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Posted: 12 years ago
Pls read this rule too:

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Edited by Malika - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: shankythebest

Can somebody tell me what is the meaning of 'big headed'?

Ex lead,male lead 1 male lead 2 all are big headed!

Shiv can be played by new person,JAGYA CAN BE KILLED OFF!Really!




If someone says kill off Anandi ppl fume and when their friends say same for Jagya it isnt a big deal.😕
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Malika



If someone says kill off Anandi ppl fume and when their friends say same for Jagya it isnt a big deal.😕


Yes,seems it isn't a big deal...

I am surprised to know that shashank is big headed...And also to know that he is not happy with jagya's third marriage still he is working in this show!
Edited by shankythebest - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
who have I personally attacked??
find me ONE name??
not a character but a real life IF member's user ID on my CC
if u find such a name in all those 71 pages, then we will talk
Jagya is a CHARACTER not an actor


the member that posted on my CC broke a rule TOO and has been reported
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Posted: 12 years ago
ppl are requested to thoroughly go through their threads.A discussion abt whether showing self defense in tv shows is a good thing or not was going on in dis forum since today morning.And someone from the CC has made fun of opinions and views posted on BV forum.If dey had any doubts they shud have clarified here else not attacked a genuine opinion by calling it funny and suggesting that its biased. Now do i really need to take name??
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Posted: 12 years ago

Muku:

I know you didn't target me but I felt the need to respond to your post since I am part of the CC and what you said about bashing is untrue. As far as I know, Sid has never been bashed. I am saying this for one who supports Sid and have argued for him on the CC. I never felt Sid was being bashed. People have different opinions about him and that is not called bashing. Nobody is using derogatory words, abusive language there for you to call it bashing. There is a difference between criticism and bashing. Criticism is what happens there but not bashing.

What is bashing Muku ? Making fun of an actor/character ? Then all the fun posts that are made on the BV forum post replacement should be considered bashing.
Insulting a member and using it in a siggy is bashing or accusing a member of MIDs and making fun of that is bashing..
I am not sure in what context Jagya was brought into the picture. So, can't comment on that. But, yes if someone said Jagya needs to be killed off then it hurts the Jagya fans. But, it was not said on the BV forum. It was said ont he CC where no Jagya fan is a member. Anandi getting killed off was talked in the BV forum and even today statements like AnSh died 6 months back, only their caricatures are around and those kind of statements are made. There is a difference. However, knowing how I feel when people say all these things about a character tha tI love, I would not support if someone said kill Jagya off too..
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Posted: 12 years ago
Yes said person responded to a post by her friend and it was a dialogue between TWO friends; no names were mentioned
I asked for an IF member;s name
where does it say I cannot respond to a topic my friend brought to the CC;
do i have to police my friend on what topic she wants to discuss
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Posted: 12 years ago
I am too late to comment on this thread, this thread has already slipped off topic, still want to share my views.
I feel self defense is one way which you can start from yourself, which makes it very much necessary. Laws are not in our hand, as citizens we cant do much about it.. Agreed changing the mentality of men/boys has become absolutely necesary (hope every mother/father and also the government & administration understands the necessity of it), still it doesnt make self defense out of context. Most of us here being staying in comparatively modern environment in cities/metros may not think this as a big deal.. for we keep coming across these things from time to time. But there are still many many women in many areas of this country who are still unaware of their rights, unaware that they can fight back, unaware that they have this strength. they still have to start from the basics.
and BV always deals with such class of society!! so where does self defense is wrong. Its not the only way to deal with problem, but it is still one way to deal with it. I am not saying this bcoz it is being done by Shiv/AnSh its just a general view.
Self defense may not always help in case of gang rapes.. but there are many other incidents of eve teasing which can be easily dealt with self defense. Every girl/lady has to face such situation sometime in her life. And most men which commit such things are cowards. just some self defense & self respect is needed and that person will be on back foot.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: dixie123

Muku:

I know you didn't target me but I felt the need to respond to your post since I am part of the CC and what you said about bashing is untrue. As far as I know, Sid has never been bashed. I am saying this for one who supports Sid and have argued for him on the CC. I never felt Sid was being bashed. People have different opinions about him and that is not called bashing. Nobody is using derogatory words, abusive language there for you to call it bashing. There is a difference between criticism and bashing. Criticism is what happens there but not bashing.

What is bashing Muku ? Making fun of an actor/character ? Then all the fun posts that are made on the BV forum post replacement should be considered bashing.

I am not sure in what context Jagya was brought into the picture. So, can't comment on that. But, yes if someone said Jagya needs to be killed off then it hurts the Jagya fans. But, it was not said on the BV forum. It was said ont he CC where no Jagya fan is a member. Anandi getting killed off was talked in the BV forum and even today statements like AnSh died 6 months back, only their caricatures are around and those kind of statements are made. There is a difference. However, knowing how I feel when people say all these things about a character tha tI love, I would not support if someone said kill Jagya off too..



Nivi calling him big headed wasnt bashing?Or calling P big headed was not bashing??Big-headed is a strong word. And what abt the fact that a discussion going on here was dragged there??We were discussing the issue very sensibly here.All were involved.Firstly Aditi said there will be a war.Why?No one of us was starting a war.We were discussing.Then an opinion was dragged to the CC and said its funny and was suggested that its biased.Why cant some ppl use private media like social networking sites if what all they want to do is bash.The truth is that they want their criticism to be seen.Thats it.


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Posted: 12 years ago
Anyhow I am out of this thread.I said what I wanted to say. I dont personally attack anyone's opinion and I dont take it on myself as well.

Concluding with a note that I pray tomorrows morning brings a hope in the life of we indian girls.Hopefully the nirbhaya accused are hanged till death! *Amen*

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