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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: VerboseG


LOL, you just opened yourself up to some questions, ie:

Why do you need to be out till 1 or 2 am?

A friend was moving back to USA...a farewell dinner

Why do you have to walk alone??

It was girls-only dinner so hubby stayed home

Why are you not fully clothed???

Shame on me, but on 39 C in the midnight, no thanks!😆

Is the hottest city in Spain hotter than India????

No idea...it is around 45-50 in the summer here

Let's see what are the other Q's that we can come up with!

Waiting for them 😆

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My answers in red bold G😎
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Blukitten

@Yas ur lucky...in india mentality is still changing 😆 which will take centuries 😕


Its similar to Garibi hatao <remove poverty> slogan...60 years and garibi is still going strong similarily changing mentality is an ongoing process 60 years and its worse 🤢



Actually i was thinking..can this phirangi tell you one thing?
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Serviana



My answers in red bold G😎


Thank you for answering in detail 😳

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: VerboseG


Thank you for answering in detail 😳



You welcome G🤗
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Posted: 12 years ago
I think most members here are not saying that self defense is bad...its all good but what the frustration is that why does it have to be girls that will always have to be the one to take precaution, think hundred times to even go to a late night party. Why can't the girls in India have the same freedom as the girls outside India. Some precaution is necessary everyhwere as you never know where the danger lays...but in India its everywhere and my opinion is that every criminal is not insane...they just dont have any fear of law. if someone has some money to grease palms they mostly walk free. In some cases where the police is strict or the common people step in through protests we are able to see some sort of justice. I am saying this as I have lived in India for eighteen years before I came to Canada and I have felt unsafe...seen my friend killed and her killer walking scot free. I love India and always will but that love sometimes is tested to the point of breaking.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ayesha321

I think most members here are not saying that self defense is bad...its all good but what the frustration is that why does it have to be girls that will always have to be the one to take precaution, think hundred times to even go to a late night party. Why can't the girls in India have the same freedom as the girls outside India. Some precaution is necessary everyhwere as you never know where the danger lays...but in India its everywhere and my opinion is that every criminal is not insane...they just dont have any fear of law. if someone has some money to grease palms they mostly walk free. In some cases where the police is strict or the common people step in through protests we are able to see some sort of justice. I am saying this as I have lived in India for eighteen years before I came to Canada and I have felt unsafe...seen my friend killed and her killer walking scot free. I love India and always will but that love sometimes is tested to the point of breaking.

Exactly what we are all trying to say...Self defense is a good thing no doubt...But how far will it work?? Instead of stressing on how women should protect themselves, its high time people think about how to make our streets safer for women at any time of the day...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: tweetie19

Exactly what we are all trying to say...Self defense is a good thing no doubt...But how far will it work?? Instead of stressing on how women should protect themselves, its high time people think about how to make our streets safer for women at any time of the day...

It is high time thinking is changed in India...Women are treated better. Most importantly men need to start respecting them and think of them as their equal counterparts not some low life creature to be used and discarded...there are some Men who do respect and treat women well but there are lot more who do not and I am sorry to say this we women play a hugeee role in this.
Here both partners share house work, even my husband helps me with cooking cleaning and every other chore. But mentality in India is Kya mere bete se kaam karwayogi. Even when there are two sibling a girl and a boy mostly girls are the ones fetching water for their brothers doing chores and other stuff while boys are told nahi beta Larke kaam karte ache nahi lagte. Basically from the beginning women are potrayed to be lower than them who will wait on them all their life.
We need to change this mentality and vow that we will not keep any difference between the son and daughter including doing little chores in the house. If enough people start applying this in their life we can surely bring some change.
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Posted: 12 years ago
https://www.shakesville.com/2008/01/five-reasons-why-teach-women-self.html

Gals thanks for your support but no use.I am doing all this because I am a dumb Pratyusha fan who was speaking against BV irrespective of the fact that how sensitive this issue is. I am not bothered whether I am saying the right thing or wrong.

