Anandi Should not marry For THIRD time - Page 3

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

Anandi is not a woman who handle a married life properly balancing her maayka and sarurak. It's better she remains single in her life. She cares more about singhs than anyone in the world. It's better she remained in BH than in KB. Shiv can move on in his wife than going to BH every week and understanding his wife worries about her ex-husband remarriage.

u knw what jus few weeks b4 i thought d same dat i anandi is nt perfect for shiv bcoz evn after d mrg nd evrything it was singhs..bh ppl gt attacked...rattz is out of jail blah blah...i jus wanted shiv to show her the yellow card nd make her realise dat dis is ur place bt nw they have ruined shiv into shreds dat i have no respect for d guy nd he doesnt evn deserve anandi or anyone if he is gonna show a blind eye to his mom nd sis...cut anandi some slack she is been tryin very much to please d shekars nd shiv in evry possible way bt they are blindeyed to her...nd its high time she stand up for herself she dint ask him to marry her it was he who choosed her...if he cant respect her or save her self respect she is better off alone !

@sheets lovin sid is one thing which i do nd supporting a thickheaded,arrogant collector who doesnt respect his wife or cant protect his wife frm d mental abuse by his parents his mom nd sis to be precise is wrong...shiv suppose to protect a district a guy who cant fight for his own wife hw is he gone protect a district ?its plain stupidity to still think dat shiv is mahaan jus my pov!

Originally posted by: Lumzz

u knw what jus few weeks b4 i thought d same dat i anandi is nt perfect for shiv bcoz evn after d mrg nd evrything it was singhs..bh ppl gt attacked...rattz is out of jail blah blah...i jus wanted shiv to show her the yellow card nd make her realise dat dis is ur place bt nw they have ruined shiv into shreds dat i have no respect for d guy nd he doesnt evn deserve anandi or anyone if he is gonna show a blind eye to his mom nd sis...cut anandi some slack she is been tryin very much to please d shekars nd shiv in evry possible way bt they are blindeyed to her...nd its high time she stand up for herself she dint ask him to marry her it was he who choosed her...if he cant respect her or save her self respect she is better off alone !

Originally posted by: Lumzz

@sheets lovin sid is one thing which i do nd supporting a thickheaded,arrogant collector who doesnt respect his wife or cant protect his wife frm d mental abuse by his parents his mom nd sis to be precise is wrong...shiv suppose to protect a district a guy who cant fight for his own wife hw is he gone protect a district ?its plain stupidity to still think dat shiv is mahaan jus my pov!

Originally posted by: Lumzz

@sheets lovin sid is one thing which i do nd supporting a thickheaded,arrogant collector who doesnt respect his wife or cant protect his wife frm d mental abuse by his parents his mom nd sis to be precise is wrong...shiv suppose to protect a district a guy who cant fight for his own wife hw is he gone protect a district ?its plain stupidity to still think dat shiv is mahaan jus my pov!

i knw hw they gt married nd dats nt what i meant..wwhat i meant to say was anandi was nt useless piece of scum or unwanted furniture in d corner without anytaker like Ira seems to think of her NO she had an entire who loved n respected her nd a job too ...why shiv has to fight for her?may b bcoz he is her husband ...Alok voicing his support is pheeka he jus said it nd his wife snapped at him nd when alok supported anandi what was shiv doing did cat reakly caught his tongue...u wanted anandi to fight if her own son is acting like bheegi billi u cant expect anandi to voice it...Anandi had her mistakes bt dat was silly things like caring for.bh ppl more dan neccessary bt shiv never minded it asked her to stop it bt nw what shiv is doin is nt a silly mistake no he is hurting his wife nd keepin mum seeing others hurting nd evn givin her cold shoulder...there is no way their mistakes are equal...

I don't think it is possible that Ansh separate , they are just having minor

issues .

@tm...it is very much early post dear.It is not true that every successful marriage do not face any hurdle.Each and every marriage whether it is eastern or western need to undergo suffering..."sona jitna zalta hai...unta hi khara hota hai"...Life is not a bed full of rose.similarly hubby wify relation is not all about lovey dovey.And who said that clash means destruction? Clash have some others meaning too.Clash means openness...if you are feeling disgusted about someone...means that you have exception from him/her.In the current situation shiv is mad at anandi becoz she Is supporting J.That means not that he not love anandi any more.Other than being a husband he is a son and a brother too.And he loves everyone around him.Now his sister is in a crisis period.That is why he is supporting her .He is mum.becoz sometime right thing in wrong situation itself make the whole situation worst.He know that his mother is in pain and anger. So now if he say anything in front of her it will go to vein.Of couse his rudeness to anandi is not acceptable. Becoz he need to understand that anandi is standing in the same situation like him.She is too worried about her family's happiness.Of course right now there is a miscommunication between them.But that means not that their relation will destroy. Strong ppl never left tha war field...they always win the war. So this is the tasting time for ansh...shiv have support anandi in her crisis period ...now this is turn of anandi that how strongly she can support in his crisis period.Accusing someone is very easy but convincing some one that you are wrong is very difficult.Now both are undergoing the same phase.They both are thinking that the other partner is wrong at their respective POV but both of them can not convince the other that he/she is wrong.But i think that bv makers are creating the situation only to show that how these two mature ppl will handle all the situation so aptly...so picture abhi baki hai dost ...just wait and watch...ansh ki jode majhboot hai...this is made my kismat, kudrat and kyananat...and you really think a small wave named as sanchi can drag them towards destruction????

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

Other than Ira and saanchi other shekhars r not blaming anandi. Shiv is more angry in jagya and not anandi. He is just disappointed with anandi for hiding saanchi faults and wait to tell him when things became worse. He is not abusing her. Anandi is a big failure to handle family matters balancing maayka and saasra. Her mahaanta hiding saanchi faults and making shekhars insult J web he cae to break rista was wrong.

nw dis funny other dan sanch nd ira no one blames anandi really ira jus roughly pushed her nd called her stone hearted nd dadu nd alok gives angry look nd shiv stares into space without uttering a word nd tvhey are nt against her nd shiv is angry at jagya more bt frm where im seeing he is anandi nd singhs ds who once called him laadesar was being bashed by his mother nd dint evn alloed her to drink a glass of qater nd he was standing nd watching d tamasha nd u are saying he is only angry at jagya? yaa anandi should have told him sanchi's truth bt does it matter bcoz shiv is still nt angry at sanchi infact he is angry at anandi as if she bribed d pandit nt his sister...yes shiv is human nd he too make mistakes agree bt he is d person who gives qdvice to others to fight for social injustice so what his wife suffering in his house is also injustice abuse...mental abuse is as bad as physical both leaves scar one visible scar where ee can use medicine nd other leaves an open scar which alwats remain!so he cant make such mistakes heck these are nt evn mistakes nw its crimes...his mothers words yesterday was to d point a a threat in gender descrimination against his wife bt den again he is silent urghjh

I think Anandi should say this aloud to the whole Sekhar family