i jus want anandi to move on frm shiv nd shekars nd have a peaceful life as a single mother or jus single... i would love to see an independant anandi who can give back what evr she takes..i want anandi to slap sanchi once bass nd evn say two words to shiv get lost!

Anandi is not a woman who handle a married life properly balancing her maayka and sarurak. It's better she remains single in her life. She cares more about singhs than anyone in the world. It's better she remained in BH than in KB. Shiv can move on in his wife than going to BH every week and understanding his wife worries about her ex-husband remarriage.

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