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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jagya has definitely matured since now he has become stable and knows what exactly he wants but unfortunately now instead of making his own decisions he left his family to do so who from generations to generations have a very silly faith that every unmatched forced compromised marriage makes wonder 😲 🤔
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@skep,I am among those viewers who waited for the break up of jagya gauri.Thats why I am saying it shouldn't happen.jagya need a new girl as his life partner and gauri need a new boy as her life partner after redeeming.If you ask my personal view I didn't want that jagya will live alone,I wanted him to marry because living alone for some years is easy but some point of time you need partner who loves you.That is other thing that its a serial and forcing marriage is a tradition in serials.They hurried his marriage talks.

Even if the actress wouldn't have left I think cvs wouldn't have get them together.If cvs would have done it I would definitely talk against it.Actually its not about kitni baar kiski shadi hui hai.In serials shaadi hoti rehti hai,chehra badal jata hai etc but is the relation fair!while getting married both of them didn't think about anandi,both were showing off,jagya unintentionally and gauri most of the time intentionally,agar ek hojayenge to kya saja mili unko,kuch bhi nehin.Phir se ek ho gaya which I wouldn't have support.

Gauri ko pehle ekbaar sorry word use karna hoga then she will be equal to jagya.Jagya is now in a better postion than gauri.He accepted his mistakes but gauri didn't and trying to be a good person.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks

Jagya has definitely matured since now he has become stable and knows what exactly he wants but unfortunately now instead of making his own decisions he left his family to do so who from generations to generations have a very silly faith that every unmatched forced compromised marriage makes wonder 😲 🤔



because they have the proof that every force marriage is doing wonder.Sirf jagya and anandi ka rishta toota wo bhi jagya ki adultry ki wajese.otherwise it is proved that anandi se achchi ladki jagya ko kabhi nehin mil saakti.That means that marriage was also right.
Edited by shankythebest - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I also have a feelings that like anandi said jagya is past the stage where he wants excitement like saanchi in marriage...i think he now just wants to settle down quickly without much of if or buts like saanchi and ira is making...whenever i see jagya with mannu i feel somewhere he is very much in need to such complete family...i really wish things turn out well for him or else this guy can even go crazy and i am serious...who wants so much pressure 24/7...he is trying to be good to saanchi but at the same time his mind and heart is rejecting her and top of that that creep is literally trying to rape him...he needs space and time 😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
#45
This is true love❤️ i agree with you👍🏼 Want JaGan to marry
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@shankythebest

I agree with you. I did not say Jagya should be alone. Whatever decision he takes must be his own and something that makes him happy.

But it should be final.

I know serials have multiple marriages of one character. But that is criticised only.

Gauri showed off because of that childhood incident in which she felt Anandi and Singhs had broken her rishta. Otherwise she wouldn't have done it.

I wish Gauri had been shown to reform, redeem too. In fact I wanted to see her confront her parents for ruining her in first place and spoiling her marriage later also by giving her stupid ideas! And it is alright if she dislikes Singhs but she should have apologised to Jagya or responded to his letter (if it indeed reached her).

She has not been shown at all. So I am curious about her and I can't judge her. And I was more concerned only because of a pregnancy involved.

Yeah maybe Gauri should also marry someone else instead of Jagya as you said.

But Gehna-Basant's marriage for abusive, forced and he'd bought her, raped her. Still at some point they reconciled and worked their way forward.

I think there was nothing wrong in Jagya-Gauri relationship apart from family issues and legal issues. They liked each other and shared common goals at some point. And both have been at fault in it. So I had wished they and their respective families had worked out those, with mutual apologies, adjustments and all especially if Gauri was pregnant again.

CVs have left Gauri angle since the actress left. But I wonder what happened to her second pregnancy! And I wonder how she dealt with things after that public break up? Being a woman, she would not be spared from questions for sure.

Ganga is perfect for Jagya. I do not have problem with their alliance.

Maybe CVs only want to show marriages decided between adults as workable. Any marriage ever fixed as kids must be nullified and shown unsuccessful.

The pregnancy angle makes me feel about GaGa relationship. Otherwise I would not have bothered at all for their marriage was illegal and too many blunders were made in its course. And I've trashed Gauri and her mom a lot during that track. If she has terminated that pregnancy and is not repentant then it's despicable! Though I wish she is also reformed and behaves more sensibly instead of being bitter and vicious all her life.

Let's see.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Actually that pregnancy angle would have made a problem if JaAn would be united 🤔but after AnSh union no need of that Boring pregnancy track🥱
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Posted: 12 years ago
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After watching today's episode ..i really felt that BV Cv's are making people realize that ..though a men can have a failed marriage ..he can fall in love again with full of passion whom can't leave with out the love in his life ..
which i really don't understand...from his childhood he was bound to marriages ..He was called Anandi's husband for years and had a husband and wife relationship from child hood ..than he once he came to his young age ..He fell in love with gauri so madly that he he was ready to leave his family and wife ..and had a relationship with gauri ..though it was illegal ..but Neither Jagiya or gauri thought that they are having a illegal marriage ..they are totally aware of what they are doing and how they are going against the society ..they thought that their is love pure and their relationship is not illegal for them they married infront of god ..most of the indian marriage prefer a aginisakshi marriage than legal marriage ..so according to that they are married and she got pregnant twice.

