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If they really wished to address this issue with a positive approach they shud have shown Shiv/Jagya conducting a class for the males.They should have shown how such cases are neglected by the government. As a woman if I dont have time or dont like to learn martial arts why it shud be a compulsion for me? Just like saying women shud wear long dresses is not a viable solution...teaching them martial arts too isnt.Rather its a wrong approach in the first place.You are promoting the idea that we live in a society where neither law will protect us nor will men change themselves so we will only have to do everything ourselves.But I ask if tomorrow like rapes murders too become so common...will they teach women to carry pistols and knives with them?
And i would like to add there have been many cases where women tried to answer with martial arts/self-defense and they ended up being harassed more.Because they stood against criminals they had to face acid attacks and attacks on their families.The conclusion is that w/o a strong law nothing can be done.And our duty is not to sit with a pessimistic view that "law will not do anything for us we shud do ourselves" rather we as a society we need to force the govt to protect our rights.
If our freedom fighters too had not gone against govt and forced them to see our plight we would have been under british law till now.Its abt challenging the law to do the needful.If thats done taking small measures of care wont be a great issue.Then even a simple pepper spray or chilli powder will work because rarely men will try to attempt such things.
Originally posted by: tweetie19
Self defense is needed i agree...But it will work only when a girl has to fight against one or two...not against a big gang...Everywhere i get to hear ridiculous statements like the girl was wearing a short dress or the girl shouldn't have been out so late...Why don't anyone say anything against boys?? The change in the mindset of boys is the need of the hour...Self defense is only a method of prevention...Its not a cure for the problem...Only when the boys learn to respect girls, the girls can be considered safe...
If they really wished to address this issue with a positive approach they shud have shown Shiv/Jagya conducting a class for the males.They should have shown how such cases are neglected by the government. As a woman if I dont have time or dont like to learn martial arts why it shud be a compulsion for me? Just like saying women shud wear long dresses is not a viable solution...teaching them martial arts too isnt.Rather its a wrong approach in the first place.You are promoting the idea that we live in a society where neither law will protect us nor will men change themselves so we will only have to do everything ourselves.But I ask if tomorrow like rapes murders too become so common...will they teach women to carry pistols and knives with them?
And i would like to add there have been many cases where women tried to answer with martial arts/self-defense and they ended up being harassed more.Because they stood against criminals they had to face acid attacks and attacks on their families.The conclusion is that w/o a strong law nothing can be done.And our duty is not to sit with a pessimistic view that "law will not do anything for us we shud do ourselves" rather we as a society we need to force the govt to protect our rights.
If our freedom fighters too had not gone against govt and forced them to see our plight we would have been under british law till now.Its abt challenging the law to do the needful.If thats done taking small measures of care wont be a great issue.Then even a simple pepper spray or chilli powder will work because rarely men will try to attempt such things.
I agree! And doesnt pushing women to learn martial arts violates the idea of equality in our society??No man has to learn martial arts to protect their dignity from women.They can roam around anywhere anytime doing anything.
Then why a woman...whose already doing so many jobs has to spare time to learn martial arts ??Even today 90% of working women dont get any help from there husbands in household work.They handle their kids...prepare food...take care of home as well as do their jobs.To add to it they need to learn martial arts too??Not every1 has time and money to do that.Govt is not running free martial art classes everywhere.
And of course martial arts dont apply in group.And in delhi rape case the girl had to fight 6 ppl who were well equipped with razors and rods. Even a man who has learned martial arts can attack at most 2-3 ppl not 8-10 ppl.And how can we expect a woman doing it that too when her dignity is being battered.Will she be in that state of mind??
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And martial arts is never the right solution for cases like eve-teasing and snide comments.Coz if u will answer these with martial arts the men will counter attack with more force...in more nasty manner.