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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: hooked

Sorry ! Don't agree.
If she felt inclined to delve so deeply into Ganga and his feelings for her and Sumi's anger at him and his need to goto Mangalore - then she owes Jagya the same respect back by sharing her misgivings about Sanchi too.

Anandi cannot just "pretend" to care about Singhs and Jagya. Either she does or she doesn't. Currently - it seems like she is just the Shekhar bahu who conveniently shuts up about Sanchi's "bachpana" but can't tolerate Jagya's "caring for his charity case".

Jagya already told her what he thought of Sanchi when they were at Haweli.He called her badtameez and told her that he felt uncomfortable by all her attention and he also told her how her behaviour at times pissed him off.

Despite finding her behavior objectionable at time and calling her badtameez he went ahead and agreed to marry her.So what was she to assume from that ?It is very easy to assume that he did not find her bratty behaviour a problem.Just like Singhs assumed that Annadi was in agreement with proposal Anandi assumed that he knew what he is getting into when he agreed to marry her.

Once he agreed to marry her what exactly did he do ?How much of importance did he give his relationship with Sanchi?Ganga and her affairs take up more of his energy and time and emotions.Why is not working on his relationship with Sanchi?At this stage he doesn't even know what a fake she is.He thinks of her as spoilt and immature girl and doesn't know about her vicious nature.Why so much indifference towards his fiance?

He himself doesn't know why his charity case has become so much important than his fiance and his mother.He should have questioned himself on all these things long before Anandi asked.Why didn't he question himself?If he doesn't question himself somebody else has to do that for him and that's what she did.

Why should she share her opinion about Sanchi with him?Shouldn't he find about her on his own?He already feels they are incompatible shouldn't he be the one making the decision to break or make his life?After all it is his life and he has to bear the brunt of the decisions he makes.

Yes she is Shekhar bahu now she owes her loyalty towards Sanchi.She told Sanchi that they are not suitable because she felt Sanchi was young and needed to be told.Jagya should have known what he was doing because he is the older and more experienced party here.

She defended Jagya in front of the Shekhars when his motives behind his friendliness towards Sanchi was questioned because she was daughter of Singhs.

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hooked

@hooked

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

Aparna -

You are forgetting that Jagya never wanted to marry ever again. Ds and Sumi wanted him to do so and DS asked Anandi to take a promise from him. But you see - Anandi DID take a promise from Jagya to remarry.

And Jagya in return told her - SHE wud have to select AND approve the girl for him.

Now - with Sanchi's rishta - how can Anandi just wash her hands off this ? She is responsible for who Jagya marries and whether she is a good fit for him or not. Anandi cannot just become a Shakhar bahu and forget all else.

Anandi owes a lot to the Singhs and gave a promise to Jagya personally. She cannot back out like that.

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_Jaya_

@_Jaya_

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Posted: 12 years ago

#43

just one doubt. did anyone tell Jagya that he should tell about his decision immediately, when the proposal came? y didn't he tell that he need time to think about that?

Edited by jayakalaj - 12 years ago

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_Jaya_

@_Jaya_

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Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: hooked
Aparna -
You are forgetting that Jagya never wanted to marry ever again. Ds and Sumi wanted him to do so and DS asked Anandi to take a promise from him. But you see - Anandi DID take a promise from Jagya to remarry.

And Jagya in return told her - SHE wud have to select AND approve the girl for him.

Now - with Sanchi's rishta - how can Anandi just wash her hands off this ? She is responsible for who Jagya marries and whether she is a good fit for him or not. Anandi cannot just become a Shakhar bahu and forget all else.

Anandi owes a lot to the Singhs and gave a promise to Jagya personally. She cannot back out like that.

did Jagya ask or discussed with Anandi before saying yes to Sanchi? he just assumed that Anandi is okay with it. in fact nobody asked about her opinion.

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Picasso9

@Picasso9

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Posted: 12 years ago

#45

Jagya was guilted into taking a decision fr Anandi's happiness. He looked to Anandi for any indication that she was not in agreement but in front of others the Darling did not speak up. If her motivations and intentions were so pure, why doesn't she engage in conversation with Jagya in front f others. Why does she put on an act. Even when Saanchi asked her what she was speaking to J about, she lied and said DS. Where was her honesty, her conviction.