Some people wont ever u/stand that this is a universal debate issue.I was not debating because I loved earlier Anandi nor this.I was debating because I honestly agree with this lady in the thread. But I so wish someone had the audacity to say this right in my face.I wish someone had accused me of being manipulative for my fav actress on an issue like "Sexual harassment" in my face.The above link is the biggest proof that self-defense is still a universally debatable issue.

To whomever it may concern,

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/removed-content-vault/3705019/main-roun-ya-hasoon-karu-main-kya-karu-dmt-opkse-4-v-v-strictly-io?pn=68

Since days this thread has been used to bash Pratyusha Siddharth and Shashank but I gave a damn.Its your business do whatever you want.But no one gets the right to do personal attacks on me and my pov in the name of "invites only" CCs.If you wanna attack and question my pov and my loyalties come here and do so...I have all the ability and word to answer you.And I am posting this link here so that every1 can see the filthy face of why this forum is such a mess.Taali ek haath se nahin bajti.We critisize Toral but thats in face of every1.We dont use an "invites only" CC to do that.Yes I read ur CC not because I am damn interested in what u talk but bcoz its related to me my frnz and the ppl I love.Its related to SY.

I am posting this thread here so that it can be reported by all Shashank Siddharth and Pratyusha loverz and more of that it should be reported for bashing fan groups w/o taking names in the name of "invites only" CC which is STRICTLY against india forums rule.You can go and refer to the CC rules.

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And remember I dont do anything on the back of it.I do it in your face and I am not ashamed of doing it.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Malika

https://www.shakesville.com/2008/01/five-reasons-why-teach-women-self.html

Gals thanks for your support but no use.I am doing all this because I am a dumb Pratyusha fan who was speaking against BV irrespective of the fact that how sensitive this issue is. I am not bothered whether I am saying the right thing or wrong.

Some people wont ever u/stand that this is a universal debate issue.I was not debating because I loved earlier Anandi nor this.I was debating because I honestly agree with this lady in the thread. But I so wish someone had the audacity to say this right in my face.I wish someone had accused me of being manipulative for my fav actress on an issue like "Sexual harassment".The above link is the biggest proof that self-defense is still a universally debatable issue.

To whomever it may concern,

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/removed-content-vault/3705019/main-roun-ya-hasoon-karu-main-kya-karu-dmt-opkse-4-v-v-strictly-io?pn=68

Since days this thread has been used to bash Pratyusha Siddharth and Shashank but I gave a damn.Its your business do whatever you want.But no one gets the right to do personal attacks on me and my pov in the name of "invites only" CCs.If you wanna attack and question my pov and my loyalties come here and do so...I have all the ability and word to answer you.And I am posting this link here so that every1 can see the filthy face of why this forum is such a mess.Taali ek haath se nahin bajti.We critisize Toral but thats in face of every1.We dont use an "invites only" CC to do that.Yes I read ur CC not because I am damn interested in what u talk but bcoz its related to me my frnz and the ppl I love.Its related to SY.

I am posting this thread here so that it can be reported by all Shashank Siddharth and Pratyusha loverz and more of that it should be reported for bashing fan groups w/o taking names in the name of "invites only" CC which is STRICTLY against india forums rule.You can go and refer to the CC rules.

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And remember I dont do anything on the back of it.I do it in your face and I am not ashamed of doing it.


WORD!!!!! 👏
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Posted: 12 years ago

This is disgusting...such personal attack on members...what is being done here is reading one line and forming there own opinion without reading the whole para...oh SY fan said this then it must be something to do with their darling and they are saying something bad about BV.

First read the whole Para we wrote...I and other members wrote our opinion and I want to tell people to read the whole thing and I wrote and tell me where I am wrong, point out what I am saying is not making sense and do it right here in this thread on our faces and I will reply to you weighing your answers and not form opinion without even reading it.
This topic is very close to me and I am disappointed to say it feels like i wasted my time posting something regarding women empowerment in this thread/forum

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