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Posted: 12 years ago
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Neha - I so agree with you!! I wish they had adressed the issue with a mindset to solve the original problem - the male approach! yesterday there was an article in HT that the UK students who came to delhi for foreign exchange program said that the city is so unsafe that they will never return here in their life.Now tell me can u even teach the foreigner girls martial arts or when they come on airport is pepperspray the first thing u handover to them?? What a reputation our country will have.

Its not abt teaching the imp of self-defense its about changing the mindset of men.But what seems is that the great BV director also agrees in the view of "not to get molested" than "stop molesting"
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Again sara bojh girls pe daal do. Self defence karna sikho girls coz rapist ko saja nahi di ja sakti is country me. Bhale hi 10 ladke milke tumhare sath jabardasti kare you have to defence your self. Sociaty cant change for you. Its your fault that you cant defend your self. Wat a msg great.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Collectors do get invited by educational institutions and other institutions as chief guests.
There was an instance where a Got medical college hospital has invited the collector was invited to address a gathering of doctors who were there to attend a medical education update workshop . He spoke about importance of keeping oneself updated on the latest knowledge. 😆
I was a witness to that. So we can very well say what the collector was doing in a gathering like that. What qualification does he have to address a gathering of doctors?

As far I can remember from my school days collector and his patni if he has one both used to get invited for school functions and college function.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ Mallika ur right mallika no amount of pepper spray and Kung Fu Karate will work unless mentality of the men changes.
Girls can defend themselves against 1-2 men but wat abt a Gang of guys?? or a mob?? they cant protect themselves against a mob unless they r experts like Bruce Li or Jackie Chan 😆😆😆

Edited by Blukitten - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yeah they r invited for talk and speech ...they came to my office too.
but they dont go arnd giving classes themselves.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: KiranlovSriti

Again sara bojh girls pe daal do. Self defence karna sikho girls coz rapist ko saja nahi di ja sakti is country me. Bhale hi 10 ladke milke tumhare sath jabardasti kare you have to defence your self. Sociaty cant change for you. Its your fault that you cant defend your self. Wat a msg great.

Rapists do that because it gives them a kick to see women helpless and struggling against superior brutal strength. So it is very important to be strong and ready to give them a kick where it hurts.
Only if they know that girl gives it back to them they will not attempt it.
It is very important part apart from teaching sons how to respect women.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: KiranlovSriti

Again sara bojh girls pe daal do. Self defence karna sikho girls coz rapist ko saja nahi di ja sakti is country me. Bhale hi 10 ladke milke tumhare sath jabardasti kare you have to defence your self. Sociaty cant change for you. Its your fault that you cant defend your self. Wat a msg great.

Oh yeas soon we will hear of verdicts like "inspite being trained in self defence.The girl was unable to protect herself against 15 boys...Hence it was not Rape it was consesual sex "😕

Then aquit the boys...men r men they dont have brains and control na...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Bola Ganapati Bappa Morya !!! Mangal Murti Morya !!!! 🥳

May be this time Ganapati Bappa made some change in Men's mind regarding Women.





Edited by blushing - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree neha self defense cant be of any importance if 6 monsters together attack a women that too with weapons like iron rods.No martial arts can help.And since changing the mindset is a slow process what we need is instilling fear by enforcement of strong laws.But since BV doesnt want to invite any trouble from govt ofcourse it wont address the issue of that how such criminals get away easily from the hands of law.

To ab kuch to social msg dena hi hai...to chalo yehi sahi! 😆

And my ques is why shud girls only have to go to that extra mile to protect themselves.What is law and order for?Its taught in a self defense class that u have to be alert always.Kyun bhai?Why cant a girl have the freedom of talking on phone or having a nap or listening to music in a bus or metro??Are we born to always "protect" ourselves???Why cant govt do something in this regard.But ofcourse as if BV will say anything against the misnters and law.It takes real guts to do that.
Edited by Malika - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It has to be done both ways
Immediate need is to make the woman empowered
Long term goal bring the change in the mind set of the people.
Self defence is necessary one cannot wait for the change in the mindset when one is being attacked.

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