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Picasso9

@Picasso9

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

Nobody asked Anandi because she came with the party proposing the rishta. They of course took her accompaniment and pearly white smile as compliance for the rishta. The onus was on Anandi to rforewarn HER family. The Singhs did not have a crystal ball to predict this. Also the Singhs did not want to ask Anandi in front of Shekhars and jepardise her relationship with her in laws. Didn't Sumitra shut everyone up by saying that if Anandi was against this rishta she wouldn't have come with them or something to that effect.

Edited by Picasso9 - 12 years ago

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_Jaya_

@_Jaya_

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Posted: 12 years ago

#47

The Singhs did not have a crystal ball to predict this--

the whole drama is created based on assumptions

1. Anandi assumed tht Jagya will never say yes to this proposal.

2. Sumi conveniently assumed that. if they refuse this proposal, it will affect Anandi.

3. Jagya assumed that Anandi is okay with this as she came with Shekhars.

the makers came up with this assumption and misunderstanding just to make J and G closer

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Picasso9

@Picasso9

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Posted: 12 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: jayakalaj
The Singhs did not have a crystal ball to predict this--
the whole drama is created based on assumptions
1. Anandi assumed tht Jagya will never say yes to this proposal.
2. Sumi conveniently assumed that. if they refuse this proposal, it will affect Anandi.
3. Jagya assumed that Anandi is okay with this as she came with Shekhars.
the makers came up with this assumption and misunderstanding just to make J and G closer

True, but these assumptions do NOT absolve Anandi from her responsibilities to her Maayka to initiate communication since she was the first (between Singhs and herself NOT shekhars)to know of this impending proposal.

She also by her own volition agreed to screen the prospective bride J would marry since he agreed on her behest. Anandi cannot be SELECTIVELY involved.

Edited by Picasso9 - 12 years ago

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_Jaya_

@_Jaya_

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Posted: 12 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: Picasso9

True, but these assumptions do NOT absolve Anandi from her responsibilities to her Maayka to initiate communication since she was the first (between Singhs and herself NOT shekhars)to know of this impending proposal.

She also by her own volition agreed to screen the prospective bride J would marry since he agreed on her behest. Anandi cannot be SELECTIVELY involved.

Jagya said he wants Anandi's approval , Still he didn't discuss with her, neither did he tell anybody that he need time to think.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: hooked
Aparna -
You are forgetting that Jagya never wanted to marry ever again. Ds and Sumi wanted him to do so and DS asked Anandi to take a promise from him. But you see - Anandi DID take a promise from Jagya to remarry.

And Jagya in return told her - SHE wud have to select AND approve the girl for him.

Now - with Sanchi's rishta - how can Anandi just wash her hands off this ? She is responsible for who Jagya marries and whether she is a good fit for him or not. Anandi cannot just become a Shakhar bahu and forget all else.

Anandi owes a lot to the Singhs and gave a promise to Jagya personally. She cannot back out like that.

DS made Anandi to convince J to get married again.J in turn asked A to find a girl for him.

Jagya assumed that Anandi brought this Rishta for him.

How did Jagya assume that she was the one who brought that rishta for him?He saw her face and she was very uncomfortable.How did he assume that Anandi brought the rishta for him because she was pressurised by her in laws?Didn't he know her?Didn't she put her life at risk

for him?Didn't she make sure that he had a good life with Gauri and his education continue without interruption?How did he assume that Anandi would bring Sanchi's rishta under the pressure of her in laws?Didn't he know her well enough?

Anandi assumed that Sanchi's badtameezi is not a problem for him if he agreed to marry her.In the begining it only looked like Sanchi is just a spoilt brat who was intent on having her own way.

Then later on she did suspect that his feelings for Ganga much deeper than just plain old charity.

She does have suspicions about Sanchi and she also feels that Jagya is not able to respond to Sanchi's so called love.

These are only suspicions on her part.How is she going to talk to him based merely on suspicions?In the end she cannot make decisions for him she can only help him make right decisions.That can happen only if he starts thinking about himself and his priorities.Some body has to make him do that and she did that by questioning him on his priorities on his life.

If she told him that she thinks that he is in love with Ganga and her suspicions that Ganga is in love with him and her opinion about Sanchi - These are all her opinions about the situations.

He shouldn't be acting based on her opinions and he should be forming his own opinions.

Once they get to know the complete truth about Sanchi she will obviously side with him and support him in his decision whatever it may be.