Cv's should have given a proper end to this Gauri and Jagiya track before making jagiya gain falling in love passionately ...Jagiya left gauri in such a hurry by slapping her in public ...their relationship shouldn't end like that ..i felt that it was incomplete on both sides ..she is again preganant ..jagiya was totally in to Gauri till the last moment he came to know the truth..he was not planning or have any clue that he can't continue this marriage ..it was just knee jerk reaction after knowing the truth...

That can't be end that its a end of relationship on both sides ..they should have met and discussed their preference and should have end the relationship with mutual talk ..and should have chosen new life for both of them ..coming to a conclusion that they can't leave together anymore.

coming to jagiya and Ganga ...i can understand why Ganga fell in love and she is very clear about her feelings more than jagiya ...because its her first love experience and she didn't felt such attraction to anyone before .

but jagiya after two failed marriages with two women ..now again they are showing him transfer himself in to devdas mode ...who know how to fell in love and commits mistakes first and regrets later and can't find solutions to make his relationship sucessfull.

I won't say that a person can't love n number of times ...in olden days wife used to die giving births to child and the men used to marry the other women to take care family and children ..

it was like a commitment first after they make a good wife and husband as time goes on ..love is be least bothered in the second marriage but they will develop feelings slowly and stregthen their relationship on bases of understanding which may call as love later .

I would have prefered jagiya's marriage to be like that ..after such broken relationships neither men nor women dare to get in to marriage or love ..they prefer a blind marriage which was suggested by parents ..

personally in real world Men can dare for second marriage soon than women ..because ..Men is the deciding and doesn't need to compromise for lot of things than usually a women .

I feel like BV cv's are making mockery of Love and Marriage system of India to drag the serial as long as they can ..and more importantly making jagiya ' charectarization beyond understanding zone for people like me day by day .




Edited by vasiraju - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#49
I don't know how easy it is to fall in love again and again.
But in Jagya's case he is entitled to be happy and live a good life. If Gauri character was not terminated abruptly then I would not be happy to see Jagya fall in love again. I wanted creatives to give chance to Gauri to change and be happy in family life. It would have sent a good message, in spite of working/earning an educated smart wife can still balance family life. I cannot understand how one can terminate a marriage just because the wife doesn't respect husband's family. If that was the case more than half of the marriages will end up in divorce. I have to actually count how many of my friends love their in-laws and actually respect them 😃
Now that Gauri is not coming back, I am voting for Jagya-Ganga marriage.😊
When Shiv got transfer, Jagya agreed for marriage as he thought that will make his family happy. Saying yes for engagement with Sanchi was a big misunderstanding. He thought Sanchi was Anandi's pick, he didn't make an attempt to clarify with her nor did Anandi make an attempt to talk to him. This whole misunderstanding led to a weird relationship. Now we have to wait and watch how this will affect Singh's, Shekars.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Now Jagya has shown that it is easy to fall in love again and again.

He may have been married to Anandi in childhood but he did fall in love with her.

Then he went to Mumbai and he fell for Gauri there and then he dragged on his relationship for 5 years keeping both the women in his life in the dark and then he left his legal wife and his family chose to live with Gauri and make a life with her.

Just like any marriage will have ego issues and family issues his marriage had them too.But he did not have patience to correct them.He lef Gauri saying that she tried to seperate him from his family.When he himself moved away from his family how can he put the blame on Gauri?

If he was angry with Gauri and realised that she is not good enough to be his wife he should have stayed alone.Why did he try to get back Anandi who was bent on moving on in life?
After trying to do everything to ruin her life in the name of his love he finally accepted that he lost her.But he clung on to the memories.

He went to a conference/med exhibition which he was in no mood to go until he got to know that it is in Udaipur.He went to Udaipur once he got to know that they were on their honeymoon to distract himself from his misery he accepted Sanchi's company.This is what gave Sanchi the encouragement she needed.

He had no interest in marriage yet he agreed to marry Sanchi but he did nothing to strengthen his relationship with her.

Now he realised all of a sudden there is no life for him without Ganga.He doesn't find fault with Sanchi that means he obviously knows that he is the one at fault.

Now he feels he cannot tell anybody is great love and will continue his engagement with Sanchi for as long as he can and get married to her also knowing that he cannot love Sanchi.

He will have part 2 of the triangle.With Ganga and Sanchi.He will continue to rebuff Sanchi and think about Ganga.The same thing he did with Anandi and Gauri.

Obvioulsy he has not changed at all.


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