Jagya needs a quiet family than hyper youngester

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Posted: 12 years ago
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After watching yesterday's episode and Jagya's flashback with Ganga and Mannu i felt the guy is more in need of whole ready made family then a energetic bomb like Saanchi...he is attracted to Mannu and Ganga because they are somehow fillings the empty family-of-his-own feeling in him...i could clearly feel thaT now after going through so much Jagya just wants to live a peaceful life with his wife and son and if even now someone proposes him to marry Ganga he would do that...he like Ganga's stable behavior and he is finding Saanchi very childish...like Anandi said Jagya is past over the stage where he wants to have fun and enjoy and party all the time with his life partner...he just wants to live a nice life and carry out his responsibilities...that's why he is not interested in marrying Saanchi...Saanchi is too hyper for him...really wish someone other than viewers understands his situation...i am feeling really bad for this guy...more bad than i ever felt for Anandi...he is completely surrounded by idiots and noisy people...there is so much tension and stress in his life and now even Shekhars are dumping their waste load over him (sorry for rude language but that's what i see Saanchi as)
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shalinii173 thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Singhs are repeating the same mistake again. Even this marriage is same as balya vivah they doesnt want to know his preferences, dont want to know whether he is ready for the marriage or not but just doing WAt they want. Really bad. And Jagya because of his past mistakes he agreed to marry a donkey just for their sake. Poor Jagya.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalinii173

Singhs are repeating the same mistake again. Even this marriage is same as balya vivah they doesnt want to know his preferences, dont want to know whether he is ready for the marriage or not but just doing WAt they want. Really bad. And Jagya because of his past mistakes he agreed to marry a donkey just for their sake. Poor Jagya.

@bold 😆😆 donkey.😆plz don't insult donkey by comparing it wid sanchi.😆 donkeys r hard working & "bhola" animals but sanchi is "koso dur" from these qualitites.🥱
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It's sad that even his family don't even know what he needs. Jagya must be hitting 30 and now is ready for a mature partner and now he's got saddled with a girl who is still studying, has no real life experience and is childish.

It would have been better if jagya was left to his own devices but shiv and anandi had to bring him home and now he's stuck pleasing everyone for past mistakes.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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You would think that after 2 failed relationships the Singhs would show more thought and tact while considering a third marriage for their son. Even putting aside all the moral aspects of an alliance with an ex's sister-in-law, they should have consulted Jagya, and considered his feelings, his happiness and his future in this matter. If he wanted more time they should have given it to him. They just cannot afford to mess up another relationship and this rishta with Sanchi is just a disaster waiting to happen, not just for Jagya but for the Singh family & also the Shekhars.
Sumi's excuse of Anandi's saasra is not valid at all. Even the Shekhars were aware of the awkwardness of such a relation and were actually expecting the Singhs to refuse! And its strange that Sumi and Ds actually made him agree for this rishta only for the sake of Anandi but they didn't think to talk to Anandi herself, neither did they allow Jagya to do so. Nobody has thought much of the repercussions of such a marriage.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am surprised the otherwise Ziddi ladesar who always wanted his way-whether studying mBBS-or marrying someone of his choice-Gauri-has not once thought of marrying A musibat like sanchi-If he agreed for his parents/anandi-least he could do was take time out and figure whether he will be able to life a life with sanchi-mentally atleast-this jodi has compatibility on negative scales not even zero to add scores!!!Why is Bhairon silent???has become replaced Gehna-silently listening and nodding head !!
Only thing i am seeing is Dadisa who is otherwise upbeat about Jagya's matters is a little detached regarding this alliance-is she so because she already knows the downfall of this relation is on the cards and ehnce not wasting time -otherwise any fucntion in BH she is upbeat!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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As a character sanchi is cheap.She can never keep anyone happy until she gets a jhatka an change her thought.Sanchi is fun loving,childish,full of life,is just bull crap.If someone adds this qualities with sanchi then people will think that to be childish,immature,full of life,fun loving is wrong.If you insult a person without any reason it can't be avoided as childishness.Sanchi will behave the same in her eighties also if she doesn't change.When I think about sanchi four incidents come to my mind...She took her molestation as a weapon to blackmail her family,she faked that she can't face the mirror...She was trying to impress jagya by wearing short dress...She insulted her bhai and bhabi in their sagai by showing how her to be bhabhi has trapped her bhai...She was allowing sunny to touch her thinking him as jagya...I am leaving the ganga incident just because sanchi dislikes ganga.The girls who can fake with her mother,brother,also the person she claims to love,I can't expect any good behaviour for others.She is not childish,she is plain cheapo.And she can never be happy with anyone.She has the power of destroying a person's life within a moment.She is among those kinds of girls for example a girl proposes a boy and the boy refuses,the very next moment she will get angry and will tear her dress and claim that the boy has tried to molest her just to take revenge.Sanchi can be easily put to that category.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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She is the bad egg of the Shekhar family ...a thoroughly bad egg and unsuitable for marraige ...be it Jagya or anyone else . She has destructive tendencies and extremely shallow thoughts . A person who is capable of nataks to achieve goals and has the ability to manipulate elders is a most dangerous person . Shekhars applaud each faltu , normal deed of hers as something great and all this laad pyaar has gone to her head . She hates Anandi but had her limits from ousting her out as Shiv was firm about loving her and having her only as a wife . She hates Badi Haveli and their lifestyle .She only wants Jagdish and once married she will start insulting all in his absence with her customary rudeness till Dadisa advises Jagya to set up a seperate establishment . And she will run occasionally to maika to get her weekly pampering doses from Ira . As for Anandi , Saanchi is simply itching to tell Anandi to mind her own business and flex her muscles ...that now she has more right on the house than her . She was waiting for this . Her true self slipped out today when she asked Anandi to rudely butt out . Sumitra will repent if she brings this snake in . Her obstinacy in not allowing her adult son any power to take his own decisions will bombard on her face . The son actually feels at peace with this abused woman and her kid with whom he has developed a connection and is bored with Saanchi's shallow , immature thoughts .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well said. Saachi is very immature esp when she makes stupid prank calls to Jagya asking for help. Just wearing Indian clothes and making chai doesn't mean she has reformed and would make a dutiful bahu. Have they all forgotten how rude she was to Dadisa when her truth came out? How can they believe she has changed so quickly? Sumitra is hellbent on ruining Jagya's life by marrying him off to Saachi because she can't stand anyone being remotely as good as Anandi. Jagya's life was already disturbed with the balvivah being forced into a relationship at such a young age, and then manipulative Gauri does her damage. Atleast now they should let the guy live in peace and give him some time to make his own decisions.

Don't know what they were thinking. How would Jagya saying no to marrying Saachi have repercussions on Anandi's relationship in her sasural? Why would Anandi be blamed for Jagya's not wanting to marry an immature prat like Saachi? Infact now backing out would be so much worse for Anandi. And if Anandi has suffered so has Jagya so why does he need to make more sacrifices? And why didn't anyone actually open their mouth and ask Anandi what she thought about the proposal? This was so stupid. Anyways, only consolation is that they won't get married until after she finishes her studies so lets see if Saachi keeps up her act for that long or falters along the way to pave the way for Sumitra to apologize and welcome Ganga back into the haveli with the respect she deserves.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sometimes I feel more bad for him than anyone else. Even Bhairon and dadisa let him down in the name of keeping peace.

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