After watching today's episode ..i really felt that BV Cv's are making people realize that ..though a men can have a failed marriage ..he can fall in love again with full of passion whom can't leave with out the love in his life ..
which i really don't understand...from his childhood he was bound to marriages ..He was called Anandi's husband for years and had a husband and wife relationship from child hood ..than he once he came to his young age ..He fell in love with gauri so madly that he he was ready to leave his family and wife ..and had a relationship with gauri ..though it was illegal ..but Neither Jagiya or gauri thought that they are having a illegal marriage ..they are totally aware of what they are doing and how they are going against the society ..they thought that their is love pure and their relationship is not illegal for them they married infront of god ..most of the indian marriage prefer a aginisakshi marriage than legal marriage ..so according to that they are married and she got pregnant twice.
Cv's should have given a proper end to this Gauri and Jagiya track before making jagiya gain falling in love passionately ...Jagiya left gauri in such a hurry by slapping her in public ...their relationship shouldn't end like that ..i felt that it was incomplete on both sides ..she is again preganant ..jagiya was totally in to Gauri till the last moment he came to know the truth..he was not planning or have any clue that he can't continue this marriage ..it was just knee jerk reaction after knowing the truth...
That can't be end that its a end of relationship on both sides ..they should have met and discussed their preference and should have end the relationship with mutual talk ..and should have chosen new life for both of them ..coming to a conclusion that they can't leave together anymore.
coming to jagiya and Ganga ...i can understand why Ganga fell in love and she is very clear about her feelings more than jagiya ...because its her first love experience and she didn't felt such attraction to anyone before .
but jagiya after two failed marriages with two women ..now again they are showing him transfer himself in to devdas mode ...who know how to fell in love and commits mistakes first and regrets later and can't find solutions to make his relationship sucessfull.
I won't say that a person can't love n number of times ...in olden days wife used to die giving births to child and the men used to marry the other women to take care family and children ..
it was like a commitment first after they make a good wife and husband as time goes on ..love is be least bothered in the second marriage but they will develop feelings slowly and stregthen their relationship on bases of understanding which may call as love later .
I would have prefered jagiya's marriage to be like that ..after such broken relationships neither men nor women dare to get in to marriage or love ..they prefer a blind marriage which was suggested by parents ..
personally in real world Men can dare for second marriage soon than women ..because ..Men is the deciding and doesn't need to compromise for lot of things than usually a women .
I feel like BV cv's are making mockery of Love and Marriage system of India to drag the serial as long as they can ..and more importantly making jagiya ' charectarization beyond understanding zone for people like me day by day .
Edited by vasiraju - 12 years ago