Is it easy to fall in love again and again? - Page 6

Originally posted by: redapple1

I don't know how easy it is to fall in love again and again.
But in Jagya's case he is entitled to be happy and live a good life. If Gauri character was not terminated abruptly then I would not be happy to see Jagya fall in love again. I wanted creatives to give chance to Gauri to change and be happy in family life. It would have sent a good message, in spite of working/earning an educated smart wife can still balance family life. I cannot understand how one can terminate a marriage just because the wife doesn't respect husband's family. If that was the case more than half of the marriages will end up in divorce. I have to actually count how many of my friends love their in-laws and actually respect them 😃
Now that Gauri is not coming back, I am voting for Jagya-Ganga marriage.😊
When Shiv got transfer, Jagya agreed for marriage as he thought that will make his family happy. Saying yes for engagement with Sanchi was a big misunderstanding. He thought Sanchi was Anandi's pick, he didn't make an attempt to clarify with her nor did Anandi make an attempt to talk to him. This whole misunderstanding led to a weird relationship. Now we have to wait and watch how this will affect Singh's, Shekars.

Originally posted by: redapple1

Good post Aparna.Another point of view. You still think Jagya is not changed. I think he has changed for better, but he still doesn't take decision when needed. Jagya is now realizing he loves Ganga. Hopefully this will be his last love. I just don't like him being the Son in law at Shekars residence.
He had good opportunities to tell Shiv/Ira to give him more time. He didn't use it wisely.

When he was married to Anandi, Singhs were happy and Jagya also seemed to be happy.
When he was married to Gauri, Singhs were unhappy and initially he seemed happy.
When he is engaged to Sanchi, Singh's - Shekars are happy and he seems miserable
If he tells he loves Ganga, big tiff between Shekars and Singhs and don't know if he will be happy knowing Anandi's life is gonna get messier.
He is in a tough spot now.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Now Jagya has shown that it is easy to fall in love again and again.

He may have been married to Anandi in childhood but he did fall in love with her.

Then he went to Mumbai and he fell for Gauri there and then he dragged on his relationship for 5 years keeping both the women in his life in the dark and then he left his legal wife and his family chose to live with Gauri and make a life with her.

Just like any marriage will have ego issues and family issues his marriage had them too.But he did not have patience to correct them.He lef Gauri saying that she tried to seperate him from his family.When he himself moved away from his family how can he put the blame on Gauri?

If he was angry with Gauri and realised that she is not good enough to be his wife he should have stayed alone.Why did he try to get back Anandi who was bent on moving on in life?

After trying to do everything to ruin her life in the name of his love he finally accepted that he lost her.But he clung on to the memories.

He went to a conference/med exhibition which he was in no mood to go until he got to know that it is in Udaipur.He went to Udaipur once he got to know that they were on their honeymoon to distract himself from his misery he accepted Sanchi's company.This is what gave Sanchi the encouragement she needed.

He had no interest in marriage yet he agreed to marry Sanchi but he did nothing to strengthen his relationship with her.

Now he realised all of a sudden there is no life for him without Ganga.He doesn't find fault with Sanchi that means he obviously knows that he is the one at fault.

Now he feels he cannot tell anybody is great love and will continue his engagement with Sanchi for as long as he can and get married to her also knowing that he cannot love Sanchi.

He will have part 2 of the triangle.With Ganga and Sanchi.He will continue to rebuff Sanchi and think about Ganga.The same thing he did with Anandi and Gauri.

Obvioulsy he has not changed at all.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

There is also something else like some men and some women are better off having short term live in relationships without too much commitment. Marriage is not for everybody and it carries its own pluses and minuses.

Originally posted by: sidra08

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