Is it easy to fall in love again and again? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Truthseeker

And not forget that this is his own idea of redemption. He wanted to help Ganga because he saw Anandi in her. Now that she will soon be settled, he can help Sanchi seeing his own reflection in her. He would know where this kind of attitude that Sanchi has would take a person.

Originally posted by: Truthseeker

That gives me an idea!

To complete his redemption , he should actually marry Sanchi and redeem himself by redeeming her😃. Sanchi is more or less like how he was. If they leave her like this, she will end up marrying 2 men and later leaving them behind ...and then end up in streets just like Jagya did .So he should take her up as a challenge now itself and change her😳. What's the greatness in marrying a woman who can give so much to him and please him in every possible way? Ganga has everything in her, as they project---kindness, sincerity, humbleness and all including education which will help her to stand up in life. So for complete redemption, instead of marrying Ganga who has everything, J should marry this girl Sanchi who lost her little brain.

This is a brilliant idea. LOL. And it also fits with the theme of the serial as Sanchi is a spoilt , hormonal juvenile nursing an infatuation and not a mature woman ready for a serious relationship like marriage. If she marries in this state of mind, she definitely qualifies as a balika vadhu.

Are the CVs listening?

Originally posted by: Truthseeker

Sanchi is in such a sad state that she doesn't even know that she needs help😭😭. Only Jagya can cure her. 😆😆 After all who else can know that better than the person(Jagya) himself who passed that phase?

This turn of events will be revolutionary for BV.
Taming of the Shrew by William Shakespeare.😆

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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

This turn of events will be revolutionary for BV.
Taming of the Shrew by William Shakespeare.😆

Here to tame our famous Katherina - S - who is frustrated because of her MR LOVE'S- love with the other woman ...more than her !! Here the taming needs NOT through verbal duels ! ! In this occasion duelling had not been forbidden!??

Men are polygamous by nature. They can fall in love again and again. It is rare that men only love one person and give lifelong commitment to that one. Also, I think men do not like to make adjustments and compromises. Even if they do, it is mostly for sake of kids or if the woman is generally submissive or can be controlled and she does not hurt his ego much.

Jagya's case is complicated and CVs have made it a joke. No I don't love Anandi, Gauri is my true love. Later, umm, I think Anandi was better. No she is my true love and Gauri was just a fascination! Then, I can never love anyone except Anandi. Now, No. I love Ganga...ekdum Anandi jaisi!
This character's love has changed according to needs. If he feels happy and fulfilled then it is love. The moment anything he realises has gone wrong, then it wasn't love but a mistake.

In case of women, they can also get attracted to more than one person. But I feel given the environment and all sorts of restrictions on them that society and culture puts - it is more difficult for them to truly love and trust another person. Women are more emotional and get attached. Sometimes due to this they keep putting up even with abuse. It is hard for them to move on to another relationship. Though there are exceptions who are into experiments and do end up having multiple relationships.

We've seen celebs also. Some had love marriages but they broke up after 15-20 years and despite 2 kids. Later the men remarried and now claim the second wife was actually their true love and they couldn't do without her.

I personally don't think it is possible to fall in love again and again (personal opinion and probably influenced by my gender also).

Also depends on what you call "love". Every attraction or feeling comfortable with someone is not love. True love doesn't vanish easily. And it's not influenced by ego or society or family. It has room for forgiveness and understanding. It is not afraid to point out flaws. It is not blind. It helps in growth.

Love is not just about who you like "currently".

Jagya and anandi couldn't happened because it would have promote child marriage and a huge section of audience would have protested it.

Jagya and Gauri couldn't happened because they were in a illegal relationship and their relation destroyed a married couple also a girls life who was totally innocent and again a huge section of audience would have protested.

So cvs went to the third route which was acceptable and once again showed Jagya is in love because viewers like me were waiting when will Jagya get his share of happiness and his love.Started Jagya's track once again.

I will not generalize but people of both genders actually fall in love again and again,but when they loose the attraction one day they start feeling it was not love.It was infatuation.Then again they fall in love and it continues until they don't get stability in their life.Some people never get that stabilty and continues falling in love and its happening more and more now a days.

Hum ek baar jite hai,ek baar marte,shadi bhi ek baar hoti hai aur pyar bhi ek baar hi hota hai,is itself a wrong perception even in the film also because the hero who believes that himself fall in love for the second time and had a punar vivah.

Originally posted by: Truthseeker

Good one!

It is like a child who plays with a new toy for a few days, gets bored and wants another toy.

Jagdish did not want another marriage again but sumitra, dadisa forced him. He should have been left alone to do what he wants with his life.
We have this mentality of settle hona hain. First job, next marriage and next kids.

Those who do not conform to this settle hona hain are pestered, questioned and not allowed to live in peace.

Anandi also did not want to settle down the usual way and she was forced to do so.

@shankythebest

I agree but Gauri-Jagya could have happened after divorce of JaAn. Once divorced, Jagya was free to make Gauri his legal wife. And being victim, Gauri was also a victim of that broken child marriage. There was no need to make Gauri a vamp or have challenges between Sumitra and her.
And that relationship had gone too far with Gauri getting pregnant twice.

Anyway, the actress left. And CVs also left that track. So forget it though I wish both parties at fault (be it Gauri-Jagya or their families had tried to work on that relationship and amended their faults be it the faults made in past or the faults in present).

Ganga one was good given that they both had gone through a lot in life and helping Ganga had made Jagya feel better about himself as a human being. Also Ganga is the kind of partner that Jagya needs.

But they aren't starting on a clean slate thanks to CVs!

Too bad they put Sanchi in all this and are making it ugly with broken engagement and all tamasha.

I think both genders can fall in love often but I do maintain men are more likely given the society and evolutionary history.

Jagya should have been left alone to figure out what he wants.

He has always been influenced by others.

And I think he does have flaw of not living with his decisions or working on them if they go wrong. Partly his family is to blame for this because even they found it better to throw him away than work on him when he went wrong.

You have to face mistakes or work on problems than run away.

I hope Ganga is his final love and CVs do not mess up more.